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jak do tej pory udało mi się w życiu zobaczyć 57 krajów
to już taka ilość, że myślę, że mogę wysnuć pewną teorię
teoria ta brzmi - ci co narzekają na polskę albo:
a) w dupie byli i gówno widzieli
b) tydzień na malediwach to jedyny pobyt za granicą jaki odhaczyli
c) narzekają żeby narzekać
po tym wszystkim co zobaczyłem - nigdy w życiu nie chciałbym się urodzić gdzieś indziej
serio mamy tu całkiem zajebiście, a jak tego nie widzisz - kurczę, przykro mi, bo musisz wieść bardzo smutne życie
polska gurom a tabliczka z sosnowcem dla zasięgów

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@fiat_money Jezus trzyma dzieciątko Jezus to jest perpetum mobile
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Precisely.
The definition of "rape" (sex without consent) is very male-brained, and when you try to copy-paste it onto women, the edges don't line up.
Men almost always have a crystal clear idea of what we want, so the question of whether something is rape, or whether rape is bad, seems very straightforward to us. But that's because a lot of us don't understand women, and we project our own thoughts onto them.
For women, questions like desire, preference, and consent are much more complicated.
See, women are the gatekeepers of sex, just as men are the gatekeepers of relationships, because eggs are expensive and sperm is cheap.
Under evolutionary conditions, spending some sperm is a dice roll or a scratch-off lottery ticket. If a woman isn't a good mother, or doesn't have good genes, well, so what? Men can always make more sperm and roll the dice again.
But an egg is an investment. Pregnancy is costly. And caring for an infant doubly so.
So women need to like sex, to want sex, but they also need to gatekeep sex, to pump the brakes, to try to observe a man's quality, even to throw obstacles in his way to test him if she can't get a good read otherwise.
This means that what is an extremely simple decision for men is a very complicated one for women.
Saying to women "Didja want it, yes or no?" is treating a whole lot of multivariate calculus as if it were simple addition.
Often, women don't know what they want.
And, for them, having Desirable Thing forced on them can be a fantasy, not only because the fantasy is about a man so assertive and powerful that he need not ask, but also because in this fantasy, she is so desired by the powerful man that he will not take no for an answer, and again also because she is absolved of the responsibility for figuring out exactly what she wants.
What this means is that "women sometimes fantasize about being raped" is a very different statement than "women like rape".
The first means that under some circumstances, with some men, women don't care too much about "consent", and would even rather not be asked. This is absolutely true.
The second would mean that women don't want to gatekeep sex, which is absolutely false.
Women don't know what they want, but they are usually crystal clear on 95% of what they don't want.
This means that women are instinctively wired to have a "no" that means no, a "no" that means keep pushing while I make up my mind, a "no" that means I don't know, don't make me decide, and a "no" that means yes, but make it look like your idea.
Part of what makes a man desirable to women is being able to effortlessly parse the difference between these.
Part of what makes a man low-status and icky is being unable to tell.
Women also don't like it when people talk about this stuff openly, just like I'm doing now. A big part of the whole reason for this dance is that women have an instinctive desire for plausible deniability of some of their moves in the mating game. They want attractive men to suavely and wordlessly navigate this maze, not autistically scribble instruction sheets.
To say nothing of the fact that the topic creates the fear that low-status, unattractive men who can't tell the difference may take the topic as a license to be pushy.
Plus, rape fantasies, like all slightly edgy sex fantasies, are a private guilty pleasure, and no one wants to discuss those things with strangers, especially not women, who are responsible for gatekeeping sex.
Unfortunately, we've reached a point of mass media social distortion where huge numbers of men and women have been programmed to be confused or dead wrong about this stuff, and that's starting to have civilization-wide implications.
So we can no longer confine these ideas to the unspoken realm of a nod and a wink and a dropped handkerchief, sexier and classier though that would certainly be.
We've reached the point where we have to have an adult discussion about what men and women are really like, free of politically correct and reality-free virtue signalling, and free of self-righteously holding individual men and women morally responsible for universal human instincts.
Lauren Chen@TheLaurenChen
To be clear. Women are not having fantasies about being assaulted by 70 IQ Somalis on their way home from work. They are daydreaming about dominant, handsome billionaires single-mindedly pursuing them despite their "protests."
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