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@JonathanMercy12

Psychologist in the making✨🫶🏾/proud Christian✨✊🏾/Lover of Christ✨🫶🏾❤️/A Mother To A Wonderful Boy❤️😌/Wife❤️

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@JonathanMercy12·
A new phone as a birthday present..!🙏🏾🥺😣
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TG OMORI
TG OMORI@boy_director·
Run from bandits, Run from police, Run from thugs.
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Chicken Catcher🐔
Chicken Catcher🐔@Only1Etubo·
I have tweeted this a few times, and I will tweet it again. Firstly, we cannot say they didn’t build or buy a house for their fathers just because it wasn’t posted online. Secondly, if they didn’t, there must be a story behind it. Lastly, and most importantly, we men underestimate the importance of bonding, showing up, and emotionally supporting our kids. We act like these things aren’t as important as providing. Many men don’t even try at all. no bond, no emotional support, and just providing. Do you know why many men are quick to disown their kids? It’s because there is no bond. We see it online all the time: a video of kids making mistakes, and men commenting, “If any of my kids try this, I will disown them.” That easy? The first thing that comes to your mind is to disown them? I changed so many diapers, soothed their sickness, and endured every tantrum, and you just want me to disown my kids? Many men see kids as people they only need to provide for. If all you do is provide, while the mother does the showing up, emotional support, and bonding, then when the kids grow up and it’s time to give back, they will do the same. Not because they are bad kids, but because that’s what they learned. They will celebrate their mother more. They will talk to her more. Meanwhile, you as the father who only provided, will only receive financial gestures and gifts. You will be taken care of. They will like post their mom and rarely post you. Ask people who openly celebrate their dads if all he did was provide. But if you never celebrated them when they were young, why should they celebrate you? You can’t expect them to miraculously create a bond you never built. If you’re lucky, your kids may unlearn that pattern and try to build a relationship with you, but it will be difficult, because they were raised with, “As a father, it’s my way or the highway.” I work 12 to 16 hours sometimes, and my daughter has a game right after that. I get tired, really tired, but I still show up. And many times, when I get there, the smile that lights up her face when she spots me in the crowd is priceless. I love seeing that. Do you think I always have the strength to go to parks, birthday parties, pools, and watch her play sports? Sometimes I want to rest, but I still try. And whenever I can’t make it, I communicate that with her. I don’t just fail to show up. I explain and give her reasons. So, my brothers, providing for your family and being emotionally present aren’t mutually exclusive. Try. Otherwise, when you are down, your kids won’t be beside you on your deathbed, but they will make sure you d*e comfortably.
YOM🗣️@ThaBoyYom

Hard to count 10 9ja celebrities that built/bought a house for their fathers Ok maybe 10 is too much, just 5. Either the Man don already d!e.. Or na their Mama dem buy am for. 8 outta 10, fatherhood na thankless job.

