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@ona_nky It’s called authoritative parenting 😭 not strict, just consistent, present, and clear with boundaries. Kids cooperate when they feel respected.

The kids who are raised with fear learn how to avoid punishment. Kids who are raised with respect learn self-discipline. Some parents don't need to shout, threaten, or control every move because they are present, consistent, and set clear boundaries. Their children behave not because they are terrified, but because they understand accountability and mutual respect.

A bad manager can sabotage an employee’s whole career. And it happens more than you think.

You attend those Exco meetings and witness your direct line manager being treated like a peasant. Those guys are brutal.

One of the best things you can do for yourself in adulthood, is to learn how to leave things alone. Just leave it alone. Situations, people, whatever it is, leave it alone.

It’s so easy to tell when a collegue has an unhappy life at home, they cause so much havoc at work.

@Rrrrrraaah Mbali knows where to direct her anger. She fights her man..never the wives.

@lizzkelly7 Workplace credit theft is more common than people admit.

My aunt’s husband got scammed and lost R10k a few days before Christmas. They were devastated. On Christmas Day the family gathered at their house and the fraud conversation came up again. While he was explaining the case, his mother suddenly looked at my aunt and said: “Makoti awukayithathi? Besithi if uyithethe yibuyise.” We all went quiet. Imagine losing money, never recovering it, then your own family publicly accusing your wife with zero proof… on Christmas Day.

Never give people the reaction they’re looking for.. starve them.

I understand that you may not want me at your house the 1st day of bereavement, but for you to think I am there for the scones is diabolical!

@zandithebaker @ATHA_N Faka mama as long as esuthi..use that thing we use when we cut cakes when we baking, make that pap presentable..cut in flowers and heart shapes 🤣

Outfit inspo 😍😍😍😍

One thing about women: they can have a breakdown at 2 AM and still lead meetings professionally at 9

My nervous system doesn't tolerate yelling or arguing. Speak to me calmly, or don't speak to me at all

Work beef is so uncalled for bro just do ur job

@_ladytopaz She even faced away from Sne and her baby and apologized to Sne when she coughed

Hearing “uzoswaba” every time I got too happy as a child is probably the reason I’m always on edge after a good day🕊️

Lol no mara being with a man delays us bafazi

You can tell when a coworker doesn’t have a life outside of work.