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@AmazingTuREAL
#ProudMuslim | Agriculturist | Sustainability Analyst | Agricultural Consultant | Castor Farmer | Commodity Marketer #Chelsea FC
Lagos, Nigeria Beigetreten Ekim 2010
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@Prince_dc21_ God save you finish, you dey use your hand find wahala gain
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'I met her when she was 6 months pregnant. She told me the baby's father was married & he dumped her when she refused to terminate the pregnancy.
I took care of her until she gave birth. I paid thousands for her to give birth at a private hospital, cause there were complications. I even had to borrow more money from people cause what I had at the moment wasn't enough, as we had emergencies twice. The first was for her to give birth when complications occurred. Normally, I was prepared for that one, just in case, but what I wasn't prepared for was the one where we needed to save the baby. I rushed around & borrowed from good friends again.
I paid that debt gradually for almost 8 months since my provision shop business hadn't been doing well. She has been staying with me ever since then & I take care of her & the baby. Since her grandmother, whom she lived with, isn't that strong & vibrant anymore & she's an orphan, I thought it wise to have her come to my place. My plan was to save enough money so we could open a small tomato business for her in order for her to start earning something & helping herself & the child, while I saved up for her bride price so we could start building our lives together.
The baby is now one & a half years old. & Every weekend i try as much as possible to take us to a shoprite or any nice restaurant to have fun even though i make very little from my business but i do just to please her so she catches fun. Now, out of the blue, the baby's father wants to be part of the baby's life. I was not comfortable with it, but I understand he's the father. But shockingly, last month she told me she still loves the guy & she's leaving me for him. Even before telling me this, she's been seeing him, & worse, she's currently carrying a second child for him, even though she's been very protective & avoiding me getting her pregnant.
I've knelt, I've cried, I've pleaded for her to stay with me. I love this girl so much. I believe we all make mistakes cuz no one is perfect. I was willing to forgive her & accept the second child as mine without the biological father knowing of its existence, but she had told him about the pregnancy already even before she told me.
Basically, she dumped me—a guy who took care of her and was busy saving money for bride price to be a side chick again to someone who dumped her when she needed him the most, cuz the guy has promised her marriage. I don't want to lie, I'm more disappointed than hurt. We made so many plans for the future & I was looking forward to spending the rest of my life with her. I'm 38 years old. At this stage, I doubt I'll ever be with another woman.'

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@oduwils @iam_DjBoris @ceonigeria_ Your sense is flowing away and that's why the reasoning part is not functioning.
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@iam_DjBoris @ceonigeria_ That's how you know that Yorubas have no sense
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I so much thank God for the presidency of BAT, because this man would have gone to his grave as a noble man. 🙏
TallJohn🌍@JohnFanimokun
"I hope for the sake of the nation that Peter Obi doesn't express interest in the next election. Because for me as a leader, he is unfit to lead a country" — Professor Wole Soyinka
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@PoojaMedia Cry alaye... Till tears finish for your eyes
We ain't complaining, why are you pained?
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This season, Man Utd fans are smarter than Chelsea fans. Let me give you 2 valid scenarios;
- They were pushing Bruno Fernandes over Rice leaving their own player & the following week, the same Chelsea fans were cheering PSG as they thrashed them.
- Against Man City, Man Utd fans joined Chelsea to celebrate their defeat & now, the same Chelsea will be playing Man Utd by week & Man Utd fans are hoping to destroy them at Stamford Bridge again.
The blue side are Mumus 🤣
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@SlawGOlaide @yabaleftonline Yes, we'll come for you cus you lack sense. Have you been to Anambra?
What positive change has Tinubu made in almost 4yrs now. You're suffering, but bigotry has turned you to a zombie. 💯
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@i_found_leigh24 @davidoghe @ummuh_Zahra Maybe there was no love from the beginning and she has gotten all she came into the relationship for. Your husband is not a mind reader, if he is not listening, sit him down. And have a discussion, wake him up and have a discussion, seek how he listens. It's not rocket science
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@AmazingTuREAL @davidoghe @ummuh_Zahra In my understanding "he laughed about it" A loving husband would be concerned about a death joke and ask" babe why would you say that?"
Honestly what's the point of marriage when there's no longer love innit.
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When I left my marriage, the first question people asked was: “Did he cheat?”
I said no.
They looked confused. “So why leave a good man?”
Yes, he was a good man. He didn’t cheat. He didn’t hit me. He provided. He came home every night.
But I was slowly disappearing. I would talk, and he wouldn’t hear me. I would cry, and he’d say, “You’re too emotional.” I needed comfort and got silence.
There were nights I was unwell, restless, struggling beside him, and he never noticed. Not even a simple “Are you okay?”
I started asking myself: “If something happens to me here, will he even know?”
One day I told him, half-joking but serious: “My fear is that I could be dying, and you wouldn’t notice.”
He laughed. But I meant every word.
That’s when it hit me: A man can be good and still be emotionally absent.
I didn’t leave because he was bad. I left because I felt alone in a place that was supposed to feel like home.
So tell me: Is presence more important than provision in marriage? And if you were in her shoes, how long would you stay? 💭
Cc: chinyere charity

