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@xendless_s Sekarang kamu minta maaf sama cermin, cerminnya balik seperti semula ga? Kata video reels & tiktok
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A sad story from Japan, 18 years late.
In 2007, a 6-year-old girl was beaten to death in Osaka.
Her name was Reina.
Her body was placed in a metal storage case,
sealed in concrete,
and hidden in a closet.
February 2025.
Eighteen years later, she was finally found.
Her uncle — the man she had called “Papa” — confessed.
Last month, he was sentenced to 8 years in prison.
Most people stop reading here.
But the real story starts here.
Reina’s mother was buried in debt to consumer lenders.
The collection calls wouldn’t stop. The house was being watched.
She left Reina with her own father — Reina’s grandfather —
and moved out to work night shifts to pay it back.
The grandfather started calling Reina “this thing.”
He hit her.
Her uncle took her in, because no one else would.
23 years old. Unemployed. No children of his own. No experience.
Three months later, Reina was dead.
There is a problem in Japan that rarely makes it into English-language coverage.
Children raised by adults who aren’t their biological parents
face a sharply higher risk of serious abuse.
In 2021, Japanese police arrested 2,174 people for child abuse.
Biological fathers topped the list.
But stepfathers, adoptive fathers, and mothers’ live-in boyfriends — combined — made up roughly one in three arrests.
Every year, fatality reviews flag the same profile.
Young mothers.
Financial strain.
Isolation from family and community.
A non-biological man in the home.
It is not that these men are monsters.
Most are not.
The problem is that Japan treats the family as a sealed box.
Divorce still carries stigma.
Single mothers are financially cornered.
Neighbors are taught that intruding is rude.
Schools don’t ask questions about children who never show up.
And the children inside those boxes stay invisible.
Sometimes for days.
Sometimes for eighteen years.
Reina never went to kindergarten.
She never carried a school backpack.
In April 2007, when her first-grade entry notice should have arrived,
she had already been dead for months.
No one filed a missing person report.
No teacher asked where she was.
No neighbor knocked on the door.
The system that was supposed to count her
never counted her at all.
Japan’s official child abuse death toll is around 50 per year.
In 2016, a Japan Pediatric Society study estimated the real number is closer to 350 per year — more than three times the official figure.
Reina was one of the uncounted.
For eighteen years, she did not exist in any statistic.
Japan finally legalized joint custody this year.
A reform decades overdue.
But the reforms that actually matter are still stuck.
Mandatory welfare checks on children not enrolled in school.
Real authority for child welfare workers.
Serious screening of non-biological adults living with children.
This is not an abstract policy argument.
It is the difference between a 6-year-old walking into a first-grade classroom,
and a 6-year-old spending 18 years inside a block of concrete.
Reina wrote a letter before she died.
“To Papa and Mama. I love you so much.”
She gave that letter
to the man who killed her.
Reina, at six years old, had no other choices.
Her society should have had some.
Rest in peace, Reina.
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Apakah kamu orang tipe seperti ini?
-Suka menyendiri
-Tidak punya banyak teman, kalaupun ada hanya 1–2 orang
-Sering merasa tidak enakan dengan orang lain
-Lebih suka di kamar daripada keluar tanpa tujuan
-Bicara kadang tidak lancar, tapi lebih lancar saat menulis
-Suka self-talk dan obrolan yang dalam (deep conversation)
-Lebih nyaman chat daripada telepon
-Menyukai tempat alam yang jauh dari keramaian
-Tidak suka ikut campur urusan orang lain
-Pernah atau sering mengalami kegagalan dalam percintaan
-Cenderung memendam perasaan sendiri
-Tidak terlalu mengikuti fashion atau gaya hidup populer
-Tidak mudah FOMO atau ikut-ikutan tren barang viral
-Tidak suka basa-basi
Yuk saling connect kalau kita satu frekuensi.
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@indepenSumatera Kalau anda gausah buat portfolio, hasil kerjanya malu maluin.
