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let me tell my opinion. manusia itu sendiri kompleks. kita ga bisa ekspektasi mereka berpikir dan lakuin yg sama kayak kita. i've been in that position, not easy, confused? yes, hurt? yes. tapi memaksa mereka untuk mau bicara juga bentuk immaturity, karena kita masing-masing punya hak. that's what i learned. kita juga ga tau lingkungan dia grow up gimana hingga dia lebih memilih begitu. so what i did ya.... menerima. menerima there's incompatibility.
kamu berhak bertanya, dia berhak juga untuk tidak bicara apa-apa. it's a free world we live in ✌️. you do you.
ebi@txtebi
gaada yang lebih pengecut dari orang yang tiba2 menghindar & ngejauh gitu aja tanpa ngasih penjelasan padahal dulunya sedeket itu. such a IMMATURE.
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gue dulu juga mikirnya gini. but now i realize, sometimes orang ngejauh bukan sengaja mau nyakitin, tapi karna mereka ga bisa handle conflict, takut confrontation, emotionally overwhelmed, atau emang belom punya emotional maturity buat explain their feelings properly
ebi@txtebi
gaada yang lebih pengecut dari orang yang tiba2 menghindar & ngejauh gitu aja tanpa ngasih penjelasan padahal dulunya sedeket itu. such a IMMATURE.
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It's always "ajarin matematika fundamentalnya dulu jangan langsung cara cepet" until people actually see what those "fundamentals" really are
Morgan Katalia 🌺【 VTUBER ID 】@MorganKatalia
Aku agak kaget juga soal mereka diajarin cara yang beda sama waktu aku dulu Contohnya yang simpel gini Ini kalau nalar anaknya belum jalan, mereka gaakan ngeh maksudnya apa
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Kirim pesan pada Reformasi: suruh ia pulang hari ini.
LEO. 🔻@ANARCHODES
“Anak itu belum pulang ⁄ Yang di seberang belum pulang”
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bener bjirr
thats why aku prefer cut off setelah selesai, biar sekalian sedihnya, nangisnya, hampanya, sepinya, sakitnya… tp abis itu aku bisa menikmati hidup lg. and we could go back to be friends, literally just friends. its kinda like a restart button
Orbi ツ@orbitually
My therapists told me that some people just don’t have the capacity to sit with and face the pain. Jangankan menghadapi, merasakan “kosong”nya aja sulit buat mereka. So they choose to avoid it and fill the gap with another person who is in the line, because it’s easier for them.
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Avoidant this, avoidant that, dollar noh anjlok lagi bentar lagi 20 rebu
Woodsy Corner.@muncorner
🍀 i hate avoidant cus wdym that person can just go and continue life like nothing happen while im here suffer with the feeling alone, sad but im just nobody :(
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Org yg suka ghosting sebenernya cuma ga mau menghadapi rasa ga nyaman saat harus ngasih penjelasan ke orang yg mereka tinggalin, krn itu cara paling mudah. Menurut gue statement "no closure is closure" cuma jadi bentuk normalisasi dari ketidakdewasaan dalam hubungan.
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Kalo orang pinter jadi presiden, dengerin pidatonya enak ya ga emosi
kale@kalistohenituse
meanwhile habibie pas rupiah melemah & krisis moneter:
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bayar kuliah mahal mahal cuma buat dengerin temen baca PPT
IPB Bercanda@IPBbercanda
spill kegiatan kampus yang menurut lu ga worth?
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dampak pilih persiden anti kritik, ketika ada isu, disepelein bukannya dikaji. that's why don't choose military person, their environment is so sick with seniority
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Begini yang gw maksud to be loved is to be accepted, to be loved is to be changed, to be loved is to be a better person day by day. Kalo kata Miles “you’re not difficult to love just because asking something.”
ebi 𓃹@kisscatto
to be loved genuinely is to be accepted in every ways, and after that— to be loved is to be changed by A LOVE that we cherish day by day. so.. find partner who’s willing to learn from both sides, find the love who teach us not the love which control us ____:3 GANGSTAAAAH
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