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D/s or D&s refers to Dominants and submissives in a wide range of BDSM activities. love-hurts.net

Bondage is the practice of restraint for pleasure. It usually involves, rope, chains, handcuffs, shackles, clothing to restrain a sub.

Definition: Freakouts are when a submissive goes into emotional overload & can't take it. Learn your subs limitations and react accordingly.

The BDSM & Fetish crowd is a great bunch of folks. Newcomers are virtually always welcomed to the lifestyle and shown the ropes if you will.

It is a good idea to have safety precautions in place, including a safeword designed to stop the session at any time it becomes too intense.

Questions for Dominants: Do you allow sexual intercourse during sessions? Do you demand it? love-hurts.net

What type of bondage restraints do you find most appealing? Ropes, chains, handcuffs, something else?

Many in the BDSM lifestyle move between Dominant and submissive roles. These are known as switches. Kind of the best of both worlds?

BDSM submissives, also known as bottoms, are required to be obedient to their Dominant(s) at all times. love-hurts.net

BDSM Dominants or tops are the controlling participants. A Dominant is expected to maintain absolute control over his/her sub at all times.

Have you ever experienced the "Gates of Hell," a male chastity device w/ metal rings connected by leather which are placed around the penis?

Algophilia is a term for sexual arousal from receiving pain. Related to masochism and pain play. More at love-hurts.net

I have been told by my Domme to masturbate at least 3 times per week at work! love-hurts.net

Aftercare is the time after a BDSM session where the Dominant partner cares for the submissive during an unwinding or recovery period.

24/7 relates to a total power exchange in a relationship, on a continual basis? Is this right for you? love-hurts.net

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BDSM acts resulting in any bodily injury are illegal in the UK, even with consent. Therefore the BDSM & fetish scene is largely kept private

Online dating and BDSM groups provide an effective way to meet thousands of others who have similar interests. love-hurts.net

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