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Pernyataan Jaksa Penuntut Umum dalam kasus dugaan korupsi yang menyeret videografer Amsal Sitepu kembali memicu keheranan di kalangan pekerja kreatif. Dalam pemaparannya,
JPU menilai ada dugaan niat jahat terhadap kepala desa dari pihak penyedia jasa, bahkan menyoroti penggunaan istilah berbahasa Inggris dalam Rencana Anggaran Biaya (RAB) serta dokumen penawaran. Tak berhenti di situ, JPU juga mempertanyakan alasan mengapa seorang videografer perlu menunjukkan portofolio kepada calon klien. Logika
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@akafaceUS This ring should be have two button checkpoint where he should back time. 1st making time checkpoint . 2nd press the button to go to the time checkpoint.
Or the ring have time restriction rewind to 5minute or 10 minute ago
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Bapakku cuma pedagang alat pancing di pasar. Tangannya kasar karena tiap hari gulung senar pancing, bajunya sampe tipis karena sering keringatan di pasar. Tapi dari tangan itulah, kami tiga saudara tumbuh.
Tiga anak dari pedagang pasar bisa sampai kuliah tinggi S1, bahkan S2 di kampus PTN yang bagus. Kami dapat beasiswa prestasi. Kata bapak pantang dapat beasiswa kurang mampu, karena bapak masih sanggup pun kuliahin S1 kalau ga dapat beasiswa.
Banyak orang bilang, “Wah enak ya bapakmu, ga perlu keluar biaya buat kuliah anak-anaknya.”
Setiap dengar itu, aku cuma senyum aja hihi. Seneng dikid.
Karena menurutku, bukan bapakku yang beruntung punya anak yang kuliah dengan beasiswa.
Justru kami yang beruntung.
Kami yang dapat privilege paling besar krn dari kecil ngelihat langsung gmn bapak kerja keras. Rezeki dan ilmu itu dijemput bukan ditunggu, berusaha sejak pagi buta saat orang lain masih tertidur.
Bahwa lelah itu biasa.
Bahwa pendidikan adalah satu-satunya jalan untuk mengubah nasib.
Sesulit apa pun keadaan keluarga kami, orang tua kami ga pernah menawar pendidikan. Dan pendidikanlah yang jadi titik balik keluarga kami.
Menurutku bukan karena kami lebih pintar dari orang lain, tapi karena kami tumbuh dengan kerja keras, ketekunan, dan KEYAKINAN bahwa mimpi itu layak dan HARUS diperjuangkan.
Bahwa GADA sesuatu yang ga mungkin, dan GADA kesuksesan yang MUDAH.
Hari ini, kalau ada yang bertanya siapa yang paling berjasa, jawabanku tetap sama:
Bukan kami yang hebat karena berhasil sekolah tinggi.
Tapi bapaklah yang hebat.
Mampirlah yang di Bekasi ke toko bapakku biar rame dia seneng😍😋
Tapi adikku belum lulus kuliah, masih semester 8 di unchdeeep. Doain semoga lancar yah🤍
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A Seattle man who shot and killed an eight-month pregnant Korean-American woman and nearly killed her husband when they were driving to work has been found not guilty by reason of insanity.
Cordell Goosby m—rdered Elina Kwon and her unborn baby in June 2023 when they were stopped at a red light. Prosecutors did not charge him for killing the baby due to concerns about protecting abortion in the liberal state.
After hearing testimony from defense medical experts that Goosby was "insane" at the time of the shootings, the prosecution agreed to have the case ended through the not guilty motion.
Goosby will be committed to an institution and regularly evaluated to see if he is fit to be released to the public. ngocomment.com
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@neVerAl0nely___ Cita cita bapak ingin kamu jadi femboy , lalu marah lah si anak karena ia ingin menjadi sigmaboy
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Hari pertama Hari Raya Idul Fitri yang seharusnya menjadi momen saling memaafkan justru ternodai oleh aksi tak terpuji di Karawang. Seorang anak angkat terekam melakukan tindakan kasar dengan menendang kepala ayah yang telah membesarkannya.
Peristiwa ini sontak mengundang reaksi keras dari warga dan warganet. Banyak yang menyayangkan tindakan tersebut, terlebih dilakukan di momen Lebaran yang identik dengan silaturahmi dan saling menghormati dalam keluarga.
Kejadian ini juga memunculkan kembali perbincangan tentang pentingnya pendidikan karakter, rasa hormat kepada orang tua, serta nilai-nilai moral dalam keluarga.
[ Sumber: Berbagai Sumber ]
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