subterfuse
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I had such a lovely day yesterday, a few first time experiences with my sub which went down unexpectedly well.
I can see how easily people can be taken advantage of in this industry. The trust my subs have in me can feel quite overwhelming at times.
I have to balance pushing their limits with their overall health and wellbeing, and that could be a fine line. I wouldn’t change it for the world though.

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I don’t want to get everyone too excited…but I won my 2nd appeal and I’m back 🙌🏼
@msmashablues will be kept as a back up though!
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@subterfuse6969 🤣 well, let’s see how that pans out for you!
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@BoundinBanter @missmashablues What a load of b*****ks, your content is always respectful and safe. Can’t see why they would suspend account! Hopefully you get it sorted asap!!
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Guys, @missmashablues has been suspended. It’s in appeal at the moment.
I’ll update if it’s permanently gone…it’ll be like giving myself a reinvention if it is! No point crying over it.
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@OwnerAriella Definitely 100% metal, more secure and can feel it on more. Had plastic break in the past and that is just yoouch!!
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@missmashablues Damn, you looking amazing in that outfit @missmashablues as always!
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@subterfuse6969 I will take that as enthusiastic consent 😆
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@missmashablues I’m suddenly getting flash backs from a previous visit with you @missmashablues aaaaaaah 😊😊
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@missmashablues Less is more definitely applies here 😮😮 @missmashablues
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@missmashablues Your aftercare and care is definitely more than 50% of my reason to return when I can. The rest is the added bonus 🫢
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Having someone take hit after hit, and only break down when there’s compassion shown towards them is such a societal issue.
To think what they bottle up inside, for fear of ‘being weak’, is why we lose men to suicide daily.
What people don’t see from me, is the time I give after sessions to sit and talk (when I can).
A space held for conversation. To talk with someone you don’t ever have to visit again in your life if you choose not to, but feel safe in the knowledge what you say will remain private.
I always wanted to do my bit for mental health since I was in my late teens, and it’s maybe not how I imagined, but it exceeds everything I thought I could offer 💙
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@missmashablues No implements are needed for you to leave lasting mark that stays for a very long time 😊 @missmashablues
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@subterfuse6969 Actually yes! He was wearing ice cream, raspberry sauce AND meringue 🤣
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@missmashablues I most certainly would @missmashablues , damn wish wasn’t so busy for next wee while 🤦♂️🤦♂️
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@missmashablues Definitely 1000% missed seeing your happy face @missmashablues
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