Geoff V

@MatthewCoast 🌴🦋☕️🍪⚘️

The right man will make you believe in love again... not because he says it but because he proves it. You've heard the words before. "I love you" from men who didn't act like it. "I'll never hurt you" from men who hurt you repeatedly. "You're the only one" from men who had whole rosters. "I'll change" from men who never did. Words stopped meaning anything because they were never backed up by action. So you stopped believing in love. You stopped trusting promises. You stopped hoping for better. You stopped thinking real love actually existed. You built walls to protect yourself. You created exit strategies in every relationship. You kept one foot out the door just in case. You decided it was safer not to believe. But then the right man shows up. And he doesn't just tell you he loves you. He shows you in a thousand different ways. He proves it with consistency. He doesn't disappear when things get hard. He doesn't go silent when you need him most. He doesn't change up when the excitement fades. His effort doesn't decline after he's won your heart. He's the same man on day one and day one thousand. He proves it with his actions. When he says he'll call, he calls. When he makes plans, he shows up. When he commits, he follows through. His words and his behavior always match. You never have to wonder if he means what he says. He proves it in how he treats you. He respects you in public and in private. He honors you in front of his friends and family. He protects your heart like it's precious. He values your peace like it's sacred. He doesn't just talk about loving you, he lives it. He proves it during conflict. He doesn't call you names when he's angry. He doesn't use your past against you in arguments. He doesn't threaten to leave every time you disagree. He fights for the relationship, not against you. Even when he's upset, his love remains. He proves it with his loyalty. He's not entertaining other women. He's not keeping his options open. He's not doing anything he'd need to hide. His phone, his time, his heart... they all belong to you. You never have to compete for his attention. He proves it with his patience. He understands that you're guarded because you've been hurt. He doesn't rush you to tear down walls that took years to build. He gives you space to heal while assuring you he's not going anywhere. He earns your trust instead of demanding it. He knows you need to see it to believe it. He proves it with small things that mean everything. He remembers what matters to you. He notices when you're off and asks what's wrong. He does things to make your life easier without being asked. He pays attention to the details that others overlook. It's not grand gestures, it's consistent care. He proves it by choosing you every single day. Not just when it's easy or exciting. Not just when you're at your best. Not just when he's getting what he wants. But in every season, through every challenge, in every moment. And slowly, something shifts inside you. The walls start to come down. The fear starts to fade. The hope starts to return. The belief starts to rebuild. You start to believe in love again. Not because he promised you the world. But because he showed you through his actions that love can be real. Not because he said all the right things. But because he did all the right things. Not because he told you he was different. But because he proved he was different. The right man won't just say he loves you. He'll make you feel so loved that you can't help but believe again. He'll restore your faith in love. He'll heal wounds you thought were permanent. He'll show you that everything you went through was preparing you for this. And you'll realize that real love was worth the wait. The right man is coming. And he's going to prove that love is real.

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@maximumpain333 @truthwarri81261 🌴🦋☕️🍪

We Indians know about silence. We are not afraid of it. In fact, for us, silence is more powerful than words. Our elders were trained in the ways of silence, and they handed over this knowledge to us. Observe, listen, and then act, they would tell us. That was the manner of living. With you, it is just the opposite. You learn by talking. You reward the children that talk the most at school. In your parties, you all try to talk at the same time. In your work, you are always having meetings in which everybody interrupts everybody and all talk five, ten or a hundred times. And you call that ‘solving a problem’. When you are in a room and there is silence, you get nervous. You must fill the space with sounds. So you talk compulsorily, even before you know what you are going to say. White people love to discuss. They don’t even allow the other person to finish a sentence. They always interrupt. For us Indians, this looks like bad manners or even stupidity. If you start talking, I’m not going to interrupt you. I will listen. Maybe I’ll stop listening if I don’t like what you are saying, but I won’t interrupt you. When you finish speaking, I’ll make up my mind about what you said, but I will not tell you I don’t agree unless it is important. Otherwise, I’ll just keep quiet and I’ll go away. You have told me all I need to know. There is no more to be said. But this is not enough for the majority of white people. People should regard their words as seeds. They should sow them, and then allow them to grow in silence. Our elders taught us that the earth is always talking to us, but we should keep silent in order to hear her. There are many voices besides ours. Many voices… ~ Ella Deloria ✨🙌🏾💫 Artist © Foxcross

