@DatingByMHG HR rep no doubt. They’re always early. Did the nurse get the HR text??
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Jimmy Rols
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Crazy Date Story 🔥
Once scheduled a date at the same time with TWO different girls who both cancelled on me earlier in the week.
Nurse and a Hot HR Rep.
7 PM on a Thursday. Made it at the same bar too
Figured for sure AT LEAST one would cancel
Both ended up showing up. One at 6:58. Other at 7:10.
First come, first serve was how I played it.
Which one showed up first??
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@DatingByMHG Bro actually one of the craziest things ever. So fucked up. I was there at 7:15 AM and legit walked up 1 mile to try to get again. Why not make the parade route longer??
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Mamdani/NYC BLEW it at the Knicks Parade today
I got to Wall Street at 6:45 AM. 3+ hours before it started.
NYPD had the streets blocked off. Capacity filled.
Tens of thousands of us stuck.
We waited 53 years for this moment.
3+ hours early. And still had to watch on TV.
Shame on Mamdani for this.
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@DatingByMHG Hinge for me easily. Tinder when I went to Europe only . Would be cool if I was on raya though
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@DatingByMHG Brooo what?? She’s def a fake Knick fan cause Chad watched with her
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WILD story:
Knicks win the title Saturday. NYC is absolute bedlam.
My boy’s out celebrating in the West Village.
He sees a huge crowd around this girl in a Brunson jersey absolutely chugging a bottle of wine.
He gets closer… It’s his Hinge match. The one who thought the Knicks were a baseball team.
Bro was so shook he couldn’t even say anything to her.
Did she play him the whole time??
or turn into a fake Knicks fan in 24 hours?
Dating By Murray Hill Guy@DatingByMHG
My boy in NYC matched with a beautiful mid on Hinge yesterday. Initial convo was fire. Flirting and Banter off the charts. He gets her number quickly. They're texting all day yesterday. Today, she asks HIM out for drinks...tonight at 8 PM. He says no-- it's Game 3 of Finals for the Knicks. She goes "Oh, I don't watch Sports..is that Baseball?" He unmatched & blocked her number right after. Right call??
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Chat debate: What’s the worst drink a guy can order on a date?
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@DatingByMHG What’s your fave prompt question on hinge I should use? Feel like I always don’t know what to write
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How To Get More Matches on Hinge 🚨
Fix your prompts.
Most guys spend literally 5 seconds on their Hinge prompts and call it a day.
They throw up something boring, weird, try-hard, or zero-effort.
BIG mistake.
Women actually read your prompts. In detail.
It’s one of the BIGGEST factors on whether she will like you or not.
Your prompts are a window into who you are: your personality and vibe.
Weak, low-effort, or cringy prompts = instant swipe left.
Funny and interesting prompts = wayyyy more matches and better convos
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Post First Date Text 🚨
The first text after a date is KEY.
Rule #1: ALWAYS check she got home safe.
Rule #2: Reference a fun/flirty moment from the date: her “world famous” toast, you roasting her favorite team, that laugh when she teased you, etc.
Women think guys don’t actually listen.
This shows you actually listen AND have good banter.
Do this right and you set up strong energy for Date #2.
Skip it and yeah… you’ll be getting cooked in her group chat w/ her friends 😂
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Client win…. Most of you guys just aren’t using the right photos/prompts
Comment “based” to get started on actually getting matches
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My boy in NYC matched with a beautiful mid on Hinge yesterday.
Initial convo was fire. Flirting and Banter off the charts. He gets her number quickly. They're texting all day yesterday.
Today, she asks HIM out for drinks...tonight at 8 PM.
He says no-- it's Game 3 of Finals for the Knicks.
She goes "Oh, I don't watch Sports..is that Baseball?"
He unmatched & blocked her number right after.
Right call??
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@DatingByMHG I think he should’ve gave her a chance! She seemed nice
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Dating App First Picture Advice ‼️
I see wayyyy too many selfies, blurry pictures, group pics and weird zoomed out pics for guys on the apps.
