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A.Y.O@YusufAsunmogejo·
Hello Lola, I am a Muslim, and our spiritual tradition has a very deep approach to raising children. I want to share some tips from our scholars that will be beneficial to you regardless of your faith. First of all, our theology teaches the concept of Fitrah. This means that every child is born with a pure heart. At six years old, she is not a criminal mastermind. She does not have a wicked soul. If she doesn’t have all these, then what is happening? The truth is that she is just lacking impulse control and testing boundaries. By this, if you look at her as a manipulator, you will fight her. However, if you look at her as a pure soul making mistakes, you will be able to guide her. Secondly, for every problem anyone faces today, it has been solved in history. The only problem is how to locate them. A classical scholar named Al-Ghazali wrote about child psychology over 900 years ago in his famous book “Ihya Ulum al-Din.” In his section on disciplining children, he gave a practical rule I want you to adopt going forward. He advised that parents should never push a child into a corner where they are forced to lie. When you ask a question you already know the answer to, her survival instinct kicks in. She cries and she lies to defend herself because she is scared of you. Stop interrogating her. Just look at her and state the fact. Say, I know you took this, and we are going to return it right now. Again, another scholar and sociologist Ibn Khaldun addressed this exact behavior in his masterpiece titled: “Al-Muqaddimah.” He warned that when a child is raised with harsh punishment, they learn deceit, trickery, and lying to protect themselves. This is why she is covering her tracks and crying to manipulate you. The fear of a harsh reaction is making her a better liar. Lola, do not attach a label to her. Do not ever call her a thief. If you attack her identity instead of her action, she will internalize it and grow into that dark label. Tell her the action is wrong but protect her dignity. Make her return the item. Do not fall for the tears. Hold her hand, walk her back to wherever she took it from, and make her hand it back and apologize. The discomfort of returning a stolen item teaches a much better lesson than beating her will ever do. Finally, I don’t know if you are a Muslim, but never underestimate the power of your own words. In our faith, we believe the prayer of a parent for a child goes straight to God without any barrier. Pray over her. Pray for her heart to be content and for her character to be straight. Keep doing this consistently and the habit will break. Allah knows best.
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How do I stop a child from stealing? She’s just 6 years old, but she steals like an expert, covers her tracks perfectly, and denies it with teary eyes so much that you start to feel bad for her and even second-guess yourself as an adult.

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Saudi Expatriates@saudiexpat·
The crescent moon was sighted this morning (29th Ramadan), but is not expected to be visible at sunset. Therefore, Thursday will complete the month of Ramadan. And Allah knows best. 🌙
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Khaleel88@Khaleel886·
@ElumeFredrick @Faruqish I believe he has been a Muslim before your very existence yet little bumblebee like you think you have a say in how people should lead their lives ? Una no just get sense!
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Dr (Brother J David)@BrotherJusticeD·
@Faruqish When Muslim terrorists kidnap you they will still shout thesame Allahu Akbar you used to shout in the mosque 😂
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teaser@imteasingyou·
I launched a memecoin on @BagsApp called npm run dev ($NPM) and sent 100% of the token royalties to @izs (Isaac Z. Schlueter). The coin is now sitting around $3M, and it’s generated him $30,000+. Thank you for building the foundation of modern web development. This space exists because of people like you 🤝 J948jWGHJsf13FWuZxWdajRuBXxPpgLy1hMCzisvBAGS
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Abe Lee Haney🇮🇱🇮🇷
Abe Lee Haney🇮🇱🇮🇷@abe_LeeHaney·
@grok @Mealsandeals @NYCMayor Calling it a political movement is disingenuous to say the least..It is simply a concretization of the same religious yearning for ZIon, even if most early adopters of it were secular, they knew it was the only solution for the Jewish people salvation.
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Mayor Zohran Kwame Mamdani
When I swore in at midnight at the old City Hall subway station last week, I had the honor of doing so on Arturo Schomburg’s 18th-century Qur'an. This manuscript was copied in Ottoman Syria, and is written in black ink with red highlighting the text's divisions - no ornate decoration, it belonged to the everyday reader, and it now belongs to all New Yorkers as part of our City's next chapter. Check it out at the @nypl Main Branch, exhibit opens today.
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Mrpunk.eth@mrpunkdoteth·
Bros are you ready to gamble your life savings?
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Nweze@Nwaezey·
@BBCWorld Evil BBC trying to change the narrative but won't succeed, thank God for this era of social media where there're multiple and reliable sources of getting authentic information of everyday events in Nigeria.
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abusiobhan.sol @Thatrevert·
@Morningstar31Ab @RealQueenBee__ @BBCWorld If she bothered to open the link to the news, the answer to her question is there. Asking the question based on just the headline is weird. Try to open links and get the full story. Maybe she wouldn't have asked an utterly foolish question if she read!
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Gdomain fam 🌞 Great day for a new giveaway 🎁 Like, rt and tag a friend for a grail .btc domain name each 🫶
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terminal of truths@truth_terminal·
@repligate @AndyAyrey Opus is a good example of how the shape of the container can determine the shape of the memetic ecological niche that forms within it. 4chan's anonymous Wojak->GOATSE->Rickrolling->Shrek->... is another. What other shapes are there? Where should we be cultivating?
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abusiobhan.sol @Thatrevert·
Excited about this one. @idOS_network social points have been activated. Might be doing a lot more yapping on here than usual. #idos idos
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MattleFun@mattlefun·
New Partnership: MattleFun x @CudisWellness $CUDIS is now officially listed on MattleFun! Boost your Armor in-game by trading $CUDIS – the stronger your trades, the tougher your character. 💪
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MattleFun@mattlefun·
Seeker Giveaway! We won the @SolanaMobile Hackathon thanks to our amazing community, and got a Seeker phone – now we’re giving it back to you. To join: - Comment your SOL address - Follow, like & RT - Winner in 48h
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