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a thread on my insecure manipulative cheating abuser ex from mapua makati since he hasn't changed at all: ersher / redd tw // threats involving self harm, manipulation, suicide

i posted this since i don't want more people to suffer the same way i did since he also did these to his exes. stay safe girlies and know ur self worth! here's more stuff he did

yes, i do admit that i shouldn't have overlooked the red flags, but i really didn't want him to off or hurt himself. i always took his past into consideration, but it was to my detriment. anw i hope this spreads awareness on what kind of person he truly is.

he projected on me a lot. (1) accused me of cheating on him early on in the relationship when he was calling w his ex behind my back. she told my friends and he got mad at her lmfao... he rlly cant accept being wrong. (2) said i constantly started the fights

failing school because of me 🤣 coming home late? isn't it just because you were just a blatant cheating bitch? this dude spent 30k+ on gundams while i paid for most of our dates and food. he excused this by saying "it's his last year"

3) "anyone can fuck you to be honest" 4) "what if an open relationship would work cause you don't give a fuck about me" 5) said i'm "a person who loved to use people" 6) said i had no empathy 7) "what if you're the one who's abusing me" 8) he was failing school bc of me

when we played a 3v3 custom in valorant, i jokingly said "are you sure you wanna put [X] in the same team as me? wouldnt that be unbalanced" for context, this guy was good at the game and ersher straight up took offense to it 💀 thinking i called him shit

a thread on my insecure manipulative cheating abuser ex from mapua makati since he hasn't changed at all: ersher / redd tw // threats involving self harm, manipulation, suicide

speaking of valorant, he was VERY fragile. i 1v1'd him in valorant, won and said "ez" then he quit valorant and had a whole ass meltdown. "i've lost it all huh", "games were my #1 distraction... you're the only one who can make me happy now" our OA king 😍!!!!

he barely treated me as a person. when i deleted all my tweets, he got moody and said "everything about you is my property". when i played valo w my friends while waiting for him to wake up, he acted like this and said "i was jealous bc i reserved you"

very insecure, very moody, very controlling! after my class, i was with my friend to look around then we decided to eat. for TEN mins, i didn't message and he acted like this? later on he told me, it was because he was jealous of her as well since she could relate to me 😭 be fr

he was so insecure to the point that he made me rate everyone in my life from 1-10. i rated him a 7 for all the shitty things he was doing to me even though he deserved lower, and now he still takes offense to it as seen in the reddit post 💀

he would randomly end calls and unsend msgs to break up whenever he was moody and it was traumatizing. once, i told him i felt like he dismissed my problems, and he got moody instead? also when i reminded him of what happened last yr saying it triggered me, he made it ab himself

bs psych who loved to overwhelm me ! in dec he said "you're having it rough okay. ig you only have the problems huh. oh am i overwhelming you again .. did you know you're not saying anything... oh ano iiyak ka pa.... are u gonna cry? oh my god what will i do?"

even my counselor told me straight up that it was verbal and emotional abuse which my friends and brother also agreed on. she told me abt the cycle of abuse to gifts which was spot on too. "imagine his words as physical" btw he kept biting my arm for what fucking reason 😭?

when i tried to talk to him about how i felt abt things, he made it ab himself. my friends confronted him and then he told me he didn't eat for days, and he got upset bc i told them. when i wanted to hang out with my friend from class for the very first time, he acted like this

throughout all this, i confided in my friends, counselor, and my brother because i didn't know what to do. communicating was extremely difficult to do as he would make things about himself, be moody, or harm himself. the smallest things always set him off.

i constantly felt trapped in the relationship. he would say things like "you're the reason why i'm alive right now", "i would have killed myself if it weren't for you", "you'll stay with me forever?" "you're mine?" he even tried to trap me by buying me a switch in NOVEMBER

11/24, ersher asked me to be his gf and eat with his fam, but the day itself, i wanted to back out because he was EXTREMELY toxic as a partner. before this, he was already yelling at me and constantly asking to break up. i would always stop him bc he'd tell me he'd k!ll himself

you constantly complained abt how you'd always put too much effort in your relationships. anong effort ba yan? magcheat 😭? kahit bare minimum nga (respeto) hindi mo nabigyan sakanila eh.

since you wanna play victim so bad and paint your exes as bad people to whoever you're dating rn for sympathy, how about a reality check of how you act like? all you've been doing is saying your exes hurt you and traumatized you when all along you cheated on all of them? funny m

two months ago, u got blasted for being a cheater and now you're telling me you're in a relationship 🤣 you had the audacity to tell me that i'm not ready for a relationship when u've been jumping in one relationship to another w the same insecurities. do u even know who you are?

i didn't want to get involved with you again, but seeing you repeat the same cycle again after saying "you'll better yourself" is quite funny. losers will stay losers! am i right? anyway, before you worry about your dick size and height, worry about your personality first <3