Sultan of Engineers.

@fredexc @markessien The problem is diversion, I raised a question, then you diverted to something else. In all the metrics your man is not close at all either as a student or an administrator. Can't you see for yourself? We don't play emotion here, we deal with facts and figures

@BasiruGafari @markessien No nation develops and thrives without education. I know you can't ask Tinubu that one cos he graduated from a school before the school was built so I rest my case

Peter Obi may be personally good, but so far I have not seen any hint that he knows how to build a great team around him. I am not criticizing him. But he really seems to be a solo-player, and does not have that critical "person evaluation" skill. His most important hire right now should be that person who can see through people and really build a strong team. Not everyone has the same strengths or weaknesses, and he should plug his weaknesses with really strong people.

@fredexc @markessien You people should never make the statement of that academic jamboree. It depicts an intellectual argument please. We all know how many miracle centres that was closed immediately he left the office.

@markessien Say no more, this information you seek isn't difficult to find. Look at the team he assembled while he was a governor that should clarify your accessions, when took academics to No. 1 he didn't do it alone, he had a commissioner... Security nkor?

@chirikimmy @deltanmuslimah You don't like Muslims and you think they know you are existing somewhere. However, you came to someone's post started ranting and abusing again. Are you guys cursed generationally because the pattern is repeating itself every time.

@deltanmuslimah As a Muslim girl,I know u are already cursed,I am sorry I don’t engage Muslim people,if u go through my page u will know I don’t like you guys,so just scroll out of here if u don’t want ur fraudphet and the rest of ur people to learn the truth about the cult u are in just move.

The quotes and comments are exactly why many of us from Delta North remain cautious about the Anioma State proposal and any suggestion of being subsumed under a broader South East identity. Let me be clear. Ika people are proud of who we are. Our dialects and cultural identity are not footnotes to be renamed or redefined by anyone else. Yes, there are cultural and linguistic connections, but those connections should never become a basis for erasing our distinctiveness or speaking over our identity like it is inconsequential. That’s why I reject the creation of Anioma State, completely and unequivocally. It does not represent our interests, it does not reflect our identity, and it does not offer any convincing benefit to our people. It is a forced marriage that will distort who we are and advance agendas that do not align with the will of the majority of the Delta North people.

@damigreat @leetowcare_s @Montero1016 Speak no more, you have spoken well. However, emotionally, sentimentally, and short-sightedness people will come for you.

@leetowcare_s @Montero1016 Subjective... They're hypnotized by the man. I won't say more. He has done nothing more than what he predecessor did, only that the former lacked public support bcos of his outspokenness.

We got that of Lagos & Ogun right but u see Oyo ehn.... They are the most sophisticated and unpredictable Yoruba voters. Won ya weyrey gan o. As cerebral as Bola Ige was, he lost his re-election bid for 1983. There's an influencers war already online with friends cursing old friends.😅 Prepare for a competition of orin otes. Leave Oyo elections for Oyo people. Do not bet on anyone or u go enter one chance. 😁 Adedibu's demise makes it much more unpredictable. 🦻 it's better for synergy between all 3 states though cuz that axis left alone can be Africa's richest by far.

@omo_Oyebanji Check your history and Google is your friend. As at 1880, the marriageable age is 9 years in the UK, USA has 7 - 11 years across the country. Then which one is better and lawful. You guys should reason for once not emotion or WhatsApp group debate.

@BasiruGafari So the west are the one who made sex with a 9yr old girl evil?

Peace be unto you too… I promised to address this earlier. The delay is just due to my tight schedule. This is not a topic you can answer with a single tweet. It is an ideological battle, and you cannot fight it with a shallow response. When the article drops, I am breaking down every nuance. We are going to expose the deep hypocrisy of those who use this specific marriage as bait. I will trace the timeline of this propaganda. When did the outrage begin? Who were the specific people that started it? Who gave it publicity and what is their real motive? All of this will be laid bare. Then I will analyze every nuance of their school of taught, their double standards with clear evidence on why it is falsehood and propaganda. You will also see a breakdown of the poor defenses made by some Muslims today. You see people trying to bend our history just to fit into a modern Western standard. I will shed light on their historical errors and show why their apologetic answers collapse under scrutiny. Then we go straight to the core and merit of the question. The answers. The authentic position of Islam. I am bringing what the classical scholars of Hadith, Fiqh, and history documented about this. You cannot fight a generational lie with a quick paragraph. The full breakdown is coming soon by the grace of the Almighty. Keep watch.

