Paul Chek

Wearables aren't teaching you to know yourself. They're replacing the awareness you should already have, and they're doing it while slowly draining your vitality. Your body is already telling you what you need. Learn to listen to it. Be conscious. Have an intimate, loving relationship with yourself. Free yourself from the trickery and gadgetry. Love and chi, - Paul 🎥 Originally video Andrew Kaufman

We have more doctors, scientists, nutritionists, and gyms per capita than ever in history, and we're the sickest, most obese, most unhealthy people in the world. All backed by science. That should concern you. Science with no morals. Government using science to manipulate. Corporations mining your data to sell you things you can't afford. Research shows 98% of the US population is two paychecks from bankruptcy. We all need to wake up and smell the coffee. Love and chi, - Paul

Beliefs drive choices, which equals the experience we have. If we're not aware of the story we're telling ourselves, we're not aware of the choices we're making, which means we're unconscious.

Shadow work is not about making the shadow smaller. It's about making the consciousness that holds it larger.

Your vision will become clear only when you can look into your own heart. Heart breathing is simple: place your feminine or non-dominant hand over your heart, opposite hand on top. Breathe in through your nose, let your belly expand for the first two-thirds of the breath. As you inhale, imagine breathing unconditional love from all directions, like the sun shining in reverse. Fill your heart, fill your body, see yourself happy, healthy, whole, and vital. On the exhale, open your heart like you're hugging someone you've missed and give that love to all beings, in all places, in all times, in all dimensions. Start your day with at least 10 minutes. Within a week or two, you'll notice definite changes. Love and chi, - Paul

To do real shadow work, you must choose to heal. You must choose to explore your unconscious. You must choose to do the work of freeing yourself and not waiting for some magic pill, drug, biohacking, or rescuer to come save you. True shadow work is never done. It's a lifetime process because each new encounter with people, places and things opens up new dimensions of ourselves and creates new opportunities for judgments that separate us from any apparent other. The shadow is not a defect to be eliminated. It is a structural feature of any individuated psyche, a necessary, often protective, often creative aspect of a finite human consciousness. Shadow work is not about making the shadow smaller. It's about making the consciousness that holds it larger. Love and chi, - Paul 📸 2006 In the parking lot of a hotel in Primm, NV, when Penny and I were on a road trip back from Colorado from the BoulderFest conference. The weight is 70lb in each hand.

The shadow is not a defect to be eliminated. It is a structural feature of any individuated psyche, a necessary, often protective, often creative aspect of a finite human consciousness.

The soul can only be satiated by what it is. That's why all the sex, all the drugs, all the money, all the material things will never get you there. The only thing that feeds the soul is love. That's what the soul is. That's what GOD is. And until you understand that, you'll keep chasing things that can never give you what you're actually looking for. Love and chi, - Paul

When you kill diversity in nature, you kill nature. The same thing happens in a culture when you start censoring speech. You lose individuality. You lose freedom. You lose free will. Love and chi, - Paul

Don't measure relationships in days or months; measure them by the great experience of it.

Most parents operate from an assumption they've never even questioned... that they own their child. Like a possession. So the programming begins early. You're going to have a job like a doctor or a lawyer. You're going to be religious, the way we're religious. You're going to raise your children the way we raised you. You're going to live the life we mapped out for you. And anything outside of that? Unacceptable. But here's the deeper truth… no parent provides the soul that's in the body they give birth to. They provide the body. They provide the time, the location, the family, the society, and the culture that is ideal for that soul to continue its developmental work. That's it. The soul arrived with its own agenda. And that soul is extremely unique.
 Your soul is not your parents. Your soul came here with its own agenda. Stop funding someone else's dream of how you should be living your life. It's not taking you anywhere. Love and chi, - Paul

There's no way you can broaden your depth of perception with reading a book or AI. You gotta have legitimate life experience.

Most people are training their abs in a way that's destroying their posture, and they don't even know it. When you flex your abdominals, you create a flexor moment against your spin, and your head drops forward, your shoulder girdle rounds, and your pelvis shifts to compensate. And if you're crunching without counterbalancing with extension work, you're locking that pattern in. This is just one piece of the puzzle. In Abdominal Tone Essentials, I walk you through breathing, organ tone, and how to actually train your core the way nature intended. Watch the full video here: youtu.be/Bsuvmjwc8mw Love and chi, - Paul

The longest journey you'll ever take is from your head to your heart.

What if the system you were handed was never built for your potential in the first place? Go to school. Get good grades. Find a stable job. Retire at 65. That's the plan, right? Victor and Robyn Robledo looked at that plan and said no thanks. In Episode 395, I sat down with Victor and Robyn Robledo, a family that ditched the rat race and never looked back. Three of their five kids had zero formal education. No math classes, no grammar drills, no history lessons. And one of their daughters is making nearly six figures at 22, doing what she's passionate about. They didn't push their kids; they freed them. They let them find their passion, trusted them to figure it out, and got out of the way. Love and chi, - Paul

When you get to the edge of the forest, and you see a trail in front of you, do not take it. That trail was cut by someone else. It leads to someone else's destination. If you take it, you are living someone else's life, and that is not why you are here. You have to cut your own trail through the woods and become an individual. Stand up and accept full responsibility for yourself and for your reality. Own your choices. Own your direction. Own your life. You are here for a reason, and only you can fulfill it. Love and chi, - Paul

The connection between suffering and insight is that suffering is often the doorway to insight. A lot of ignorance leads to suffering. So if we're not paying attention to what led to the suffering, then we don't do the inner work necessary to see where it was that we were ignorant or acting on incomplete information, emotion, or fear. The PainTeacher hangs around until you've gained the insight and made the changes necessary to stop creating the life you don't want. Love and chi, - Paul

You'll know when you're doing what you're supposed to be doing, because your heart will drag you into it. Your head will always leave you questioning.

Whenever you change your story, you've affected every life that story touches. Your partner. Your children. Your friends. Your work. You change all the people your story touches, they touch, and that ripples around the world.

This is the cycle of life. Child. Warrior. King. Wise Man. If you're disciplined enough and fortunate enough to find the right mentors, you might make it to the king stage. But the ones who truly mature are the ones brave enough to ask... Who am I really? Where did I come from? Where will I go when I die? That's where the real journey begins. Love and chi, - Paul