This isn’t 2010 anymore.
Studies show the strongest first photos are sharp, well-lit and with you filling out the frame.
Get a friend to snap some pics of you. Portrait mode. Fresh cut. Trimmed beard. Look like a man who actually tries.
Girls decide who you are in 0.2 seconds. First impressions are EVERYTHING.
She wants a man that works in 2026. Not a boy stuck in 2010.
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Biggest barrier in 2026 dating? Getting from Date 1 to Date 2.
Most bail after a “meh” first date chasing the next swipe dopamine hit. Girls chase better options. Guys fear settling.
Real chemistry builds over time. Amazing First Dates are rare.
The grass isn’t always greener. Stop quitting on solid 7s for fantasy 10s.
Give it a real Date 2. Most won’t. That’s why you’re still single. 💯
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Sunday Night Opening Line Advice ‼️
Do NOT message her “Hey, how was your weekend”?
She’s getting that same message from a hundred dudes.
It sets up for a boring convo/ignore
There’s thousands of different openers that are wayyyy better
👇👇👇
datingbymhg.com
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@DatingByMHG Huge risk. Would’ve stuck out w the actress tbh. Broadway actress man??
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Story time:
-At 11:45 PM, mid date with the Broadway Actress, got a text from the Lawyer asking what I was up to.
-She invites me out to the Spaniard with her friends. She seemed super interested.
-Had a dilemma: bail mid date with this hot Broadway Actress and go to bar with her friends? Or ride this date out?
Sometimes you gotta take risks in life, fellas.
-Made the audible. Left the date early. Went to the Spaniard.
30 minutes later and I was back at her place.
To this day I still wonder if I made the right call.
Chat: What do you think?
Dating By Murray Hill Guy@DatingByMHG
Once went out with 3 chicks in one day. -Lawyer for coffee in AM -Nurse for drinks around 7 PM -Broadway actress after her show at 11 PM Went home with one of the 3 later that the night. Any guesses on which one??
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One of my boys, Zach, is going for a Perfect Week.
7 different girls. 7 nights.
He started last Tuesday. 5 for 5 so far. Has a slam dunk lined up for tonight.
His biggest obstacle rn? Monday
Mondays are always the toughest day. Fatigue is high. Post-weekend energy is low. Lowest day of the week for sex. He has no Monday girl lined up yet.
Will Zach complete the Perfect Week??
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Biggest First Date Red Flag 🚩
A girl who tries to turn drinks into dinner.
One of my boys recently asked his Hinge match for drinks. She replies how about drinks AND dinner?
He says yes of course!
I told him he should cancel the date.
He didn’t listen.
$250 later, she ghosts him the next day.
Lesson in that.
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It’s Sunday. Best day of the week to swipe
Girls are horny and ready to plan their dates for the week
Are you going to be the guy to do it?
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Last night my friend took a walk down the west side highway
Was smoking a cig and asked a girl if she wanted to smoke with him
They ended up back in his apartment an hour later
It’s that simple
mads campbell@martyrdison
the first date is dead nobody wants to lock themselves into a 2-hour hostage situation with a stranger they might hate. sitting across from each other, grinding through forced small talk, wasting time, energy, and money you'll never get back we should go back to meeting on a park bench, reading books, and starting a walk on friday that ends with you moving in by monday bring back the sordid affair and the everlasting craving. save the restaurants and long-winded interviews
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One of my best first dates ever with a girl?....Pickleball
She was good too. Competitive game. We played for like 2 hours. Sexual tension was insane by the end 🔥.
Went back to her place right after.
No alcohol. No food.
Total cost for the date? $0
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Best first date spot?
Easy. Your local bar.
The bartender knows you too well. He’ll give you the honest scouting report after date. Where you did well/where you could improve. Was she actually hot or were you just 5 drinks deep?
It’s like having a dating coach with you on the date.
Plus he’ll hook you and your date up with free drinks
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