Since the past 24 hours that I made the tweet on child parenting solution, my DM has been buzzing. I checked them, and one thing was quite common to all: Parents who are not happy about their kid’s performance in school, and they have approached it the wrong way. If you fall in this category, this post is for you. Many of us use brutal force because expectations are too high, and the anger is just too much. The scholar Ibn al-Jawzi explained in his book Sayd al-Khatir that intellect is a Rizq (provision) from God, just like money or health. He said some people are born with a wide vessel and others with a narrow one. If you try to force the water of a whole sea into a small cup, you will only spill the water and ruin the cup. This is what many of us are doing. We are trying to force a "doctor's brain" into a child whose cup was designed for something else. By that, it causes a soul-crushing resentment in the child. Imam Al-Ghazali described this beautifully in Ihya’ Ulum al-Din. He warned parents about a state called “Al-Malal”, where a child builds resentment because they are pushed beyond their limit. Everyone wants the best for their child. No doubt. However, if you keep yelling at them for things they cannot grasp yet, you make them hate the very sight of a book. You are closing the door to their heart while trying to kick open the door to their mind. Then what is the solution? It is simple. Going forward, every parent should make efforts to start looking for the Fath (the opening) in their kids. What does this mean? This is the lane the Almighty has prepared for them. In our history, if a child is slow with grammar or math, the scholars don’t call them a failure. They move them to a trade, a craft or a service. How then do you identify this Fath (Opening) in your child? Please pay close attention to me… (1) The first phase is Observation. Ibn al-Qayyim mentioned a concept called Istid’ad (natural readiness) in his book titled: Tuhfat al-Mawdud. This means you want to watch/observe/look at the child when they think nobody is looking. This is your first tool. For the next two weeks, stop talking about school. Do not worry yourself about how they perform on their homework. Instead, keep a "Strength Log." Every evening, write down one thing they did well that had nothing to do with a classroom. Did they fix a broken toy? Did they calm down a crying sibling? Did they organise their shoes? You are looking for their Istid’ad (natural readiness). If they are "book-slow" but "people-smart" or "hand-smart," that is where the key has been placed. (2) Introduce “Project or Craft” early on. Ibn Khaldun, in his Muqaddimah, argued that projects/crafts are high forms of intelligence that build civilizations. He argued that some minds are designed to understand the physical world better than the abstract one. Give them a "Project Day." Buy a basic tool kit, a sewing machine, or a coding starter kit. Give them a broken radio or a piece of furniture to fix. Delegate. Give them a real-world task that has a visible result. When a child who fails at math sees that they can build a table or bake a perfect loaf of bread, their internal shame starts to heal. They realize they are not stupid; they were just in the wrong room. (3) Kill the Comparison Virus. Imam Al-Zarnuji, in his classic work Ta’lim al-Muta’allim, explained that a student should only study what fits their nature. He said that forcing a student into a field they have no taste for is a waste of their life and the teacher's time. When you compare your child to others, you are catching a virus that blinds you to their path. Always filter. When family members start bragging about their kids' grades, you must be the shield. Tell them, "My child is mastering the art of (so so and so)." You are teaching your child that success is not a single ladder. There are many ladders to it. And if you do not value their ladder, they will stop climbing. (4) Prioritize Character Building. Put more efforts to praise your kids for their good character. Always tell them you love them when they behave well or show good character. Character recognition helps the child build a good self-image, which translates into self-confidence and barrier-breaking for the child. Prioritise this. (5) Don’t underestimate the power of your words. Always pray to God to grant them their opening. The scholars taught that the "opening" is a gift from Al-Fattah (The Opener). Supplicate. In your Sujud or in your prayers, stop asking for them to be a doctor/engineer, and what have you. Ask for the door that was made for them to be opened. Ask Him to show you the Fath so you can stop pushing them against a closed wall. Always remember, a parent who finds the "Fath (The Opening)" for their child has given them a gift better than a degree. You have given them a purpose. Start that journey NOW. It’s never too late… Thank you for your attention. Allah knows best.

