Victor

Uncomfortable truths about women nature every man should know

So, as a man, you came on Twitter to tell the whole world how your wife cheated on you or how you cheated on your wife. Please what exactly do you hope to achieve with that? What do you want a possible future wife to think of you, other than that you’re a weak and inferior man?🙄

Ever had Sex it your neighbor what led to it😁

No girl likes a broke man, if you don’t have money na only your mom will love you as a man — lady claims

Am I the only one who doesn’t see anything wrong in what she did? Ooh, maybe I’m a realist and I don’t get beclouded by emotions. That man is a red flag because every other man knows you should be ahead of your woman in certain key areas. Financially and intellectually, she should be able to look up to you as her leader and mentor. Men naturally demand respect and submission. You cannot expect that from a woman who earns more than you, who may even be smarter, and who has a career edge over you. Look at how Veekee James, at every slight opportunity, lets the world know that she is the one paying the bills and not Femi. How many men would tolerate that? Money carries authority and command. It takes great effort for a woman to earn more than you and still remain submissive. As a man, I can never marry a woman who is financially better than me. If I am earning 250k, I will marry a woman who earns the same or less. Someone may ask what happens in marriage if she grows and eventually earns more than you. That is different. At least she grew under my leadership. I must have played a role in her growth, and that is still to my credit. Always ensure you are financially steps ahead of your woman. He who pays the piper, to a great extent, dictates the tune. On the lady’s part, women are hypergamous by nature. She was honest with herself. When it comes to marriage and relationship decisions, women can be ruthless, as they should be. This kind of salary arrangement often leads to a 50/50 dynamic, or it results in issues such as her constantly explaining financial decisions or being pressured to support him financially. She knows the man more than we “online in-laws” do. Who knows how financially reckless he might be? He could be the type who constantly monitors a woman’s finances. As the higher earner, no matter how we sugarcoat it, even if the man insists on running the home with his modest salary, given the economic realities of the country, she will still carry a heavy financial burden. Many women do not want that. I like to be honest and blunt with myself. If this scenario involved my daughter or sister, would I encourage her to marry a man who is less financially stable than she is at the start of the marriage? Absolutely not. In the future, many of us will become fathers, and you will understand. When you visit prospective in-laws to say you want to marry their daughter, the first question is, “What do you do for a living?” Then imagine discovering that your daughter earns more than her husband-to-be. Ask yourself honestly whether you would still encourage that marriage.

My cousin just turned down a proposal because the guy earns 250k monthly and she earns 480k. Her words: “I don’t want to start explaining every financial decision for the rest of my life.” Now the whole family is calling her proud. Lol

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