These are just normal texts i feel like i’m losing my mind

Oh my god this is her whole account. Allistic ppl should start in jail and prove their way out.

@pfaffphobic Texts I’ve received from my sister who is autistic

@pfaffphobic The buddy thing feels condescending :/

@pfaffphobic Allistics would literally take a pet more seriously than an autistic person

@pfaffphobic i went through her acc a bit and a lot of these upset me bc how are these quotes funny, he’s just expressing his emotions or wants? like i rlly don’t see how this is funny bc this is exactly how i communicate if i don’t like something 😭😭 allistics at it again

@pfaffphobic When people use buddy like that oh....

@pfaffphobic "autistic people are so cute and preciousssss <3" and it's normal ass texts

@pfaffphobic vs the texts between my brother and i: autistic to autistic communication

@pfaffphobic the way allistic people use their autistic family members for asspats on tiktok needs to be studied because I’ve seen this exact sort of thing on at least 5 seperate occasions

@pfaffphobic okay thank you for letting me know buddy ! allistics be normal for once challenge

@pfaffphobic She'd think my family would need to be committed if she saw our fam group chat. "I've just seen an albino pigeon" "Did you know they do eco friendly balloons now?" "Soup for me, I've just has a new crown fitted" "SKY'S OFF"

@pfaffphobic Autistic here why does it feel infantilizing almost..? Or … not that. But something close to that.. like “awww look at my autistic brother and how he texts” when it’s literally just like??? Normal???? I feel like my mom would text these to me???

@pfaffphobic i would be so pissed and hurt if i found out every little mannerism of mine was being blasted as a "look at my autistic brother" while i'm just trying to function

@pfaffphobic oh i hate this so much

@pfaffphobic Jeez she's so condescending, talking to him like a toddler

@pfaffphobic allistics think everything we do is a spectacle

@pfaffphobic meanwhile the texts i get from my autistic brother:

@pfaffphobic “buddy” made my blood boil

@pfaffphobic this (her entire account) is so gross of her, just using him for views and likes

@pfaffphobic This is how my dad texts bruh this isn’t autism

@pfaffphobic that incredibly patronising “thanks buddy!” nahhh

@pfaffphobic I saw one of these a while ago that literally just like “love you sis! Good luck on your test” like ???? What are non-autistics siblings texting eachother?????

@pfaffphobic These posts feel weirdly infantilisimg

@pfaffphobic I hate when people call me “buddy”. I am not a child and I have a name. It’s infantalizing

@pfaffphobic if my sibling talked to me like this i would maul them

@pfaffphobic It's the infantalisation of autistic people. I'm autistic and I work with autistic kids and adults and we see their families do it all the time because they see the disability and stereotypes before the person.

@pfaffphobic Normal texts but a bit cheerier and some emojis

@pfaffphobic Aside from him using emojis like an MLM hun on the prowl for new blood, i don't see the issue with these either

@pfaffphobic Does he know that his sister is using him for content?

@pfaffphobic she does not deserve him holy shit /neg

@pfaffphobic "buddy" and it's a grown man omg

@pfaffphobic Meanwhile my brother, who is also autistic (because mine texts like every younger brother his age who is "too cool" to talk to their sister)

@pfaffphobic "the storm is getting closer" seems slightly ominous but that's it

@pfaffphobic seeing these normal ass texts and posting them in relation to your brothers autism and then also texting him back like that makes me a little suspicious. but i must stay positive