@omo_Oyebanji @YusufAsunmogejo We don't live by corrupt ideology and propaganda from the media, West, and anyone of you. We treat everything as it comes. Name anything that our prophet couldn't touch in philosophy, medicine, law of nature, and science in general

@BasiruGafari @YusufAsunmogejo Think for your's for ones, and stop rigogitating what you've heard. If Muhammad is a perfect example for all time, then whatever he does must be morally ok for all time. Everyone feels it's evil to have sex with a 9yrs old now. And Muhammad did it. Ponder on that for a moment

@omo_Oyebanji @YusufAsunmogejo You're the one feeling that. No one does but because the agenda must agend. What define moral? And who makes the law that this is moral or not. Check and ponder with an open mind, read about him and see the most perfect and greatest to ever live.

@SONof_AYELOJA @YusufAsunmogejo Hàáà, who told you the prophet had concubines? Please, do not attribute those things to the prophet of Allah. I beg of you, erase your thoughts. Also, the prophet is a human but not like you and I. Allah himself describes him better.

@BasiruGafari @YusufAsunmogejo I never said it was a mistake, I said he was human, he had concubines in his time, Muslims can’t have concubines today. He did things that were normal during his time. He is human, that’s all I said.

@SONof_AYELOJA @YusufAsunmogejo If you're admitting the truth that the prophet made a mistake, what happened to the law in the west and our country in the last 100 years that allow such. Never sit with those who agree that it was a mistake. It was never a mistake, it's a common practice

@BasiruGafari @YusufAsunmogejo Speaking the truth doesn’t mean I don’t have a mind of my own, a lot of things were moral over a thousand years ago, but they are not now, it’s the truth, admitting the truth doesn’t take anything away from the prophet, he was human and he lived his time the way it was then.

@SONof_AYELOJA @YusufAsunmogejo However, it will be hypocritical to say the prophet made a mistake for doing such as the west and Christians are attacking based on that. However, they are sleeping with their 14 year old in this century.

@SONof_AYELOJA @YusufAsunmogejo The problem is not either being truthful or not. The prophet didn't do anything wrong because he does nothing except what Allah permits him to do as it was stated in the Qur'an. However, has anyone said we should be given out our young girls? Definitely not.

This breaks my heart and I understand how your friend feels. A typical 16 year old boy would claim he knows what he is doing. However, he is still young to know the permanence of his actions. Like I said in my first post, none of these parenting issues haven’t been solved in history. In light of this, permit me to share some deep wisdom from our scholars on how to handle this. First of all, cut off his audience. Stop focusing on the alcohol. The alcohol is just the result. The real issue is the friends taking those pictures and hyping him up online. A classical scholar named Ibn al-Jawzi wrote a book called Sayd al-Khatir. In this book, he warned that human nature is a thief. He said your character will steal the bad habits of your friends without you even noticing. So she has to break that peer influence. Take his phone. Cut his allowance. Limit his unnecessary outings and keep him closer to home. Do whatever it takes to separate him from that specific group of friends. If it requires you approaching their parents to tell them clearly that you want them to cut ties with your child, please do it. Once you do this, his demeanor will change towards you, so you have to be prepared for that. Change how you confront him. Adopt softer voice and tone pitches. If you scream at a teenager, you do not stop the bad behavior. You just teach him to become a better liar and hide it from you. We have a famous historical account of a young boy who went to the Prophet (peace be upon him) and boldly asked for permission to commit a major sin. The Prophet (peace be upon him) did not shout or slap him. He brought the boy close, asked him direct questions to make him think, and reasoned with his intellect. Your friend needs to sit her son down. Look him in the eye and talk to the man she wants him to become, not the boy he is acting like. Appeal to his future and his dignity. After you have done this, she now has to fill up his time. One of our great scholars, Ibn al-Qayyim wrote a powerful book called Al-Daa wad-Dawaa, which means The Disease and The Cure. In it, he explained a golden rule I want you to note. He said the human heart is a vessel. If you empty out the bad habits but leave the heart empty, those bad habits will rush right back in. This means that you cannot just command him to stop drinking. You have to give him something heavier to carry. Hand him serious responsibilities around the house or find him a tough mentor. But when you do this, make sure you tie this to a clear reward system. Tell him, if you do this work, you get this privilege. Make him earn his freedom back. And when he puts in the effort, she must try as much as possible to fulfill her own part of the promise. This rebuilds trust and exhausts his energy so he has no time for weekend parties. Finally, she must guard her tongue. When a mother is heartbroken, it is very easy to say damaging things. Tell her to never speak failure over his life. In our tradition, the Prophet (peace be upon him) taught a beautiful concept called Al-Fa'l. It means maintaining optimism and speaking good words even in the darkest situations. Even if she is furious during an argument and wants to scream a curse out of frustration, she must flip it and shout a prayer for his guidance instead. She should speak the good she wants to see. The prayer of a mother goes straight to God without any barrier. She should use her tears to pray for God to change his heart, break his bad friendships, and straighten his path. Tell your friend to hold her ground. Many great men had terrible teenage years. She just needs to stay steady, change her strategy, and fight for his future. Allah knows best.