@MatthewCoast 🌴🦋☕️🍪

Sex doesn't mean much to her, emotional connection does. She can go forever without physical intimacy. Physical desire isn't her primary need. Her body responds to her heart, not the other way around. When her mind isn't safe, her body won't be available. When her emotions aren't nurtured, her passion disappears. What she craves is mental and emotional safety. She needs to feel understood before she feels desired. She needs to feel heard before she feels wanted. She needs to feel valued before she feels attractive. She needs emotional intimacy before physical intimacy. She doesn't need you to tell her she's sexy. She needs you to tell her what you admire about her mind. She doesn't need you to desire her body. She needs you to appreciate her heart. She doesn't need you to want her physically. She needs you to connect with her emotionally. She needs a man who sees beyond her appearance. She needs someone who values her thoughts and feelings. She needs a partner who makes her feel mentally stimulated. She needs a lover who makes her feel emotionally secure. Be her best friend and her lover. Be the person she can talk to about anything. Be the one who understands her deepest thoughts. Be the man who makes her feel safe to be vulnerable. When you connect with her mind, her body will follow.

@MatthewCoast 🌴🦋☕️🍪

There are still men who believe in loving one woman for life. They haven't been corrupted by hookup culture. They're not impressed by body counts and conquests. They don't measure their manhood by how many women they can get. They don't see relationships as disposable. They believe in forever. These men still exist, even though the world makes you think they don't. They're the ones who watched their grandfathers love their grandmothers for 50 years. They're the ones who saw what real commitment looks like. They're the ones who want to build that kind of legacy. They're the ones who aren't afraid of the word "forever." They're not interested in playing the field. They're not swiping through dating apps looking for the next best thing. They're not keeping a rotation of women. They're not afraid of commitment. They're not running from responsibility. They're looking for the one they can build with. These men believe in choosing one woman and sticking with her. Through the good times and the hard times. Through the exciting seasons and the mundane ones. Through the days when love feels easy and the days when it requires work. Through sickness and health, just like they meant it. They're not looking for perfect, they're looking for permanent. They understand that attraction will fade and return. They know that butterflies don't last forever. They recognize that real love is a choice you make daily. They're prepared to choose the same woman over and over again. They believe in growing together, not growing apart. When challenges come, they work through them. When temptation arises, they turn away from it. When things get boring, they create new excitement together. When life gets hard, they lean in closer. These men don't trade in their woman for a newer model. They don't leave when she gains weight. They don't cheat when she's pregnant. They don't abandon ship when she's going through a rough patch. They don't look for exits when things aren't perfect. They remember why they chose her in the first place. These men still believe in traditional values in a modern world. They believe in being a provider and protector. They believe in honoring their commitments. They believe in being faithful, not just when it's easy. They believe their word means something. They're building for the long term, not the right now. They're not interested in temporary satisfaction. They're thinking about building a family. They're planning for a future that includes one woman. They're creating a legacy that lasts beyond their lifetime. These men still take marriage seriously. It's not just a piece of paper to them. It's a covenant they intend to keep. It's a promise they'll die before breaking. It's a commitment that means forsaking all others. They're the men who will still be holding your hand at 80. The ones who will still call you beautiful when you're gray. The ones who will still choose you when you're no longer young. The ones who will still love you when life has weathered you both. The ones whose love deepens with time instead of fading. They're rare, but they're real. They're the ones who aren't interested in modern dating games. They're the ones who want something their friends might mock. They're the ones who are willing to be countercultural. They're the ones who believe love is worth fighting for. These men are looking for women who believe the same thing. Women who want forever, not just for now. Women who value loyalty over options. Women who are willing to build through every season. Women who believe in the power of commitment. If you're that woman, don't settle for less. Don't waste your time on men who want to keep their options open. Don't give your heart to men who don't believe in forever. Don't build with men who have one foot out the door. Don't accept "for now" when you want "for life." There are still men who believe in loving one woman for life. They're out there doing the work to become the man worthy of that kind of love. They're out there waiting for a woman who wants what they want. They're out there believing in something the world says is dead. And when you find each other, you'll build something beautiful. Something that lasts. Something that endures. Something that proves real love still exists. Forever isn't dead. It's just waiting for two people brave enough to choose it.

As a man, be private. Keep your plans, your money, your struggles, and your wins to yourself. The loudest mouths achieve the least. Silence builds empires.