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Henry Isong
Henry Isong@iCreators007·
I know one too who was very wealthy when he was younger. Wealthy and full of life. He married 4 women, sponsored(not raised) all his kids. Most of them are abroad. Some are doing well. Some are junkies. Today, he is abandoned too in Nigeria and depends on extended family for survival. I used sponsored and not raised. Many of you will sponsor your kids. You won't raise them. Then at old age, of course they will abandon you. When you are ready to raise kids, you will find out that it takes much more than money. It requires your time and values. Goat no dey born dog Lion no dey born goat What you put in is what you get. As long as the eelarth remains, sowing and harvest shall not seize. Whatever a man sows, he reaps. If you want kids to care and bond with you, you will raise them in a way that will make them do that when they grow. Them no dey learn how to use left hand for old age.
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Everest
Everest@novieverest·
The Nigerian Army killed a corps member and is lying about it. Just this April alone, the Nigerian Army has lied at least 3 times. Tinubu has corrupted an institution that should be very truthful. We are finished.
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Bro. Bonaventure
Bro. Bonaventure@EBona69·
I travelled to the village today and I went to greet my uncle. He's my dad's immediate elder brother. When I entered his house, I saw him putting on a city Boy's cap with the Tinubu's logo. I asked him how he got the cap and he told me his son came back from school and gave it him. He said his son told him to vote for Tinubu and that he will vote for him. This his son is in his second year in the university and I have been paying his school fees, right from JAMB registration till now. This my uncle started preaching to me to vote for Tinubu. I just left with everything I came to give him and brought them back to Aba. I called the son this evening and he confirmed that he's now a member of the City Boys. This boy has the gut to beg me for feeding money. I just told him that he will never receive any kobo from me again and blocked him. The father has been calling me, but my mind is made up shaa. Before you support this wicked administration, make sure you can take care of yourself.
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𝐀𝐔𝐍𝐓𝐘 𝐀𝐃𝐀
Son used Ai to turn his mother’s old photos Into a 60th birthday gift 💝
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panda@pandaa·
Deleting in 24 hrs, whoever Iikes and says “hi”, we’ll send you a surprise dm! 🐼
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21 Clips 🎬
21 Clips 🎬@Clipsbaba21·
Born to hunt, built to dominate… Kraven the Hunter goes hard 🎬🔥 y'all need to see this movie 🍿
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En Júpiter
En Júpiter@En_jupiter_·
Entonces somos los verdaderos animales.
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Olamide .
Olamide .@olamide_adee·
If you’re supporting APC please don’t look to join my team or send a cv. Asides the fact that I won’t be giving my hard earned money to any APC supporter , I’m also fully aware that your judgement on what is right is seriously flawed , you cannot build your life talk more of building a company . Please don’t apply .
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Dr. Chinonso Egemba
Dr. Chinonso Egemba@aproko_doctor·
Life hack: It's good for your mental health to always have someone that is always happy to see you. If you don't have someone, get a pet that is always excited to see you. You need to feel what it means to matter.
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ريمو
ريمو@remas_828·
بعد شهر من زواجي، حماتي قررت تقعد عندنا كم يوم. كنت متوترة… متوقعة نقد على كل حاجة أعملها. في يوم، زوجي دخل المطبخ وقال بنبرة عادية: “الأكل لسه ما خلصش؟ أنا جعان. كنت لسه راجعة من شغل ومتعبة، بس سكت وكملت. حماتي كانت قاعدة وسامعة كل حاجة… بس ما علّقت وقتها. بعد ما خرج، نادتني بهدوء وقالت: “هو فاكر نفسه جاي فندق؟” اتوترت وقلت يمكن أنا مقصّرة. بس بصت لي وقالت كلمة عمري ما أنساها: “إنتي مش خدامة عنده… إنتي شريكة. والتعب مش مفروض يكون من طرف واحد. وبعدين قامت قدامي ونادت عليه: تعالى يا حبيبي… مراتك مش شغالة عندك. لو جعان، قوم ساعدها أو حضّر لنفسك. سكت… ومكانش متوقع منها كده. من يومها، بقى يدخل المطبخ قبلي أحيانًا، ولو اتأخرت، هو اللي يقول: “اقعدي، أنا أعمل الأكل النهارده وقتها فهمت حاجة مهمة… مش كل أم بتدلّل ابنها على حساب مراته، في أمهات بيربّوا رجالة بجد.
ريمو@remas_828

Get to know me with the harshest truth

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𝑨𝒚𝒐 x 𝑮𝒂𝒅𝒈𝒆𝒕𝒓𝒐𝒏 𝑯𝒖𝒃
Bro. Walai, if this is PR and you collected it, everything you’ve managed to work for in your youth, you’ll lose them. I swear to God! God will punish you beyond human comprehension. All the plagues of Egypt will be 100x your portion
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the_ceo
the_ceo@the_ceo99·
@UnkleAyo Then you don’t know the level of shit that goes on in their heads.
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