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@GanKanchi Dude, try to live with your family like they are your friends, right now you are treating them as liability or responsibility, why would any man with family want to spend time with you on a weekend, get over with the fantasies of life as bachelor or 30s..

Confessions and realities 42M, 55LPA I am a 42-year-old man with a senior job in IT. I have a house in Chennai, a supportive wife, and two children. On paper, everything about my life looks perfect. I have achieved all the things society says a man should achieve. In my twenties, life felt different. I had friends to spend time with. We would hang out at Marina Beach and Besant Nagar beach, watch movies at Rohini, Udayam, and Kasi theatres, and ride around Mount Road on my RX100. In my thirties, I had colleagues to talk with over tea breaks. We would discuss apartments, onsite trips, and share random stories about life and work. But now, in my forties, life has turned into a quiet routine. My phone rarely rings for anything personal. Most calls are about office work, bank alerts, or someone from home asking me to pick up milk on the way back. The loneliness of a man in his forties is unusual. I am not physically alone, but I often feel like a machine. When I enter my home, I am simply “Appa.” I am the person who pays school fees, fixes the Wi-Fi, and handles repairs. My wife is busy with her work and the kids. My children are teenagers now, living in their own worlds and their own rooms. They love me, but they mostly see me as the person who provides comfort and stability. They no longer see me as an individual. At the office, I am the senior person. I am expected to have all the answers. I cannot tell my team that I feel tired. I cannot tell my boss that I sometimes struggle to keep up with new technologies. I must appear confident and strong, even when I quietly worry about the future. Sometimes I drive home slowly from work just to spend a few extra minutes in the car. I listen to songs from my college days. For those fifteen minutes, I am not a manager or a father. I am simply myself again. I realize that I have not had a real conversation about my feelings with anyone in years. My old friends now exist mostly as names on WhatsApp. We send “Happy Birthday” or “Congratulations” messages, but rarely talk. When we meet at weddings, our conversations revolve around our children’s grades or the cars we drive. We never talk about what we actually feel. The hardest part is that I cannot even complain. If I tell my family that I feel lonely, they look confused and say, “But we are all here with you.” They do not understand that a person can be surrounded by people and still feel like they are on a desert island. Society teaches men that if they provide money and security, they have succeeded in life. But no one teaches us how to deal with the silence that comes with it. I have built a beautiful life for everyone around me, but sometimes it feels like there is no space left for me inside it. And maybe… this is what life in your forties feels like.

@jahirsheikh8 Bruh... Claude knocks the shit out of java nowadays.. it's been 3 months I wrote any java code manually, delivred critical features in high end demanding application just like that.. all java, 10k+ lines of custom gateway to support external connectivity, all AI developed.

Programming Languages and their AI Replacement Risk • 🧊 HTML/CSS — 🔴 Highest • 🟣 Visual Basic — 🔴 Highest • 🐘 PHP — 🔴 High • 🐪 Perl — 🔴 High • 🎵 Groovy — 🔴 High • 🟨 JavaScript — 🟠 Medium • 🐍 Python — 🟠 Medium • 💎 Ruby — 🟠 Medium • 🎯 Dart — 🟠 Medium • 🐦 Swift — 🟠 Medium • 🌙 Lua — 🟠 Medium • ☕ Java — 🟡 Low • 🟣 C# — 🟡 Low • 🅺 Kotlin — 🟡 Low • 🔺 Scala — 🟡 Low • 🧬 Julia — 🟡 Low • 💧 Elixir — 🟡 Low • 🐹 Go — 🔵 Very Low • 🔧 C — 🔵 Very Low • 🚀 C++ — 🔵 Very Low • 🦀 Rust — 🔵 Very Low • ⚡ Zig — 🔵 Very Low • ⚙️ Assembly — 🔵 Very Low • 🧮 Fortran — 🔵 Very Low

@Mugilan_SS @OpenAI I wonder people haven't discovered gemini flash.. it's fucking unlimited you morons, use it to build basic structure off the app and use claude or gemini pro to polich the app.. never out of damn tokens. Or use codex.. but fuking use gemini flash to save your ass.

