Enjighe

Few days ago, I saw a video of a single mother who had eight children for seven different men. She was saying it could happen to anyone. I just laughed at the absurdity of her claim. Being a single mother of eight for seven different men clearly shows a pattern of poor judgment. It’s indicative of a history of reckless personal decisions. She needs to focus on raising her army of babies and never sleep with any man ever again.

@bgeorgnsi Sometimes you don’t even need to go naked, once you offend the wrong person, you will definitely face the consequences.

For those of you that say if a woman goes naked at midnight to pray against you, it won't work, I laugh in Ibibio language. Years ago, my friend had a fantastic job and her then boyfriend that lived in PH persuaded her to bring money to add to his so that he can go into oil bunkering business. She knew nothing about oil bunkering business but he convinced her it was lucrative and that she should always bear in mind that a 9-5 job won't last forever. That was how she transferred a very large part of her savings to him. After he received her money, attitude started, no picking of calls, excuses of being too busy until he switched off his phone totally for months. Months later, she received a message from him with cock and bull stories of how he was scammed and the one that pained her most, how he loves her more than life itself. It would have been better if he had continued to disappear because his come-back vibes really pained her. She went naked every midnight and cried and cursed this guy then blocked him. To cut the chase, today, he is living a miserable life. Got married, but the wife ran and left him. He is still sending my friend messages till this day to beg. She said she has forgiven him but she had to do what she had to do. So, let me laugh at you again for saying a girl you really wronged going naked at midnight will not affect you.🏃

It’s not always easy starting out as a young lawyer, but if you’re focused, you’ll make it. I used to be a broke young lawyer back then in Abuja. I later got a scholarship, studied a Masters abroad in a specialized area of law and now I’m working for a multi corporation. Don’t write any of these lawyers off, my law degree has opened many doors for me.

In this Abuja one of the brokest professions I have seen are lawyers. The percentage of lawyers that are doing well are very few. Some uber drivers are doing better than some lawyers in this city. I don't know why it's like that. Is it like that in other states?

@AnyanwuMalachy So true. Anybody who truly wants to build will not be counting scores

A woman going through pregnancy, childbirth, and recovery deserves appreciation, respect, and support. However, the moment childbearing becomes a permanent excuse to avoid responsibilities years later, it stops being sacrifice and starts looking like manipulation. When responsibilities are discussed in marriage and you bring up childbearing as a shield, then you're actually looking for an emotional leverage. Many people act as though childbearing should automatically exempt them from contributing in other areas of the family forever. That's not partnership; that's negotiating from a position of emotional debt. Marriage works best when both parties focus on the growth of the family, not on keeping score of who has suffered or sacrificed more. A husband helping with cooking, cleaning, and childcare is doing his part. A wife supporting the family financially, emotionally, or otherwise is doing her part. The strongest marriages are not built by people constantly reminding each other of past sacrifices. They are built by people who wake up daily asking, "What can I do to make this family better?" In all, consideration is the purest form of love.

As a woman, whether you’re a virgin or not, once you marry an unfaithful man, he’s definitely going to cheat. It’s like telling a lion not to eat you because you’re a good person🤣 If women choose to keep their virginity, they should do so for self preservation only, not with the expectation that their husbands will not cheat.

If you don’t understand a post, it is better to ask the poster questions than to leave unrelated comments. Yesterday I called out men who marry virgins and then cheat on them. Many comments focused on gender equality or inequality instead. I kept wondering whether those people had even read my post. Let me be clear: I was not discussing gender equality. I was highlighting the unfair treatment of virgin women. Why marry a woman who preserved her virginity for you, only to cheat on her? She deserves a faithful husband. Nothing justifies breaking that trust. Above all, love God.

@a4lasade @kenkenlewu They know you’re a mumu

If someone rejects you, marries someone else, gets a divorce, and comes back... do they genuinely see your worth now, or are they just lonely? Let's talk.

@wtfiswrong179 @heisrichardz @Aduradara61049 Please speak for the women in your family🤭

@Enjighe @heisrichardz @Aduradara61049 No matter how broke we are. We still guide pass you *100.

Age affects men too. As you grow older, your chances of marrying your dream wife keep reducing.

@jon_d_doe Thank God my father was and is still capable of caring for us🤭

In the last 10-15 years in Nigeria, many women that call themselves university graduates today, would not have been graduates if not for men that are not their fathers or relatives. End.

