DeCustom
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DeCustom
@CustomPreye
very opinionated but open-minded, Ijaw and proud.
Nigeria انضم Temmuz 2016
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@sepril23NG Why can you say such a thing without sharing any or even just one reason?
You put an advice in our head we don’t know about and then ask us to go do research
Una go just dey act uncultured sometimes
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@Presh__lee @viktorbensonyt Whatever helps you sleep at night. It's only cohabiting that is a sin “visiting for a week or two” is righteous
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Usually, staying a week or two in a man's house is not automatically considered as cohabitation.
Cohabitation means two people living together in a romantic or domestic relationship. Meaning you'll be doing the wifely duties you're supposed to do in marriage and having a lot of sex when you're not married. Don't cohabit with a man for long. Visit him and go. A week or two is okay. If you're visiting for a week or two it is more of a temporary stay or visit not truly cohabitation.
Packing your belongings to go stay with a man parmanently is not wise.
Visit and go back to the yr papa house and come back again. 6 months, 1yr, 6yrs what are you people doing actually.
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@DanVinci16 @xandresvoid And a highly skilled fight which soldier boy isn't
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🥀Soldier boy would beat the fuck out of Captain America, it’s not even close
Vought Crave@VoughtCrave
Hydrogen bomb vs coughing baby
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@xandresvoid Soldier boy can't even fight and he isn't that strong
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@queenhadassah24 This is not even theoretically true let alone practically.
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Two virgins who marry each other can’t fight over sexual compatibility. They learn everyday till they master how to satisfy each other. You only talk about sexual compatibility when your spouse has had multiple sex partners before marriage.
HOT LEGS BIBI🙄@ButterBibi
Sexual Compatibility is valid like mad. As a Christian, how do you know you’re sexually compatible with your partner before marriage?
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@OneJoblessBoy Watch how odumo go find way get issue with this talk
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KENDRICK LAMAR or J. COLE?
DRAKE or KANYE WEST?
JAY Z or NAS?
EMINEM or LIL WAYNE?
FUTURE or TRAVIS SCOTT?
BLAQBONEZ or ODUMODUBLVCK?
REMINISCE or CDQ?
LADIPOE or FALZ
VECTOR THA VIPER:
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@Wizarab10 That's the most important thing o! It's against “Christian values”
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At least they didn't cohabitate before marriage.
Shrija@plot_twistttt
A lot of married women are getting fucked at the gym.
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@IamEriOluwa @Limalino6 Dude wants to be preaching contentment to a sexually starved woman.
So she'll keep herself just so she can be chopping lectures about contentment for the rest of her life? 😂🤣😭
Una wicked pah!!!
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@Limalino6 No, but I have heard about contentment. Can you define it for me?
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If both of you are genuine Christians who abstain from premarital sex,
you won’t have to worry about sex in marriage at all.
You’ll be fully content with whatever your spouse has to offer, because neither of you will have unrealistic expectations shaped by past experiences.
Only people whose sexual meters have already been broken...by multiple partners or premarital hookup
would look at what you bring to the marriage bed and call it "too low."
HOT LEGS BIBI🙄@ButterBibi
Sexual Compatibility is valid like mad. As a Christian, how do you know you’re sexually compatible with your partner before marriage?
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DeCustom أُعيد تغريده
If a statistic from the next 5 years was measured that suddenly showed that a lot more women who cohabited ended up getting married than the ones who didn’t, the argument on here would radically change.
To them cohabitation makes marriage less likely by cheapening sex as a value proposition which is all most have to offer. Everything is a bargaining chip with marriage as the end goal. I can’t blame them.
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@sirhighbreed No,it means the only position you will get in the coochie all in is missionary or woman on top.
No flat doggy or whatsoever that needs you to be behind
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Does big nyash mean the hole is bigger or??
®️ E L E@ReleGlo
You can't have a small D🍆 and be looking for a girl with big nyash. Be fair😂
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@carter6f How many accents can she herself do?
The average American artiste learns to do the Spanish, Russian, Arabic accent and still at least gets 50% African accent. She can’t even an another accent of a neighboring Nigerian tribe.