Codex is not like claude code. if you know the limit is going to end, like last 10 to 8%, give an very long run task, and even after the limit got ever, it will continue to do the task until the task was completed. Shout out to @OpenAI team.

@CrabDude @Mugilan_SS @OpenAI I have gpt go, and 2 gemini pro subscription..never a problem, both cleaning each other's shit. If anything remains, gemini flash is unlimited, never been situation like this. I built 3 android apps and a desktop video streaming app using all models in mixture, 75k+ LOC in total.

@Mugilan_SS @OpenAI This is so underrated it’s unbelievable. When you hit your weekly limit in CC you’re in a terrible situation of not having any idea if shit is completely broken and qualitatively to what degree without having to do 100x the work it would take for the same session to wrap it up.

@Mugilan_SS @OpenAI Bro...it takes up the next window tokens, I did the same and next refresh was automatically set at 84% remaining tokens...

@ifOnlyKantala What he has done in last 2 months, nothing, busy doing party work. He works atleast 6 months every year for election, 2 months for foreign tours, and then 2 months in parliament wasting everyone's time just to blame nehru.

He could have built a AC castle and retired, enjoyed chill life but He is the son of earth, still working 18 hours for this country, never seen such energetic and loyal leader in my life Narendra modi ji ko iss desh ke har nagrik ke taraf se sat sat naman 🙏

@nehanagarr You forgot one and only reason, politicians.

What, according to you, is the biggest hurdle in India’s development? 🇮🇳 > freebies > reservation > corruption > bureaucracy > unemployment > infrastructure > or something else

@SaleemUsama @Fabiobuilds @Bhavani_00007 Will electricity too go down.... More usages will require larger data centers and more and more energy.. prices won't go down andthey are one anthropic is one mistake away from going bankrupt.

@Fabiobuilds @Bhavani_00007 prices will go down as gpu prices go down overtime to run the same LLMs

It’s so over for junior engineers 😭 We have a new CEO at the company I’m working in, and he recently pushed everyone to adopt a full Claude-based workflow. Now everyone is using Claude for almost everything. During a meeting, he asked if anyone had questions. An intern asked whether the company would continue hiring interns or junior engineers. He said everyone currently working is safe, but they've decided to stop hiring interns and junior engineers going forward. They don’t want to spend 3–4 months training freshers anymore, and would rather hire experienced engineers who already know these tools. Are junior engineers actually getting replaced??

@Om_Codes_ Your answer should have been the google. you can just say I took help from Google which gives you AI response on top directly. Your manager is likely not having any idea of that too. he has never googled anything in like last 2.7 years or if has , be never paid attention to that.

Writing clean code is a crime in 2026 😭 My manager recently gave me an assignment to Get familiar with Kafka. Build a producer API including UI, DB, everything. And don’t use AI. I gave it my best: - Followed SOLID, DRY, KISS - Proper naming, clean structure, design patterns -TDD approach - used SonarLint - Not a single unnecessary comment Put in real effort. Manager sees the code.. And asked the First question "Which AI did you use ?" Dude, what 😭 Now I’m out here defending code I literally wrote with my own hands. At this point, writing bad code is the only way to prove you’re human 😭 Feels like I was placed in the wrong generation.

@rameshofficial0 It takes couple of incidents like this for people to lose patience. There may have been few incidents in the village where people hit and ran away. It's takes one bite from one dog to hate all the dogs.

