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Kids dying of cancer almost always figure it out before anyone tells them. A 1978 study followed 40 children with leukemia, ages three to nine, and found that every single one of them had worked out they were dying. Most kept it secret, to protect their parents. The researcher was an anthropologist named Myra Bluebond-Langner. She spent nine months living on a children's cancer ward, watching the kids put it together for themselves. Even the three-year-olds figured it out. The most popular book on the ward was Charlotte's Web. When the kids understood what was coming, it became the only book they wanted read to them. They always picked the chapter where Charlotte dies. There's a name for what was happening between those kids and their parents. Two sociologists, Barney Glaser and Anselm Strauss, wrote about it in a 1965 book called Awareness of Dying. They called it "mutual pretense." Both sides know the truth, both pretend they don't, and nobody says the thing out loud. The kids pick it up from their own bodies first. The fatigue gets worse week by week. They watch the nurses' faces tighten when they walk in. They see the kid in the next bed disappear one day and never come back. A pediatric psychologist named Barbara Sourkes calls this "the wisdom of the body," the part where your body can't lie to you about how sick you are. The biggest study on this is from 2004. The New England Journal of Medicine published a Swedish survey of 449 parents whose children had died of cancer between 1992 and 1997. The researchers asked them whether they had talked to their child about death. Of the 147 parents who said yes, not one regretted it. Of the 258 who said no, 27 percent did. Among parents who could tell their child knew but stayed quiet, the regret rate climbed to 47 percent. When a story like this goes viral, with the "beautiful lie" framing of a mother protecting her son, it sounds like the protection only goes one way. The data says it almost never does. The parent thinks they're shielding the child. The child has usually been shielding them right back.

A mentira mais bonita do mundo. Mãe fez o filho acreditar que venceu a batalha contra o câncer para que ele partisse desta vida feliz.

O ator Cláudio Andrade estará na próxima novela das 21h da Globo. Recentemente foi questionado sobre o ensaio nu que fez pra G MAGAZINE em 2008, quando tinha apenas 23 anos e respondeu: "Foi uma fase da vida. A imaturidade nos leva por alguns caminhos, mas não me arrependo. Meu ensaio teve um aspecto muito artístico. Eu escolhi o fotógrafo e a produção. Hoje, maduro, pai de família e com uma consciência artística diferente, eu admito que não faria, mas encaro com naturalidade”.

a G foi em 2002 e a Playboy foi em 2003 .

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