An adult male will come on X and be taking marriage advice from people that haven't even kept a successful relationship before? Una de muzz me seriously..😂 The truth is that you can read a thousand books, like and repost millions of 'supposed masculine tweets", and listen to a hundred opinions, but experience has a way of teaching lessons that words never can. What you live through, the personal victories, mistakes, and challenges leaves a deeper mark than what you're told. Imagine you want to start a million-dollar business, and you're taking advice from someone that hasn't successfully set up a street kiosk before talk more of a super market 😂

@Debiggestpod @Obichinyelu @heisrichardz @Aduradara61049 Olodo. When you don’t have any sensible response, you resort to insults. Ewu!

@Enjighe @Obichinyelu @heisrichardz @Aduradara61049 You be iti boribo

@rukky_nate It depends on the cooking you want😋

Before, all we had was just “chef” Today, we now have “private chefs” which has absolutely nothing to do with cooking. Sigh.

@boyRay111 @Obichinyelu @heisrichardz @Aduradara61049 I didn’t know this thing will pain you people like this. Eyaah, kpele! You will be rich okay, So you’ll marry your dream wife at 95, then start attending PTA at 100😂😂🤣🤣🤣

@Enjighe @Obichinyelu @heisrichardz @Aduradara61049 You said how many of us has ned money? Shut the fuck up, many of us will be richer than dangote not to talk of ned nwoko.. even ned did not know he will be rich as he is when he was still a youth. We can marry whoever we want even at 95.. we buy you with money!

@boyRay111 @andreda_zach @Obichinyelu @heisrichardz @Aduradara61049 Kpele oh dumb and dumber😂🤣🤣🤣

@Enjighe @andreda_zach @Obichinyelu @heisrichardz @Aduradara61049 Anywhere you see dumb girls use this cry me river phrase, just know they are deeply pained.. you need to ignore them

@Chan_diva16 @Nigeriangod_ Exactly! It’s character

@Enjighe @Nigeriangod_ Or their nature... Na that one dey vex me pass... It's character not nature.

Cheating married men think they’re the only ones people outside wants to sleep with 😂, you think men don’t toast your wives ? You think men don’t slide into her DMs?, But she decided not to reply anyone because she’s loyal to you but you the moment you step outside your house you turn into a wild dog chasing everything on skirt and embarrassing yourself and your wife. If your complains you start screaming “she doest give you Peace at home “.

@Tony_Ash1 @andreda_zach @Obichinyelu @heisrichardz @Aduradara61049 In your dreams😂🤣🤣🤣

@Enjighe @andreda_zach @Obichinyelu @heisrichardz @Aduradara61049 Mumu. You wey go be 4th wife las las.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@andreda_zach @Obichinyelu @heisrichardz @Aduradara61049 Cry me a river😂🤣

@Enjighe @Obichinyelu @heisrichardz @Aduradara61049 You deflect from the point gtf

@AnyanwuMalachy I can’t say for other women but If I don’t like you, I don’t like you regardless of your money. I agree that some girls are motivated by greed though.

@Enjighe First of all, can we both agree that greed is one major thing that makes women fall into the hands of a wrong man? A man you don't like bit because he's materially available in your life, you fall for him.... that's desperation if we're being fair to words here.

Those that go about shouting "marry virgin" women while they're community pen!s are actually f0olish because why are you looking for what you don't have? that's the height of hypocrisy. However on the issue that women are gatekeepers of sex is a valid point because from experience a lady has a higher chance of out rightly bouncing your sexual advances. Even if a man comes with marriage as a form of deception, at least it's not a coerced approach neither was it under duress and as such, the lady has 100% right to say NO while seeing through his bullshitt. That's why desperation should be far from every women because men use it against them.

@Kabalmark @Aduradara61049 @BOBCyril2 Potentials? Okay😂😂🤣

@Enjighe @Aduradara61049 @BOBCyril2 And as you mumu reach your brain still no think reach say all ned children dey healthy bahh even as him still old… “none of them will have Ned’s wealth” You just dey talk bout your own family shaa

@rickyy_peterson @Kabalmark @Aduradara61049 @BOBCyril2 Says a stupid retard who thinks he has all the time in the world because he’s a man🤣

@Kabalmark @Enjighe @Aduradara61049 @BOBCyril2 Ignore women. They say the most retarded sheet. ANYTHING to feel good

@Kabalmark @Aduradara61049 @BOBCyril2 It’s funny how you all think you will end up like Ned. Delulu promax🤣🤣