jade ✡︎ שמחה रीट्वीट किया
jade ✡︎ שמחה
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jade ✡︎ שמחה
@gansimcha
24 • she/him | autistic + narcoleptic digital artist | doikayt + pirkei avot 2:21 | irish-american jewess 🌈🇵🇸🪬🌱
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jade ✡︎ שמחה रीट्वीट किया
jade ✡︎ שמחה रीट्वीट किया
Most rubbish online about "people pleasers" is retaliatory guilt from users
Yes, they're angry they involuntarily lost access, but they are mortified to be percieved as unpleasent and inconsiderate. They want the ppl they've mistreated to share moral responsibility. That is all
Крејзи Кет Лејди@nevroticna
@nnnnnnxox It's very easy to deal with a people pleaser if you have consideration and basic empathy for others but if they were always the entitled taker they will find it hard to be the better person and the last resort will be to villanize them to save their face
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Crux of their resentment is always:
"Why didnt you give me one last chance to reel you back in. I hate ppl who hold private resentment against me for exploiting their kindness. I lost access to a resource. Who does that weak person think they are for disliking me (strong)?"
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I would warn people against the belief that any individual or group has been so specifically, thoroughly, and uniquely victimized that it is categorically impossible that they themselves are capable of any form of violence. It is dangerous and it should not be dignified.
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Imagine having a concept of reality totally structured around running back and forth in receding surf. The phenomenal world is thousands of miles long and 20 feet wide
Nature Unedited@NatureUnedited
These little guys are so entertaining to watch
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jade ✡︎ שמחה रीट्वीट किया
80% of autism discourse on here can be summed up with this image
Majority Rogers@MajorityRogers
Brutal honesty, might be cruel but if you want accurate representation of autism, go for Jeffrey class of '09 He isn't what you would think of as disabled but he's just a fucking weirdo who nobody likes. That is essentially high functioning autism. Unlikeable, annoying weird.
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jade ✡︎ שמחה रीट्वीट किया
jade ✡︎ שמחה रीट्वीट किया
jade ✡︎ שמחה रीट्वीट किया
nobody:
blue jays: can you see me? can you hear me or see me? can you hear and see me?
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jade ✡︎ שמחה रीट्वीट किया
Dangerously naive to act like all conflict must be communication problems, because when you try harder to communicate with someone malicious, all it achieves is teaching them how to be even sneakier and even more manipulative. Discernment and willingness to vilify are essential.
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and by how cringe and embarrassing they think everything is
soosoorandom@sluvity_____
you can tell how much internal shame someone has by how judgmental they are.
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The fact theyre using the term "non confrontational" tells you they know they have something to be confronted about
I dont trust twitter, it attracts the plausible deniablity abusers the ones who cross the line just so & hope you havent noticed. Ghosting kills them, as it should
deciduously@rxbbynadir
the triangulation and narrative framing they start lets me know THEY know!
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