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FROM MY INBOX 👇 I don’t even know if I should be angry, embarrassed, or just laugh at myself because looking back now, I feel like I turned myself into someone whose whole life revolves around making one woman happy. I have been dating my girlfriend for 4 years, and from the very beginning I made sure she never lacked anything. Anytime she complained about something, whether it was money for her hair, food, transport, bills, or even something she casually mentioned liking, I was always the first person ready to help because I genuinely believed that was what love meant. My friends have called me a simp countless times because they said I was doing too much, but I always defended her and told them that when you truly love someone, you don’t keep score. I was the kind of person who would rather go without something just to make sure she was comfortable, and I honestly enjoyed seeing her happy. I knew almost everything about her. I knew when she was upset even before she said anything, I knew when she needed help, I knew the little things that made her smile, and sometimes I would even send money without her asking because I already knew she was struggling. But recently, I started noticing that something had changed. She met a guy at work, and at first I didn’t think anything of it because I didn’t want to be that insecure boyfriend who gets jealous over every male friend. But slowly, I started seeing how excited she was whenever she talked to him. The same person who would sometimes take hours to reply my messages suddenly had time to chat with him. The same person who was always “too tired” to talk to me somehow had enough energy to laugh and gist with him for hours. One day, out of curiosity and honestly because my mind was already restless, I checked her phone. I know it was wrong, and I’m not proud of it, but I did it. I didn’t see anything physical or anything that clearly showed she was cheating, but what I saw still hurt me. The way she spoke to him was different. She told him things she barely told me, she laughed freely with him, and there was one message where she said something like “you just understand me.” That particular line stayed in my head because I started wondering what exactly I had been doing all these years. I’m the one who has been supporting her. I’m the one who has been showing up. I’m the one who has been making sacrifices. But somehow, another person was becoming the one who made her feel seen. When I confronted her, she said nothing was going on and that he was just a friend, and maybe she’s right. Maybe I’m just hurt because I feel like I gave so much of myself and somehow still lost that connection with her. Now I’m confused because I don’t know if I loved her the right way or if I loved her so much that I forgot to have boundaries. what do women really want? 😭

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FROM MY INBOX 👇 I don’t even know if I should be angry, embarrassed, or just laugh at myself because looking back now, I feel like I turned myself into someone whose whole life revolves around making one woman happy. I have been dating my girlfriend for 4 years, and from the very beginning I made sure she never lacked anything. Anytime she complained about something, whether it was money for her hair, food, transport, bills, or even something she casually mentioned liking, I was always the first person ready to help because I genuinely believed that was what love meant. My friends have called me a simp countless times because they said I was doing too much, but I always defended her and told them that when you truly love someone, you don’t keep score. I was the kind of person who would rather go without something just to make sure she was comfortable, and I honestly enjoyed seeing her happy. I knew almost everything about her. I knew when she was upset even before she said anything, I knew when she needed help, I knew the little things that made her smile, and sometimes I would even send money without her asking because I already knew she was struggling. But recently, I started noticing that something had changed. She met a guy at work, and at first I didn’t think anything of it because I didn’t want to be that insecure boyfriend who gets jealous over every male friend. But slowly, I started seeing how excited she was whenever she talked to him. The same person who would sometimes take hours to reply my messages suddenly had time to chat with him. The same person who was always “too tired” to talk to me somehow had enough energy to laugh and gist with him for hours. One day, out of curiosity and honestly because my mind was already restless, I checked her phone. I know it was wrong, and I’m not proud of it, but I did it. I didn’t see anything physical or anything that clearly showed she was cheating, but what I saw still hurt me. The way she spoke to him was different. She told him things she barely told me, she laughed freely with him, and there was one message where she said something like “you just understand me.” That particular line stayed in my head because I started wondering what exactly I had been doing all these years. I’m the one who has been supporting her. I’m the one who has been showing up. I’m the one who has been making sacrifices. But somehow, another person was becoming the one who made her feel seen. When I confronted her, she said nothing was going on and that he was just a friend, and maybe she’s right. Maybe I’m just hurt because I feel like I gave so much of myself and somehow still lost that connection with her. Now I’m confused because I don’t know if I loved her the right way or if I loved her so much that I forgot to have boundaries. what do women really want? 😭