Forever victims
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“A lot of recent American 🇺🇸 movies and series always mention Lagos or Nigeria 🇳🇬… they even use our names like ‘Ayo’ and ‘Chi Chi’
I was cringed watching Captain America: Civil War in Lagos because they didn’t even get a Nigerian to do the real accent 💔”
— Genevieve Nnaji
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@osemagnum Conversation turned from cohabiting to “I am a virgin” attention whores
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VIRGINITY AND SEXUAL DISCIPLINE IS A HUGE FLEX
VIRGINITY AND SEXUAL DISCIPLINE IS A HUGE FLEX
VIRGINITY AND SEXUAL DISCIPLINE IS A HUGE FLEX
VIRGINITY AND SEXUAL DISCIPLINE IS A HUGE FLEX
Deborah Ocheido@d_ocheido
Virginity and sexual discipline in today’s world is a HUGE FLEX. If e easy run am
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@Taiwo_junzi After cohabiting when you don’t want them what next?
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You no go like cohabit nau.
You repeat one bra like a billion times…
You leave your plates to stay in the sink overnight…
You have 3 other person you are in serious relationships with…
You know if you’re seen in your entirety, no sane person would commit to you…
I genuinely understand you.
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@Wizarab10 You’ve been insinuating in various posts, that those who are against it as also sleeping around.
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I did not ask you na 🤷🏽♂️
Deborah Ocheido@d_ocheido
I did not sleep with any other man before my husband. Say another thing🙂
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@Victoria0580 @samjunyarts I personally don't care about your version of the gospel and neither does the other guy.
If you're going to argue you have to stay on topic.
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@Victoria0580 @samjunyarts Lol 😆 children.
Does it occur to you all this applies to just you and those like you? No one outside your world are held by these shackles and besides no one here was claiming to be the best Christian.
Again stuff this holier-than-thou shit up where the sun don't shine.
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Dickson continue cohabiting just leave Christianity out of it.
The other day a lady said sexual compatibility should be discussed in church ..lol.
Just do you with your full chest leave christianity and need for validation .
Sir Dickson@Wizarab10
1. Sex with other people. Good. 2. Sex with your partner. Good. 3. Sex with married person. Stop sleeping with people's husband. 4. Lie It's not that serious 5. Malice You people are wicked ooo 6. Cohabitation It is a sin Cohabitation is the only time you remember sin
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@ODUNMADEIT It might shock you to learn that not everybody is. True Christians desist from premarital sex.
Even when the worship of Baal became rampant in the land of Israel, there were still at least seven thousand people who never bowed their knees to him.
Let that sink.
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‘Cohabiting works if you are not having sex’
‘Cohabiting = fornicate’
Please are you people not having sex on a normal day before?
SKB@seyikanbai
“I lived alone with Temi for four months during the COVID lockdown. It was my first time cohabiting, and that’s when I truly realized how much I love her.” — Mr Eazi
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@Victoria0580 @samjunyarts Just the same way you love your sin and would defend it
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@samjunyarts People love their sins so much. They’d do anything and say anything to defend it. SMH
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@okikiayo11 Did statistics also show if they would have lived happily if they hadn't cohabited??
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Annual breakdown rates suggest that approximately 5.3% of cohabiting couples separate each year, compared to around 1.3% of married couples, indicating that cohabiting relationships are substantially less stable.
Everything is wrong with Cohabiting!!!
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You do not need to cohabit to know the person you want to marry. Not even at final stage.
Research shows that couples who cohabit before marriage face approximately a 39% higher risk of divorce compared to those who do not.
Not permitted to type long,ask grok under this post.
Taiwo_junzi@Taiwo_junzi
You fling, rinse and repeat till you get your ideal type or someone whose weaknesses you can live with. As I always say, cohabiting is the final stage of dating. It’s the courtship stage of the marriage. Other conditions should typically have been met before the decision to cohabit comes into the picture. Intending couples should typically have had series of trysts where they were engaging in meaningful conversations (and even the seemingly mundane conversations) and should have gone through some phases together before cohabiting. But many people are in a rush and do not like to take their time so they cohabit wrong and for the wrong reasons then blame cohabitation. You should not cohabit with someone you don’t even know well but many are in the habit of dating for 3 months and wanting to get married as a result. There is nothing wrong with cohabiting!!!
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