Wailanda's Antinomy

Kind reminder: none of your ship is canon, everything is bait from dev to lure you to buy merch and ingame currency, so be happy delusional in your own fucking lane and try not to throw a tantrum when people accross fandoms are publicly SICK of your goddamn slop of a community ❤️

@KatapillarK Exactly 💔 What gets called ‘attitude’ was often just exhaustion no one cared to see. Honouring that truth is how we start to dismantle it.

@Nomagugu_xo . Patriarchy didn’t just steal women’s time it stole their mental space, their energy, their softness. What looked like “strength” or “toughness” was survival mode after years of invisible labor. Burnout disguised as “attitude” is real, and it’s systemic, not personal. 💔

So when they became irritable or overwhelmed, it wasn’t because they were “difficult” or “strict.” It was burnout. We weren’t raised by hard women we were raised by exhausted ones. Patriarchy doesn’t create peace. It creates burnout, then punishes women for it.

Patriarchy robbed our mothers of softness. We grew up watching them do everything cook, clean, plan, fix, remember every detail of our lives. On top of that, they carried everyone’s emotions, making sure we were all okay. But who made sure they were okay? No one. Not even their husbands. They lived in constant stress.

Marriage isn’t scary, kalo kunci ketemu sama gemboknya 🔐 Saya pernah nanya ke doi, kenapa sih yakin milih saya. Padahal banyak perbedaan di antara kita. Nah, pas jawab pertanyaan itu, dia jelaisn pake analogi enzim, teori lock and key. Kebetulan doi backgroundnya biologi. Singkatnya: gembok (enzim) punya situs aktif yg kaku banget, cuma bisa bereaksi kalau ketemu kunci (substrat) yang bentuknya pas presisi. Penjelasannya begini: 1️⃣ Komplementer itu kunci Gak perlu nyari yg sempurna. Seringkali "kekurangan" itu justru lekukan yg pas banget diisi sama tonjolan sifat pasangan. Si pelupa ketemu si teliti, si impulsif ketemu si tukang planning. Kita fungsional karena saling nutup celah. 2️⃣ Situs aktif (core values) Kita boleh beda selera musik atau hobi, tapi kalau "Situs Aktif"-nya (prinsip hidup & visi) udah sinkron, reaksi cintanya bakal tetep jalan. Biarin ada "karat" dikit di luar, yang penting dalemnya presisi. 3️⃣ Induced fit (Memahami) Ada juga teori Induced Fit, enzim sedikit "melentur" buat memeluk substratnya. Hubungan pun gitu; kita nurunin ego dikit buat nge-pasin kekurangan masing-masing. Bukan berubah jadi orang lain, cuma menyesuaikan biar makin klik. Marriage isn’t scary kalau kita udah nemu Lock & Key yg pas. Yg bikin takut itu biasanya karena kita maksa masukin kunci ke gembok yang emang bukan jodohnya, ujungnya patah atau macet. Tapi kalo mekanismenya udah sinkron. Mau seberat apa pun pintu masalah di depan, kita berdua punya alat yang paling pas buat ngebukanya bareng2.

Hidden cost dari ini adalah: Petty crime mulai naik lagi. Coba kalau niat kumpulin aja berita berita kriminal kyk penjambretan. Akan keliatan trendnya naik

@sbtmfs Driver dan kurirnya diinjek²... Merchant Food dan Seller diperas.. Pelanggan dipermainkan..

@sbtmfs Seller online di shopee harusnya belajar dgn kasus amsal sitepu, berani naikkan komplain sampai ke DPR, jangan cuma bacot di medsos, pasti sia2, shopee malah anteng2 saja dan anggap cuma goyunan belaka.

@sbtmfs kalo nominal diatas 100ribu mending kirim manual lewat jnt. lagipula jnt tiap weekend disc sampe 45% potongan ongkirnya gede, bisa booking lewat apk daripada bayar admin oren yg udh setara ongkir manual dgn berat 2kg

@sbtmfs Kak udah ada yg terbaru “SUBTOTAL UKURAN KHUSUS” Ini apaan bangst, beli chiki doang entengnya selangit ada ukuran khusus bayar lagi 10k 🤡

sbt! oren terlalu pintar mengolah kalimat & kata2. biaya admin biaya layanan biaya proses biaya transaksi next nya bakal ada biaya apalagi 😂

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Gw tuh kmrn abis kontrol ke dokter (pake BPJS), pas dokternya lagi ngeresepin obat, gw asbun doang ngomong : “Boleh minta vitamin gak sih, dok? Biar gak lemes?” “Boleeeh” Gak expect dikasi nya vitamin sebanyak ini 😭 mana dikasi stok sebulan lagi. Mayan gw gausa beli2 vitamin lg 😂 Maaf baru tau kalo di dokter BPJS bisa rikwes minta diresepin vitamin juga 🙏

Lebih lengkapnya bisa tonton disini youtu.be/89b3DOC3GYU?si…

Film pendek Turut Berdukacita (Deep Condolences). Abis nonton film ini, premis ceritanya unik, jadi ceritanya ada seorang perempuan bernama Maria baru aja kehilangan ayahnya. Saat lagi berduka, ia harus menceritakan secara berulang-ulang tentang kematian ayahnya kepada tamu yg hadir dari pertanyaan yg sama “Sakit apa? Kok bisa? Kapan persisnya?” Tapi walaupun dalam kondisi sedang berduka, Maria tetap sabar menjawab dengan kalimat yg sama kepada semua tamu²nya yg hadir. Pesan yg mau disampaikan dari cerita ini sebenernya sederhana, saat kita hadir di tempat orang yg sedang berduka ngga usah jadi pelayat kepo. cukup datang, ucapkan belasungkawa, mendoakan, pulang, dah itu aja.

as much as posters like these annoy the piss out of me, sadly he cooked with this one this is how i dug myself out of the hole when i became sedentary a couple years back and it was so insanely effective i never stopped

Not my dream..I don't want to damage my wife lungs just for the romanticisation of some ooga booga past.

@tii_bag Only a man would EVER try to do something like this. They are the scheming machiavellians - not teenage girls like society has been brainwashed to believe.

@tii_bag gotta admit I love it when karma is instantaneous and what you planned to do to wreck someone else blows up in your face. we don't always get to see it but seems apropos in this instance.

@tii_bag @_nwa_xavier Dude made his retirement life bitter all by himself