FROM MY INBOX 👇 I don’t even know if I should be angry, embarrassed, or just laugh at myself because looking back now, I feel like I turned myself into someone whose whole life revolves around making one woman happy. I have been dating my girlfriend for 4 years, and from the very beginning I made sure she never lacked anything. Anytime she complained about something, whether it was money for her hair, food, transport, bills, or even something she casually mentioned liking, I was always the first person ready to help because I genuinely believed that was what love meant. My friends have called me a simp countless times because they said I was doing too much, but I always defended her and told them that when you truly love someone, you don’t keep score. I was the kind of person who would rather go without something just to make sure she was comfortable, and I honestly enjoyed seeing her happy. I knew almost everything about her. I knew when she was upset even before she said anything, I knew when she needed help, I knew the little things that made her smile, and sometimes I would even send money without her asking because I already knew she was struggling. But recently, I started noticing that something had changed. She met a guy at work, and at first I didn’t think anything of it because I didn’t want to be that insecure boyfriend who gets jealous over every male friend. But slowly, I started seeing how excited she was whenever she talked to him. The same person who would sometimes take hours to reply my messages suddenly had time to chat with him. The same person who was always “too tired” to talk to me somehow had enough energy to laugh and gist with him for hours. One day, out of curiosity and honestly because my mind was already restless, I checked her phone. I know it was wrong, and I’m not proud of it, but I did it. I didn’t see anything physical or anything that clearly showed she was cheating, but what I saw still hurt me. The way she spoke to him was different. She told him things she barely told me, she laughed freely with him, and there was one message where she said something like “you just understand me.” That particular line stayed in my head because I started wondering what exactly I had been doing all these years. I’m the one who has been supporting her. I’m the one who has been showing up. I’m the one who has been making sacrifices. But somehow, another person was becoming the one who made her feel seen. When I confronted her, she said nothing was going on and that he was just a friend, and maybe she’s right. Maybe I’m just hurt because I feel like I gave so much of myself and somehow still lost that connection with her. Now I’m confused because I don’t know if I loved her the right way or if I loved her so much that I forgot to have boundaries. what do women really want? 😭

FROM MY INBOX 👇 I don’t even know if I should be angry, embarrassed, or just laugh at myself because looking back now, I feel like I turned myself into someone whose whole life revolves around making one woman happy. I have been dating my girlfriend for 4 years, and from the very beginning I made sure she never lacked anything. Anytime she complained about something, whether it was money for her hair, food, transport, bills, or even something she casually mentioned liking, I was always the first person ready to help because I genuinely believed that was what love meant. My friends have called me a simp countless times because they said I was doing too much, but I always defended her and told them that when you truly love someone, you don’t keep score. I was the kind of person who would rather go without something just to make sure she was comfortable, and I honestly enjoyed seeing her happy. I knew almost everything about her. I knew when she was upset even before she said anything, I knew when she needed help, I knew the little things that made her smile, and sometimes I would even send money without her asking because I already knew she was struggling. But recently, I started noticing that something had changed. She met a guy at work, and at first I didn’t think anything of it because I didn’t want to be that insecure boyfriend who gets jealous over every male friend. But slowly, I started seeing how excited she was whenever she talked to him. The same person who would sometimes take hours to reply my messages suddenly had time to chat with him. The same person who was always “too tired” to talk to me somehow had enough energy to laugh and gist with him for hours. One day, out of curiosity and honestly because my mind was already restless, I checked her phone. I know it was wrong, and I’m not proud of it, but I did it. I didn’t see anything physical or anything that clearly showed she was cheating, but what I saw still hurt me. The way she spoke to him was different. She told him things she barely told me, she laughed freely with him, and there was one message where she said something like “you just understand me.” That particular line stayed in my head because I started wondering what exactly I had been doing all these years. I’m the one who has been supporting her. I’m the one who has been showing up. I’m the one who has been making sacrifices. But somehow, another person was becoming the one who made her feel seen. When I confronted her, she said nothing was going on and that he was just a friend, and maybe she’s right. Maybe I’m just hurt because I feel like I gave so much of myself and somehow still lost that connection with her. Now I’m confused because I don’t know if I loved her the right way or if I loved her so much that I forgot to have boundaries. what do women really want? 😭

FROM MY INBOX 👇 I don’t even know if I should be angry, embarrassed, or just laugh at myself because looking back now, I feel like I turned myself into someone whose whole life revolves around making one woman happy. I have been dating my girlfriend for 4 years, and from the very beginning I made sure she never lacked anything. Anytime she complained about something, whether it was money for her hair, food, transport, bills, or even something she casually mentioned liking, I was always the first person ready to help because I genuinely believed that was what love meant. My friends have called me a simp countless times because they said I was doing too much, but I always defended her and told them that when you truly love someone, you don’t keep score. I was the kind of person who would rather go without something just to make sure she was comfortable, and I honestly enjoyed seeing her happy. I knew almost everything about her. I knew when she was upset even before she said anything, I knew when she needed help, I knew the little things that made her smile, and sometimes I would even send money without her asking because I already knew she was struggling. But recently, I started noticing that something had changed. She met a guy at work, and at first I didn’t think anything of it because I didn’t want to be that insecure boyfriend who gets jealous over every male friend. But slowly, I started seeing how excited she was whenever she talked to him. The same person who would sometimes take hours to reply my messages suddenly had time to chat with him. The same person who was always “too tired” to talk to me somehow had enough energy to laugh and gist with him for hours. One day, out of curiosity and honestly because my mind was already restless, I checked her phone. I know it was wrong, and I’m not proud of it, but I did it. I didn’t see anything physical or anything that clearly showed she was cheating, but what I saw still hurt me. The way she spoke to him was different. She told him things she barely told me, she laughed freely with him, and there was one message where she said something like “you just understand me.” That particular line stayed in my head because I started wondering what exactly I had been doing all these years. I’m the one who has been supporting her. I’m the one who has been showing up. I’m the one who has been making sacrifices. But somehow, another person was becoming the one who made her feel seen. When I confronted her, she said nothing was going on and that he was just a friend, and maybe she’s right. Maybe I’m just hurt because I feel like I gave so much of myself and somehow still lost that connection with her. Now I’m confused because I don’t know if I loved her the right way or if I loved her so much that I forgot to have boundaries. what do women really want? 😭