Ayọ̀ọlá.
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Ayọ̀ọlá.
@Handyleema
Educationist/ Biologist/ Molecular scientist/Genome editor (Crispr-Cas9). Doing hard things quietly, one pathway at a time through Allah
Lagos, Nigeria انضم Ocak 2019
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A corpse was dumped at a street in Akute on Sunday. A woman claimed to have seen some guys on bike last Sunday night dumping a body.
She tried challenging them but was scared of meeting the same fate.
The shop owners in the street reported the incident to the police but they were asked to bring money before taking the corpse.
They all went to the local government and they were told that they would be burying the corpse themselves since it happened in their street.
They are paid a sum of 150k to get him buried and their shop front fumigated.
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Avogadro's law lo so wipe, the same volume of all gases at the same temperature and pressure contains equal numbers of molecules
ope falabs ❤️🔥❤️🔥@ope_falabs
What is that Definition you learnt in school that you cannot forget??
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@Nimisioluwa She wants money.
Her sister's death isn't her concern.
She's just sad that the deceased had nothing worth inheritance for her
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Are you guys seeing the Ashabi Oloshe drama with her dead best friend’s family?
Ashabi Oloshe had a best friend who died in 2023. She was accused by the best friend’s elder sister of killing her sister, and they even said she used her because two months after she died, Ashabi celebrated her new house that she built.
They wrote a petition against her and three others calling for justice, but after back and forth the case was dropped because the person who wrote the petition refused to show up.
She has been online on different blogs accusing Ashabi of killing her sister and claiming she had some money with her too.
Ashabi Oloshe is explaining her own side of the story.


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This girl said: “Yesterday was my boyfriend’s birthday. At exactly 00:00, I sent him ₦400k because his birthday is in April (the 4th month).
I didn’t want to buy him boxers and clothes, so I thought, “Let him spoil himself with my money” instead,
We’ve been together for over a year and some months.
I planned a surprise dinner for him that evening. During dinner, my battery was low, so I needed to take pictures. I’d been busy on X all day.
After taking a bunch of selfies, I started scrolling to pick the ones to post. That’s when I saw two debit alerts. Both had “love you” in the description. One was sent to his mom… the other to a random female name.
I quickly searched that name on his WhatsApp and found the chat. Turns out he recently met this girl and has been professing love to her.
I stayed calm, finished the dinner without any drama, then went home instead of spending the night at his place.
He didn’t even seem bothered.
Now I’m at home regretting the ₦400k I sent him… and also low-key regretting not reacting at all during dinner.”
What would you have done differently?
GIF
enite@ehvrmony
WHAT WOULD YOU HAVE DONE BETTER?
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Hello Lola, I am a Muslim, and our spiritual tradition has a very deep approach to raising children. I want to share some tips from our scholars that will be beneficial to you regardless of your faith.
First of all, our theology teaches the concept of Fitrah. This means that every child is born with a pure heart. At six years old, she is not a criminal mastermind. She does not have a wicked soul.
If she doesn’t have all these, then what is happening? The truth is that she is just lacking impulse control and testing boundaries. By this, if you look at her as a manipulator, you will fight her. However, if you look at her as a pure soul making mistakes, you will be able to guide her.
Secondly, for every problem anyone faces today, it has been solved in history. The only problem is how to locate them.
A classical scholar named Al-Ghazali wrote about child psychology over 900 years ago in his famous book “Ihya Ulum al-Din.” In his section on disciplining children, he gave a practical rule I want you to adopt going forward.
He advised that parents should never push a child into a corner where they are forced to lie. When you ask a question you already know the answer to, her survival instinct kicks in. She cries and she lies to defend herself because she is scared of you. Stop interrogating her. Just look at her and state the fact. Say, I know you took this, and we are going to return it right now.
Again, another scholar and sociologist Ibn Khaldun addressed this exact behavior in his masterpiece titled: “Al-Muqaddimah.” He warned that when a child is raised with harsh punishment, they learn deceit, trickery, and lying to protect themselves. This is why she is covering her tracks and crying to manipulate you. The fear of a harsh reaction is making her a better liar.
Lola, do not attach a label to her. Do not ever call her a thief. If you attack her identity instead of her action, she will internalize it and grow into that dark label. Tell her the action is wrong but protect her dignity.
Make her return the item. Do not fall for the tears. Hold her hand, walk her back to wherever she took it from, and make her hand it back and apologize. The discomfort of returning a stolen item teaches a much better lesson than beating her will ever do.
Finally, I don’t know if you are a Muslim, but never underestimate the power of your own words. In our faith, we believe the prayer of a parent for a child goes straight to God without any barrier. Pray over her. Pray for her heart to be content and for her character to be straight.
Keep doing this consistently and the habit will break.
Allah knows best.
Lola💎@ComfortLolaa
How do I stop a child from stealing? She’s just 6 years old, but she steals like an expert, covers her tracks perfectly, and denies it with teary eyes so much that you start to feel bad for her and even second-guess yourself as an adult.
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@YusufAsunmogejo Jazakumllah khaeran
I learnt a lot from this beautifully written piece.
I deal with children and I'll adopt it moving forward
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The wife of a family friend is pregnant but doctors are telling her that the pregnancy is just growing but there's no baby inside her womb. They are monitoring her before evacuating (whatever is inside her). How can one be pregnant without baby inside the womb? I've heard of ectopic pregnancy but never heard of this. Like there's no baby in or outside the womb. 💔
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@CorrectBabie She doesn't have a problem with the foetus growing in her. Her problem is the duration you revealed. Make I no say my mind finish
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This lady came for a scan with her baby of about 2 years. She missed her period, did a urine test and it was positive, so she came to confirm how far along she was. During the scan, I told her the baby is 22 weeks. She was like, “Ahhh no oo, how na?”
I said, “Ma, you’re 22 weeks and 4 days.” She started shouting that she cannot keep it, no oo. Mind you, she
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This man is the one I always call whenever I need to fumigate my compound, and he was around again this morning.
I’ve noticed that anytime I ask for his account details, he gives me his wife’s instead. Curious, I finally asked him why, especially since he’s a very sensible man.
He simply said, “After me, na my wife. If anything happens to me or I kpai today, who will take care of the children?”
That really touched me.
As he was leaving, I jokingly asked if he had received the alert. He smiled and replied, “Madam, I told you, na my wife get the account.”

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@TJkings01 She initiated it, but it's your decision to make.
Tell me your family's member gathered to give you the beating of your life
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I missed an opportunity that would have transformed my life forever and till today, I am in total regret.
During my National diploma days, there was this girl I was dating I loved this girl so much and everything was going smoothly, not until an opportunity came for me to go study abroad.


RUKEVWE👸✨@Ruky_Baby27
Share an experience you want people to learn from.
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@realBigStanH Yes we are gullible. Oya go and face your Oga.
Faceless account threaten your job and marriage, but we are the gullible ones. Oya na 😂
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When a grown ass family man like you is telling a faceless account posing as a man your family business on X…
I’m sure you would have bad mouthed your wife, said bad things about her and your family to him and even spilled her secrets.
Because tell you why he is so confident that he can end your job and marriage…
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@cruise_vibez @ComradeAtt Naaa, you didn't have to interfere.
She's still her mother
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Your nose is connected to the memory centre of your brain. That's why smell can trigger powerful memories
Stronggirl💪🇨🇲🇪🇸@stronggirllolla
Share a random health tip
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@stronggirllolla Dey play.
Sperm wey no get directions or magnitude
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