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@ummuh_Zahra Allow baba face hin life biko. You want to be seen but are you seeing him too? Selfish mofo... Muuuuve
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@i_found_leigh24 @davidoghe @ummuh_Zahra She would talk and he wouldn't hear her, yet she made a statement and they laughed about it. Hmmm
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@davidoghe @ummuh_Zahra I think this was communication. She would talk and he would not listen.

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Sponsoring education of a girl you are not married to with aim of marriage is worst than gambling, it is even more than being daft. If her father or mother can't do that, why you? You will lose in the end
Foundational Nupe Lawyer@egi_nupe
You are making jest of people who play bet but you are also spending money on a woman you are not married to and still sponsoring her education. 🤔
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Someone said she converted to Christianity and left Christianity back again to islam, because all Christians do is sing and dance, there's no proper worship. 😂😂
Well, in islam, worship is following set of rituals and rules, facing a particular direction(Ka'abba), and speaking a particular language five times daily.
But in Christianity worship is your life, your body, spirit and soul. You worship God in spirit and truth. You present your body as a living sacrifice to God. God dwells in you so you worships God continually without break. Your entire life is worship. No rigid rituals or rules to follow. No time set for worship. No specific language for worship. No particular direction to face. Worship is a continuous lifestyle.
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She's an accidental public officer who ordinarily shouldn't be anywhere power in a decent society.. She is nothing but a disgusting being who should be ashamed of herself. No woman who claimed to be a mother should ever act and troll others the way she does... Such a disgrace to motherhood.. 😠 😡 She would be long gone from public office if Nigeria was a normal country.. C'mon!
Millishield 01 🚘🌽🫑🌶🦈🐔@Millishield01
Say something you know about her.
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@Jitter_bugg69 @mawanfei @quesadaaa_ So u didn't read about the guy who saved a kid from car accident and the mother sued him for fracturing the child's arm? What was his crime? They are the ones preaching mind your business, yet the ones crying nobody is trying to help them.
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@mawanfei @AmazingTuREAL @quesadaaa_ They had to create the whole "women and children first" cuz men would literally shove past and let women and children die in tragedies.
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For any young women or men watching this, don’t ever run to a man for help, run to a woman, preferably an older woman, we will take care of that shit!! Fucking period!
Zoya🕊️@Zoya_ki_batein
The kids were the only men.
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@viktorbensonyt Make she even block am back make dem move on. Any small thing dem Don run come here
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@mawanfei @quesadaaa_ I didnt say any of that actually
I just said men arent protectors as they like to claim.
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@PoojaMedia How e take concern you? We are losing today and I will be proud about it
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@badtGirlRiri @Theoladeledada You are the dull one. He made his choice, so others should be allowed to do that too
Imafon, Nigeria 🇳🇬 English

@Theoladeledada You are dull is about the party, you think if he joins APC people won’t drag him?
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I hope y’all won’t complain when Odunlade Adekola do the same thing joining APC
Obiasogu David@afrisagacity
Actor Zubby Michael picked the ADC form, to run for the House of Reps in Ekwusigo, Anambra state. I love this. More Nigerian youths should get involved in the race!✍️
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@kenkenlewu She better be going to her ex... Because she just became his ex
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My colleague is angry because his wife’s ex bought her an iPhone.
For 5 months, the woman didn’t have a phone.
Her husband refused to get her another one.
His reason?
He had already bought her two phones within one year, but their twin kids kept damaging them.
He said she’s too careless…
so he decided to punish her by not replacing it again.
The woman got tired and reached out to her ex.
She begged him for a phone… and he sent her one.
Now the husband is furious.
He’s not even angry about the phone…
he’s angry that she went back to her ex.
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