🚨 BOOM — TRUMP IS EXACTLY RIGHT After another assassination attempt: “When you're a consequential president or if you have a consequential administration, things happen that wouldn't HAPPEN if you're Joe Biden!” “The world was happy [with Biden!] You know WHY they were happy? Because they were taking ADVANTAGE of us because they treated the United States like we were stupid people!” “And they made a lot of money, but they don't do that anymore.” 🇺🇸 @RapidResponse47

Be so real that your realness makes the fakeness of fake people so uncomfortable that they either become real too or leave. 💖❤️

Pay no attention to the smoke and mirrors. Keep your eyes on Jesus Christ, The Light of the world! It's about to get intense

@zachqfish 🌴🦋☕️🍪

🔥 The Veil Is Thinner Than You Think What if everything you see is only the surface… a thin veil stretched over something far more vast? We’ve been taught to trust our eyes, our senses, the solid ground beneath our feet. The grass… the sky… the world we move through every day. And yes, it’s real in its own way… but it’s only the outer layer. Beneath it… within it… all around it… is a living field of energy, frequency, and intelligence that most people never stop to feel. Not because it isn’t there… but because we’ve been conditioned not to look. Reality isn’t flat. It isn’t singular. It’s layered… responsive… alive. And every now and then, something shifts inside you. A moment of stillness… a feeling you can’t explain… a knowing that doesn’t come from thought. That’s you brushing up against what’s been there all along. You’re not separate from it. You were never outside of it. You are part of the same field… the same intelligence… the same unfolding. This isn’t something new arriving. This is something ancient… something constant… something waiting patiently beneath the noise for you to remember. And once you feel it… even for a second… you can’t unfeel it. The veil doesn’t disappear all at once… it thins quietly… until one day you realize you’ve been standing inside the truth the entire time. ZF 🔥

My Grandpa Told Me These 4 Marriage Rules 1. If you stop talking when you're hurt, the marriage will rot silently - speak the truth even when your voice shakes. 2. Love is not proven by words but by daily effort - romance fades fast when responsibility disappears. 3. Never fight to win; fight to understand - winning an argument while losing your partner is the worst victory. 4. If you don't choose each other every day, someone else eventually will - loyalty is a daily decision, not a promise from the past.

Isn’t that the truth? ❤️ And glory to God for helping us overcome it. May His peace and love be in your heart now and forever.

According to psychology if a man has these 5 traits..

@zachqfish 🌴🦋☕️🍪

🔥 Awakening Can Strain Relationships… Here’s What’s Really Happening I wrote this a year ago… and it feels even more real now. What I’ve seen since then is simple… awakening doesn’t just change you… it changes every relationship around you. When it begins, it can feel like your whole world is coming undone. The beliefs you once stood on don’t hold the same weight. The life you were building can suddenly feel empty or misaligned. And the version of you that used to fit into everything so easily starts to feel like something you can’t go back to. At the same time, something deeper starts calling you. Something ancient, something true. You feel it pulling you forward… but the people around you don’t always understand what’s happening. They feel the shift, but they can’t name it. They see you changing and it brings up fear… fear of losing you… fear of losing what felt stable… fear of questioning their own reality. So sometimes it comes out as concern. Sometimes as judgment. Sometimes as distance. I’ve watched people lose relationships over this… not because they did anything wrong… but because they stopped pretending to be who they weren’t. That’s the part people don’t talk about enough. Awakening isn’t just beautiful… it disrupts everything built on autopilot. And not everyone knows how to meet you there. It’s not because they don’t love you… it’s because your change touches something in them they may not be ready to face. And if you’re on the other side of this… watching someone you love change and feeling like you’re losing them… hear this clearly. They are not broken. They are not lost. They are not rejecting you. They are becoming more of who they actually are. It can look messy. It can feel confusing. It can seem like everything is falling apart. But underneath all of that… something real is being rebuilt. This moment asks something from both sides… not fixing, not convincing, not forcing understanding… just presence. Breathe instead of reacting. Listen instead of assuming. Stay open instead of shutting down. No one is responsible for pulling someone into awakening… and no one is responsible for stopping it either. The only thing that matters is how we show up while it’s happening. I’ve seen what fear does in these moments… and I’ve seen what love does. When love stays… even without full understanding… something powerful forms between people. A bridge. And that bridge isn’t built on who you used to be. It’s built on allowing each other to grow without trying to control the outcome. Some will walk this path before you. Some will walk it after you. Some won’t call it awakening at all… but they’re still evolving in their own way. None of it is wrong. If we stop trying to force each other into timelines and just hold space instead… everything shifts. We’re not here to fight each other. We’re not here to prove anything. We’re here to remember… together… even if it happens at different times. Hold each other through the storm. Meet each other where you can. That’s where the real change happens. ZF 🔥