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@LedenUnor @nisafeminista @ManKindInit @womensaid @RefugeCharity We do. We discovered that you are more likely to be an abuser than the abused.

@RashidSunook @nisafeminista @ManKindInit @womensaid @RefugeCharity Get to work. Collect stats on males murdered by present or former female partners. Drill down into each case. Bypass government funding. Why can’t you ?

Once again, even though women make up the majority of educators, male educators still commit 85% of sexual assaults.

@LedenUnor @nisafeminista No, men

@RashidSunook @nisafeminista Do you mean trans women - are stats not sex disaggregated ?

@LedenUnor @nisafeminista @ManKindInit @womensaid @RefugeCharity We're going to need someone less hateful than Jess Phillips handing out the cash.

@RashidSunook @nisafeminista @ManKindInit @womensaid @RefugeCharity Then be part of the increase.

@LedenUnor @nisafeminista If you can't counter what she says, that's your problem.

@RashidSunook @nisafeminista She’s the only example men give. Over and over and over and over again. Are you incapable of action ? Is that what you’re admitting ?

@LedenUnor @nisafeminista I've just told you. @ManKindInit have been campaigning for just as long as @womensaid or @RefugeCharity only without public funding.

@RashidSunook @nisafeminista Fundraise on your own for men’s groups. Why can’t you ? Women had private groups, took in DV victims on their own dime. Why can’t men ?

@LedenUnor @nisafeminista And you do know that male victims of DV are included in VAWG stats to ensure that's where all the money goes?

@RashidSunook @nisafeminista Women’s groups didn’t have funding at the start and some still don’t - you can fundraise or just do it informally. Consult some SA specialists for help in starting an informal group.

@vyxper @Annoyed___Bored @nisafeminista Real 'Rape Culture' is women believing that they can't rape and being able to rape with impunity.

@Annoyed___Bored @RashidSunook @nisafeminista dude, the idea that men cant be raped is a part of rape culture. when i say rape culture i simply mean the ideas of rape that a culture has, and how these ideas present themselves in daily interactions. male victims being ridiculed is an example of western rape culture

@vyxper @Annoyed___Bored @nisafeminista We don't undermine; we say 'We have it worse,' and 'Please, can we be treated equally like feminism said we would?'.

@Annoyed___Bored @RashidSunook @nisafeminista + yes, i agree that in many contexts, male victims have it worse. im not trying to argue otherwise. im simply trying to get you guys to understand that you dont have to undermine womens experiences with rape culture for you to talk about the male victims side of it.

@vyxper @Annoyed___Bored @nisafeminista But in reality women get treated better. Which makes being female attractive to some men who can't deal with the way society treats them.

@RashidSunook @Annoyed___Bored @nisafeminista overall yeah. my point in this conversation isnt to convince you that female victims have it objectively worse or something. my point is that both genders have different specific problems regarding this, but both are pretty intensely harmful.

@vyxper @Annoyed___Bored @nisafeminista 1, Division helps no one. 2. Narcissism helps no one.

@RashidSunook @Annoyed___Bored @nisafeminista 1. because i am female and i can only really speak on my own experiences 2. this specific conversation is me trying to explain to yall that youre underestimating the extent of how rape and rape culture impacts women

@vyxper @Annoyed___Bored @nisafeminista Abuse begets abuse, always has, always will. TW identify as women because of how society treats women. The last sentence is childish lmfao

@RashidSunook @Annoyed___Bored @nisafeminista i dont think male victims should ever feel excluded or treated as if their trauma isnt valid or real. but trauma is not an excuse to abuse others. also transitioning has nothing to do with this.... yall are obsessed with making every conversation about hating trans people lmfao

@LedenUnor @nisafeminista There already is one but it doesn't receive the public funding of women's groups.

@RashidSunook @nisafeminista When female experience of sexual assault, violence, rape and more were ignored, they worked together to support victims. Why not start a group for male survivors in your community ?

@LedenUnor @nisafeminista Soon as we get a minister for men, client media and majority of Men's Rights MPs.

@RashidSunook @nisafeminista Why not address sentencing laws then ? This is something you can work on.

@stellacreasy You are more likely to be the abuser.

Domestic abuse rises whether England loses or wins at football. Tackling that shouldn’t depend on the score line but the seriousness with which we take violence against women and ending the culture of misogyny that enables it. With views like this Reform continue to show they are part of the problem not the solution.

@aliciakearns You are more likely to be the abuser. STOP BLAMING MEN

Suggesting the England team must win to protect women hands abusers the perfect alibi. Domestic violence isn’t caused by a final whistle - it’s caused by violent men, and they alone are to blame. The score is his excuse, not his cause.

@LedenUnor @nisafeminista Rape carries a different sentencing tariff and more social shame. It gives rise to people who can't be guilty of rape, comitting rape, like all women. It also means men don't disclose their rape. What would be the point

@RashidSunook @nisafeminista Which I know. And you’ve implied that sexual assault can’t ever be as serious as rape - which gives license to those who engage in sexual harassment and assault, like Wayne Couzens.

@Annoyed___Bored @vyxper @nisafeminista Excluding men from being victims has three effects. 1. Disrespected men lose respect for women. 2. Abused men become abusers. 3. Men identify as women for the benefits.

@vyxper @RashidSunook @nisafeminista Anyone tell you that its impossible for you to be raped? Anyone tell you that you gender cant be raped? Yea didnt think so.