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"Instead of sleeping with men" My dear you are not special just because you don't sleep with men.. If you want to sleep with men, then sleep with them

This is a long one. Please do not judge her. First, my dear sister. You messed up and I am sure it is because you, yourself, you allowed it to happen. A man you are not married to yet, should not be in your house or his house alone with you. "Shaytaan will be the third person", as said by The Prophet. Let me not go through all those back and forth, cut him off. He will not marry you. It is that zina he wants. Yes, he may have liked you. But once a man has seen that part of you, while not married to you, a serious man will likely not go forward as he will think others also have their way that easy. Zina is a major sin. It is arguably the worst sin after shirk (an opinion attributed to Imaam Ahmad). Dear sister Anonymous, seek ALLAAH's forgiveness for what has happened. Don't let it happen again. What You Should Do Now: 1. Cut him off from any means of reaching you. He will not marry you. He will still try to reach out to you to have more of what you both had. 2. If he still tries to reach you, send him your parents number and block him again. 3. If he is not ready to meet with your father or male relatives to seek your hand in marriage, never uncut him off. Let him remain blocked on WhatsApp, call, Facebook and everywhere in the entire duyaa. 4. Never stay in seclusion with him or any man. Your body is a human body and it is also demanding. You can't be hungry and dying of hunger, while some good food, your best food, is beside you but you are asked not to touch them. You will eat it and clean mouth. Then apologise to the owner. Right? So apologise to your Lord, ALLAAH. 5. Be closer to ALLAAH. Discuss with your female and male friends and your inner circles that you wish to get married. Tell the pious people you know, in the local masjid in your area about how you wish to get married. Help comes when people know you need help. You will die hungry when you conceal hunger and don't have food to eat. 6. When the right man comes, you will know. Anyone who wants to come closer without talking of marriage is only interesting in "licking your honey". After the meal, they will go, they are no more hungry. They've seen the beautiful honey pot and know how it tastes. They go chase the next bee. 7. Don't tell people about your sins. Don't tell anyone. Hide it. Regret it. When you repent from a sin, disconnect from: - Those you used to sin together. - Those that make you sin. - One who has a connection with the sin. - Anything connected to that sin. - Delete all their contacts and then turn to ALLAAH. - Anything or anyone that reminds you of that sin. This is one way to repent from sins. 8. If no man is coming your way, propose to a good man you know has the ability and can take care of you. There are various ways to do this. You can go directly, if he HAS SENSE. You can send a brother. You can send a letter. You can send a WhatsApp message from a number you just registered on WhatsApp. His responses determines the next step. And many other ways. 9. Please be closer to ALLAAH read the Qur'aan more. Do a lot of sadaqaat. Pray Salaat in time. Do more nawaafil and especially the Sunanu Rawaatib. Likewise the night prayers. 10. Lastly, I will personally include you in my du'aa that ALLAAH provides you a husband who will be the joy of your heart and the bliss of your life. تلك عشرة كاملة May ALLAAH set our affairs and yours aright.

If you were two, he wouldn't have to give the other wife. That's not equality or equity. The basic thing required is equity and it means giving each of you wsht you need at any point in time without deliberately denying anyone. It does not imply that he must give the other wife whatever he gives you. He must give everyone what they need at the appropriate time as long as he has the means, that's the equity required of him.

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