🚨Heartless Ghamhapur: Manish Singh didn't flee after his car hit a woman, he tried to help, yet he was lynched in Varanasi? "Unke hath pair Tod dete Mara kyu ? Manish was returning from his factory when this tragic accident happened. Refusing to hear any explanations, a furious mob dragged him out and brutally beat him with rods and bricks for 20 minutes until he died. When the police team arrived to arrest the suspects, violent villagers attacked them and took two constables hostage. Manish's shattered wife asked why they couldn't just break his legs instead of taking his life. This brutal lawlessness demands the strictest punishment

@colablizzard @Pinnacle_Acad @KaartikGor And obtaining the certificate by paying 500 will somehow pretend the fire.

@Pinnacle_Acad @KaartikGor Most people don't realise that Flour Mills are a MAJOR Fire Hazard. Flour Dust can catch fire better than most bombs.

Ease of doing business 😂

@MakisMedicine x.com/i/grok/share/1… Doc, I want to believe you but the thing is, no body can be believed in this evil world.

NEW ARTICLE: IVERMECTIN and FENBENDAZOLE Testimonial - 71 year old Canadian man with Stage 4 Pancreatic Cancer reports after 3 months: CA19 drops 522 to 36, liver mets shrinking!! Canadian Oncologist tells Pancreatic Cancer patient to continue Ivermectin and Fenbendazole!! 😃 (I won't disclose his location as Chinada 🇨🇦🇨🇳 authorities would throw him in a gulag and never let him out again) STORY: 71 year old Canadian man with Stage 4 Pancreatic Cancer In November he started: Ivermectin, Fenbendazole, Chemo Results after 3 months: 1. Liver metastases are shrinking 2. No metabolically active pancreatic mass (PET scan March 2026) 3. CA19-9 dropped 522 to 36 Oncologist: “things look good, things are going in the right direction, keep doing what you’re doing” Canadian Oncologist encourages Cancer patient to continue Ivermectin and Fenbendazole!! This is progress, as Alberta Premier Danielle Smith recently criminalized "Right to Try" with Ivermectin and other repurposed drugs, in her unprecedented attack on terminally ill cancer patients. I have helped over 9000 Cancer patients with Ivermectin, Mebendazole and Fenbendazole in what is the largest Ivermectin Cancer Project in the world. We are moving this entire "Right to Try" Project to FLORIDA! New Cancer Clinic coming soon!!😃 Please be patient while we move and avoid those who are trying to imitate what we've done. There are many looking to take advantage of Cancer patients, selling overpriced Ivermectin Wellness kits, ripping people off. Every cancer patient should be on my sub.stack, link and details are in my X bio, as is my contact info. God bless...

@caraghavagrawal @sukhdeep7896 And 12kncor electricity, kya fectory khol Rakhi hai falt me.

@sukhdeep7896 45K pm for health insurance... how sick his family is?

My college friend -a tech guy- earns ₹52 LPA in Bangalore. Bought a 3BHK in Whitefield Bangalore last year. Wife + One small kid. Last week he called me sounding completely broken: “Bro… I’m actually going broke.” I laughed. “Bro, 52 lakh package? Stop joking.” Then he showed me the real numbers. Monthly take-home: ₹2.85 Lakh Expenses: • ₹1.08L → Home loan EMI • ₹35k → One kid’s school fees • ₹28k → Groceries & milk • ₹18k → Society maintenance • ₹18k → Maid + cook + nanny • ₹15k → Car EMI + fuel • ₹12k → Electricity, water, WiFi • ₹45k → Family health insurance Total: ₹2.93 Lakh He is short ₹8,000 every month… before festivals, date nights, or any emergency. A decade ago? The same flat + same lifestyle needed only ₹18–20 lakh salary. Today even ₹52 lakh feels like you’re running on a treadmill that keeps speeding up. The economy is genuinely cooked for every 9-5 salaried guy who thought he “made it.” The scariest part? You don’t feel poor… until the math hits you.

@anandmahindra Are sir if you believe in Mahade then stop selling thars to criminals and degenerates... You are giving them a weapon of ego and mass killing.. you yourself is using Mahadev to running business.

