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Value your parents while they are alive because heaven doesn't have visiting hours.

Me calling my sister to tell her that one day I’ll give her the whole world But for now she needs to lend me 10k

Adulting hits different when you understand that weekends exist purely for recovery, not for actual fun.

The fact that no matter how smart you are, you cannot escape the stupidity of your society, is one thing that deeply pains me.

Shida ya soko sai,kila Ngo'mbe iko na ndama

The smarter you get as a person, the more you want to spend time alone. Read books, lift weights, make money and put God first.

I accepted a counteroffer early in my career. It was one of my biggest mistakes. I had been at my job for 2 years and I had an offer from another company. It came with a better title, more money, and remote work. When I resigned, my boss asked for 24 hours. They came back with a salary match & a verbal promise. They said a promotion was coming next quarter. My gut told me to leave. My friends told me to leave. But I stayed because I wanted to believe them. Next quarter arrived. There was no promotion. They told me the budget was frozen until the end of the year. When the end of the year came, a reorg hit. My boss was let go. My role got dumped into a larger team. The promised promotion track vanished. The other company filled the role I interviewed for, a month later. Companies “promise” counteroffers because buying themselves more time is cheaper than finding your replacement. Always get everything in writing. Or just walk away.

"I'm officially in the race to become a woman rep in next year's elections."

He explains why you should always visualize before bed:

You're a man. Forgive your parents. Forgive your ex-girlfriend. Forgive your former boss. Forgive your fake friends. It doesn’t matter how bad they wronged you. Grudges hold you back. Never revenge, heal, and move on with your life. That shit delays your blessings.

The man who treats every ordinary day as an opportunity to compound his discipline will one day live an extraordinary life.

You don't hate working. You hate: • Constant urgency • Office politics • Fake "team building" • Being online 24/7 • No respect for your time

Men, In addition, If you are the lastborn, Be a responsible man. Your parents & the homestead are your responsibilities. It is the reason in Afrikan culture, the lastborn remains to inherit the home while elder brothers emigrate outside the homestead. #MasculinitySaturday

Men, A woman who doesn't appreciate her father's bicycle, Will never acknowledge your bicycle. Nothing satisfies that woman. She will take you through hell as you struggle to impress her. #MasculinitySaturday

Men, • She has the latest iPhone, • She is always on flights, • She is in exquisite restaurants, Yet, she has no known work, or history of career progression, She is a whore. A hopeless, soulless, miserable, damaged woman. Avoid her. #MasculinitySaturday

Men, The rule of thumb is this, Don't have sexual affairs with colleagues and employees. This is a slippery road that leads to your destruction and demise. Don't go that route. #MasculinitySaturday

Your future is built on the days you didn’t feel like doing it but did it anyway.

The brain is designed to learn through constant repetition and active, hands-on involvement. Through such practice and persistence, any skill can be mastered.

A man who sacrifices his goals for women ends up losing both.