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Can’t even do April dump. I nearly died 😭

Happy May to all who celebrate 🙂‍↕️😝

Many Nigerians ate culturally selfish. We don’t see evil as evil till it hits close to home. It’s terrible!

All my life man

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Precisely

The officer that shot him, the one that was giving him bullets, all of them should face the full weight of the law. People really just stood and saw that he had intentions to shoot and did absolutely nothing about it. No one could help save that young man. 💔 Every Nigerian Life Matters. Stop Killing Us!!! #EndPoliceBrutality

I have tweeted this a few times, and I will tweet it again. Firstly, we cannot say they didn’t build or buy a house for their fathers just because it wasn’t posted online. Secondly, if they didn’t, there must be a story behind it. Lastly, and most importantly, we men underestimate the importance of bonding, showing up, and emotionally supporting our kids. We act like these things aren’t as important as providing. Many men don’t even try at all. no bond, no emotional support, and just providing. Do you know why many men are quick to disown their kids? It’s because there is no bond. We see it online all the time: a video of kids making mistakes, and men commenting, “If any of my kids try this, I will disown them.” That easy? The first thing that comes to your mind is to disown them? I changed so many diapers, soothed their sickness, and endured every tantrum, and you just want me to disown my kids? Many men see kids as people they only need to provide for. If all you do is provide, while the mother does the showing up, emotional support, and bonding, then when the kids grow up and it’s time to give back, they will do the same. Not because they are bad kids, but because that’s what they learned. They will celebrate their mother more. They will talk to her more. Meanwhile, you as the father who only provided, will only receive financial gestures and gifts. You will be taken care of. They will like post their mom and rarely post you. Ask people who openly celebrate their dads if all he did was provide. But if you never celebrated them when they were young, why should they celebrate you? You can’t expect them to miraculously create a bond you never built. If you’re lucky, your kids may unlearn that pattern and try to build a relationship with you, but it will be difficult, because they were raised with, “As a father, it’s my way or the highway.” I work 12 to 16 hours sometimes, and my daughter has a game right after that. I get tired, really tired, but I still show up. And many times, when I get there, the smile that lights up her face when she spots me in the crowd is priceless. I love seeing that. Do you think I always have the strength to go to parks, birthday parties, pools, and watch her play sports? Sometimes I want to rest, but I still try. And whenever I can’t make it, I communicate that with her. I don’t just fail to show up. I explain and give her reasons. So, my brothers, providing for your family and being emotionally present aren’t mutually exclusive. Try. Otherwise, when you are down, your kids won’t be beside you on your deathbed, but they will make sure you d*e comfortably.

A lot of men don’t know how to handle a woman who values character more than money.

In terms of behavioral consistency, the most reliable predictor of future performance, is past performance. You can’t get a friend or a partner with a bad track record and believe you’re special so it can’t happen to you. It will

“Women shouldnt speak about being cheated on, it dents your track record” You heard your fellow man had a character flaw, but it’s the woman he cheated on that is the issue, You people are psychotic dimwits until proven otherwise.

And the church say Amen.

The last time I had a full tank was BC.

There’s a way you’ll be tired, you’d just be going. Robot.

I dey cosplay nepo baby

Nobody zone out pass me man. 😭

Dividend day😝

Real😭😭😭

@_shadesofella @phillyf_ 😭

@phillyf_ Everyday I’m fighting for my life 😣

I don enter profession wey pass my power

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