
an advice to indian men between ages 23-29 is to do whatever they can to not get longhoused. i've reached an age where i'm surrounded by marriages and also getting a glimpse into the absolute mess in indian gen-z marriages. one combo that keeps coming up repeatedly is of a longhoused husband + a free-spirited independent wife. you see, boomers raised kids in two ways: - one set of boomers were hyper controlling. running every action, decision, and withdrawing love the second their kid showed any will of their own - the other minority just gave full freedom and stayed of their kids lives as much as they could the first bunch created an army of "longhoused" kids wired to chase parents approval for everything. even trading off what they know is right just to keep the validation. this setup works somehow through school and college but the moment these guys hit the marriage market it explodes. a longhoused husband with an independent wife can't even decide to have sex without calling parents first. the wife spots the zero spine and starts seeking emotional/physical support outside. this is a recipe for disaster. break the approval addiction or you're gonna get fucked when marriage hits and you still need mummy-papa's permission for every move. don't become that guy watching his wife check out while he sits spineless and alone in his own house. grow a spine.
