Apparently, this is one of the earliest known photographs of the sacred Kedarnath Dham, taken in 1882. Couldn’t take my eyes off it. No roads. No railheads. No helicopters. Just the abode of Lord Shiva, cradled by the Himalayas Back then, the yatra demanded time, endurance, & faith. The journey wasn’t incidental; it WAS the pilgrimage. Today, access is easier. And that’s a good thing because it opens the experience to many more. But perhaps something still needs preserving? The ability to slow down & savour the experience of traveling. Because journeys are about who we become along the way. #SundayWanderer (Photo courtesy @LostTemple7 )

@NamitaBalyan @ajeetbharti Calling a man with kids chakka in front of the world is worth insult. You don't deserve any respect from him.

I have always called @ajeetbharti as Bhaiya ji, even while trolling and will always do. The fact that i have had been a fan and a supporter and him being the reason i joined active conversation on X about politics... this is a sad post... even apart from his treacherous conniving assh0le self harkatein... this is far below his stature... AFTER blocking me long back. Ajeet bhaiya ji... this is NOT the end. And i have no interest in your sad genitals apart from the fact that you and your supporters have been using this very offensive picture as a meme in your support. I can help you. You might not know but i helped you in your Punjab case. Will do it again if YOU FUCKING COME BACK TO YOUR SENSES. PS. ALL THE LISTS WITH YOUR GOOD NAME GET APPROVED WITH MY NOD. SO CHILL BROTHER. HINDU BRO VALA LOVE YOU, NOT YOUR 2016 QURAN LOVING INC€ST SISTER! ❤️

@BurhannKhatri @signulll Gemini is far more creative in frontend dev tan claude... This is 10x.

@signulll ive been using it extensively for just frontend related tasks i believe gemini 3.1 pro has unmatched capabilities in that my workflow usually is to go from using claude code to write an d test my backend and then using gemini 3.1 pro inside of cursor with sample images for the UI

not a single person i have ever spoken to uses gemini for coding. this is still very very weird. why is gemini so bad at coding when google has scoured the web full of code for decades?

@heygurisingh Nah bro...vibe cpde was never asolution, the coding assistant is a real thing btw... It accelerates the idea to shipment by 10x.

Vibe coders are not going to like this. UC San Diego just published the first real field study of experienced developers using AI agents. They watched 13 of them code in the wild and surveyed 99 more. Zero of them vibe coded. Not one developer "fully gave in to the vibes." Not one trusted the agent to ship. The researchers found the opposite of what every Cursor demo on your timeline implies. Experienced devs plan before they prompt. They load the agent with heavy context. They verify every diff and refuse to merge code they haven't actually read. "Flow and joy" coding, the whole Karpathy vibe coding pitch, got quietly rejected by every professional in the study. They said it's fine for throwaway prototypes. Not for anything that ships. The devs still liked using agents. They just don't let the agent drive. Turns out the people who've shipped software for a decade know something the vibe coding influencers don't. Huang et al., UC San Diego. December 2025. Paper in comments.

@chiragbarjatya Well they come from neighbours home too.. your society need a pest control too.

Guys, what is the best way to deal with cockroaches? I have tried everything possible available on Amazon. Please suggest something useful. Pest control ain’t helping nor can I keep my house empty got two cats and a kid.

@zuess05 I see code written by AI, and tested by human... It's a pass. I stopped looking at code and started looking at results. That's it.

Senior developers are currently having a massive existential crisis because Claude writes "messy code" A junior just used Claude to ship an entire feature in 2 hours. Meanwhile, the Senior is still spending 3 days reviewing code. When will y'all realize that literally nobody cares if the code is "messy"?

@Mrsinha Well you can fuck off with you lovely Bojyam Jhutyam paadam party

Imagine if she had done it in front of Mamata Banerjee in WB or even Uddhav-Raj Thackeray in Mumbai… Imagine, because she would never do it against them. She did it because it was a BJP event.