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Rachel Baker

Rachel Baker

@iamyourbaker

Writer & editor; co-creator of the Spread newsletter (women overthinking women, weekly)

Charlottesville, VA Katılım Mart 2009
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Maggie Bullock@maggiebullock·
In this, the year of Julia Fox, Top Gun, “responsible ejaculation”, shrooming mamas, and Ginni Thomas, the Spread (ie: me and @iamyourbaker) humbly submits our picks for the best “women’s media” reads and writers of 2022 thespread.media/p/the-envelope…
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BuzzFeed@BuzzFeed·
From Industry to Abbott Elementary, these shows will make you feel like you never left — whether you think that's a good thing or bad. buzzfeed.com/allisonjiang/w…
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Palmer@phouch·
I was pretty early on Loretta Lynn. I remember picking up her (checks notes) 42nd solo studio album and telling folks this lady was the real deal.
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Jessica DeFino
Jessica DeFino@jessicadefino_·
are boy moms feminism’s biggest threat?
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Rachel Baker@iamyourbaker·
@jessicadefino_ Because perpetrators are human beings, too. And this one is a child. I can’t apologize for compassion, and I never said that the child shouldn’t face repercussions. There’s a need to hold space for both of these—anger and hurt and the need to punish plus compassion for a child.
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Jessica DeFino
Jessica DeFino@jessicadefino_·
@iamyourbaker get that! i wonder if you should privately examine that change (“how has proximity to males & power [being an adult rather than powerless teen] dampened my drive to fight against abuse & made me sympathize with perpetrators?”) rather than publicly spread sympathy for perpetrators
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Rachel Baker@iamyourbaker·
@jessicadefino_ I am WITH Fiona (and you re Fiona) 100 percent. What I am trying—and obviously failing!— to say is that I found myself surprised to have felt empathetic for Diego AT ALL after such he committed such a terrible offense. That somehow the 20 years post-high school have changed me.
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Jessica DeFino
Jessica DeFino@jessicadefino_·
@iamyourbaker while "fiona" doesn't get to leave the experience of being violated behind—& not only being violated but *not* being supported by adults, parents, teachers, & systems that should protect victims/the vulnerable. i still think your POV is under-examined here! recommend reading: 2/
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Rachel Baker@iamyourbaker·
@jessicadefino_ children of all genders deserve grace when they mess us up. Being part of a team raising a boy is indeed a ton of responsibility—I talk to our boy kid about consent and consequences at least once a week….
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Rachel Baker@iamyourbaker·
@jessicadefino_ Hi, Author here! First time I’ve ever been called a “boy mom”—a term that I loathe and not only because I’m technically the boy’s stepmom—given that as of next week I’ll also be a parent to three (3) girls! My point that holds is that I think….
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Irin Carmon
Irin Carmon@irin·
Just a perfect synthesis of ignorance of the human body, people's actual lives, and instrumentalization of women as baby and feeding machines whether or not they want to or can.
Eric Sammons@EricRSammons

I have sympathy for parents who are unable to obtain baby formula due to the evil and incompetence of politicians. I would also say that hopefully this is a wakeup call to become more self-sufficient—God literally designed mothers to feed their babies.

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Meaghan O'Connell
Meaghan O'Connell@meaghano·
we made a big, servicey package about C-sections (before, during, and after) with all the judgment and stigma taken out, which, believe me, is HARD TO DO romper.com/c-section-guide
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