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Simp got cooked by a feminist. I keep saying don't inflate their ego, but simps don't listen.

مدينة الحياة Al Khobar ❤️❤️❤️ 🇸🇦🇸🇦🇸🇦🇸🇦

@Sabydabydoo Yes absolutely. Financial transparency is very important too.

Would you ask your potential if they’re in debt. Do you feel this is an important question. (Not student finance etc, I mean private debt bc you had money related issues in the past).

Ibn Rajab al-Hanbali: Some scholars said: “If you have a big stomach, you should consider yourself disabled until you become slim.” [Al-Jami, page 519]

Thank you for the abuse and thank you for giving me your good deeds for free. And if you need to reiterate that you’re a “man” you probably are suffering from inferiority complex yourself. I have no beef with Zaid’s pawns. Besides, Zaid has done nothing but divert the topic himself. Anyway, to each their own.

@SubservientSoul @zaidchakir Found the incel. Shut up and listen to men who understand life better than you

Once you understand women only shop excessively because they’re trying to fill the hole in their heart, you realize there’s no such thing as a gold digger. She’s just searching for happiness bro

Yeah she’s saving Xbox’s ass

Very apt display name.

@ZamindarHasan13 Yup a 100%

@SubservientSoul They're projecting the goals of their age onto their daughters.

One of the reasons of marriage crisis are parents. They're already married and love their children too much. They don't want their children to become independent and leave them after marriage. So they over education their daughters especially.

Be careful not to expose a fellow Muslim, or Allah may expose you, even in the privacy of your own home.

Classic “you’re using ChatGPT”. Anyway, I never denied a man’s responsibility to lead and influence. “Be a man, pay her bills”. What are you even saying all this for? I didn’t ask for a lesson on how to be a responsible man. You’re just indulging in Red Herring fallacy for sometime now. And you don’t need to use ChatGPT to see Red Flags. Or maybe you’re going through a lot in your marriage which is why you need to justify yourself here, even though nobody asked. If you want to be a therapist, you’re most welcome, But usually men look for a wife to be a husband to.

Brother, A. stop using ChatGPT to respond, and B. Don’t get married until you understand this: Your job as a man is to lead your wife, through communication, leadership, influence, reprogramming, whatever you want to call it, a good woman will absolutely be emotionally dependent on you and that’s healthy and totally normal, and you should want your wife financially dependent on you so her focus can be on taking care of you, taking care of herself herself, and being a mother. Be a man and pay her bills, and whatever deficiency she has in excessive shopping or anything else your mindset should be to help her, to create an environment to stop these things, not to demonize or alienate her.

@zaidchakir Appreciate it. Marriage takes work, absolutely. But a healthy marriage is built on mutual maturity, not on a man 'reprogramming' a woman's emotional voids. If pointing out that financial and emotional codependency are red flags means I need luck, I'll gladly take it.

@SubservientSoul Lol good luck being married

Bro, you just described a full-time therapy project, not a relationship. Whether she wants your wallet or a savior, it's the exact same drain on your bank account. Like I said, as if swapping 'greed' for 'unhinged emotional void' makes it any better. You're just changing the diagnosis, not fixing the symptoms.

@SubservientSoul It’s not about what’s “better” it’s a diagnosis of the reality. The point is as a man if you can bring your wife satisfaction and fulfillment, and help her grow you can teach her not to rely on shopping therapy or materialism, and to reframe and reprogram things.

Obedience to Allāh will always seem ‘extreme’ to people who normalize disobedience.

Calm.

Focus on earning loads of cash guys 💰

If Saladin saw this statue of himself, he would likely have it destroyed. Making statues of living beings is against the sunnah. The prophet ﷺ said...

Āmir bin Qays رحمه الله said to his cousin: “Leave your matter to Allah, and you will be at ease.” 📖 Ḥilyat al-Awliyāʾ (2/90)