@SONof_AYELOJA @YusufAsunmogejo Then, you need to learn then. Read, learn,unlearn, and relearn. Some of you don't have a mind of your own.

@SONof_AYELOJA @YusufAsunmogejo Are you a Muslim or bending to an ideology of the west. I think you need to seek knowledge and read your history. About 100 years ago, the USA and other western countries allowed 7-11 years to marry. The greatest Mahadma Ghandi of India got married at 11.

@omo_Oyebanji @YusufAsunmogejo Some of you are very daft to the core. You people feed on what's dishing out from your WhatsApp group without thinking. An event of an over 1400 years ago is very wrong? You people need redemption beyond reasonable doubt.

@YusufAsunmogejo The issue is not that Muhammad had sex with a 9year old girl. The issue is that Muslims claims he is a perfect example for all humankind for all time. Which means everyone must emulate him to reach jehna. Shouldn't the Almighty know a time will come it would be wrong?

Hello Lola, I am a Muslim, and our spiritual tradition has a very deep approach to raising children. I want to share some tips from our scholars that will be beneficial to you regardless of your faith. First of all, our theology teaches the concept of Fitrah. This means that every child is born with a pure heart. At six years old, she is not a criminal mastermind. She does not have a wicked soul. If she doesn’t have all these, then what is happening? The truth is that she is just lacking impulse control and testing boundaries. By this, if you look at her as a manipulator, you will fight her. However, if you look at her as a pure soul making mistakes, you will be able to guide her. Secondly, for every problem anyone faces today, it has been solved in history. The only problem is how to locate them. A classical scholar named Al-Ghazali wrote about child psychology over 900 years ago in his famous book “Ihya Ulum al-Din.” In his section on disciplining children, he gave a practical rule I want you to adopt going forward. He advised that parents should never push a child into a corner where they are forced to lie. When you ask a question you already know the answer to, her survival instinct kicks in. She cries and she lies to defend herself because she is scared of you. Stop interrogating her. Just look at her and state the fact. Say, I know you took this, and we are going to return it right now. Again, another scholar and sociologist Ibn Khaldun addressed this exact behavior in his masterpiece titled: “Al-Muqaddimah.” He warned that when a child is raised with harsh punishment, they learn deceit, trickery, and lying to protect themselves. This is why she is covering her tracks and crying to manipulate you. The fear of a harsh reaction is making her a better liar. Lola, do not attach a label to her. Do not ever call her a thief. If you attack her identity instead of her action, she will internalize it and grow into that dark label. Tell her the action is wrong but protect her dignity. Make her return the item. Do not fall for the tears. Hold her hand, walk her back to wherever she took it from, and make her hand it back and apologize. The discomfort of returning a stolen item teaches a much better lesson than beating her will ever do. Finally, I don’t know if you are a Muslim, but never underestimate the power of your own words. In our faith, we believe the prayer of a parent for a child goes straight to God without any barrier. Pray over her. Pray for her heart to be content and for her character to be straight. Keep doing this consistently and the habit will break. Allah knows best.

@hayzed0709 Yes, the man himself said It.

@BasiruGafari Fr?

I meet a lady . We talk for 2month she came to visit me this Ramadan period she told me that I would come to know are parents which I did. Because we are not in same state .now she didn't introduce me to her parents since two weeks now at I'm in her state. She texted me this afternoon that her parents did not agree for us to marry because am not alsuuna. I don't know she's niqobite. But she promised me that we must marry with all cost. This evening she sent a text that she's sorry we can not marry again. I have 500k with her she as blocked me. This life is full of wicked people like be careful.. I would try to track her all handover to police. I regret of coming to this app. Copied

@am_frosh_olami @hayzed0709 How? How does typing put food on his table. Some things are unnecessary to be honest. When she knows he's not her type, why did she collect money from him. She gave all the niqobite bad reviews. Anyways, she has answered her call at the police station.

@hayzed0709 The way he types breaks my heart, no lady would take him seriously I’m sorry 😭