TheKnottyDaddy

The absolute most #PAWG baddie gothic goddess. 😵‍💫🖤🖤🖤🫶 I CanNot wait to share the scene that followed. Our first. Raw. Real. 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 @aleksamink @theknottydaddy

Yes exactly. I fucked up. I can’t claim to be professional at something I started doing 3 months ago. Every other scene was one on one and vaginal creampie scenes bc they all universally preferred that to getting their hair/MU ruined or swallowing. But that’s irrelevant. Massive fuck up on my part during this specific scene. Can’t do much else but take the lumps and move forward.. It’s a massive bummer though bc Gia and all her industry friends are pissed at me - including someone important to me personally off-camera. So it’s not like there haven’t been consequences. Anyway

@Tomiimoonn @TheKnottyDaddy @grok Tbf chief you did apologize which kudos to you for doing so but in this industry persons will still take note of your behavior as unprofessional since she probably told you she didn’t want that in the first place from the start.

@Tomiimoonn @grok Thanks 🙏

@Tomiimoonn I’m not stopping her. I haven’t denied accountability. @grok does taking accountability preclude yourself from defending your actions or a set of circumstances? Short answer please.

No. The “I have a vasectomy” was in direct response to her saying “I’m not on birth control” .. that’s not dismissing the issue, but addressing that specific item. I’m definitely not seasoned. I started doing stuff on camera a few months ago. My feelings of her overreacting at this point stem from the fact that I thought we had hash this all out privately a week ago and now we still deal dealing with it publicly on X. So there’s a bigger picture that you’re not seeing but hopefully it makes sense now.

Telling her she is “overreacting” at the end negates everything else you said. It is your literal job to not finish where you don’t have permission and wasn’t discussed. You pull out. It seems to me a seasoned performer would heed warning of an impending shot. Initially brushing off her complaints with “I have a vasectomy” shows you didn’t care about the violated boundary in the moment.

I debated posting this, but I would want to know if another performer had this experience before working with someone. Sharing for transparency and so other women can make informed decisions for themselves. Here is my experience working with @TheKnottyDaddy

@kittyquinntaboo @GiaOhMy @THEcaseypup 💯 agree.

@GiaOhMy @THEcaseypup @TheKnottyDaddy Girls think booking through agencies protects them but at the end of the day you still need to walk through every little boundary directly with male performers

@YourAlexWilde @GiaOhMy Catch 22. Classic. In the simplest possible terms: The Truth always wins, that’s why.

@TheKnottyDaddy @GiaOhMy Do you think just cause you said sorry you’re off the hook? Idk why you think an apology will make everything go away. If you release it after being asked not to it’ll just prove more of who you are and show the audacious unprofessionalism and consent violations. Fuck you.

Given recent posts from @GiaOhMy I want to be crystal clear. After 10+ years doing shibari in the bdsm community I ALWAYS have a discussion about do’s and don’ts, boundaries, and rope safety with my partners. I am extremely new to performing and filming in porn (only a few months). I can assure you, this “cum gate” event was a one-off mistake during a threesome in an awkward position and setup because I had another person behind me, face in crack. There was miscommunication in the build up to pop, I did pull out but not in time, and misinterpreted that it wasn’t a problem. People might complain it was unprofessional, to which I’d simply agree. I’m learning right now. I took immediate accountability. I apologized. Paid extra for creampie. There’s not much else I can do. What I won’t do is allow a smear campaign to dissuade me from working. So I want to clear the air as best as humanly possible. @GiaOhMy I extremely sorry for how I made you feel by my mistake. I really hope you understand this isn’t a pattern of behavior for me. I always strive to 100% consent with my partners/performers. I’m sad that I failed you. Everything up to that final moment was wonderful. I hope you’ll reconsider giving me a second chance someday.

@digiraww @GiaOhMy Hung up on semantics instead of substance eh?

@TheKnottyDaddy @GiaOhMy you diminished your entire shitty attempt at an apology by calling it “cum gate”

Yeah except they were encouraging me to keep going. Mixed signals in a threesome. If I post the video you’ll see. And all high-fiving and laughing at the end. She sucked the last drops out of my dick. We’re talking about porn here. It wasn’t until some time later that Gia got upset. Lessons learned nonetheless. I do accept responsibility. Truth isn’t waffling dude, c’mon.

@TheKnottyDaddy @GiaOhMy Dude, you talked through boundaries and what you agreed to. You then proceeded to violate the agreement. It’s not hard to pull out regardless of who is “in your crack.” Just simply straight up, without waffling, accept responsibility

@SouppahNat @GiaOhMy @TPXSMovies If you think porn bloopers aren’t a thing you’ve been duped by “hollywood magic” dude.

@TheKnottyDaddy @GiaOhMy @TPXSMovies Lmao she got literal creampie mixtapes on her page but didn’t want ur nut that’s tragic 😂 either way bro acts like he was “overpowered” into nutting in her grow up 🐥

Cumming wasn’t “accidental”. It was encouraged. I’m considering just releasing the footage so y’all can decide for yourselves. Everyone seemed encouraging with the cumshot. She (Gia) was sad After the scene which made me and the other performer (Mira) immediately empathetic. It’s a threesome miscommunication ultimately, I think thats a better description. No one set out to hurt anyone. On the contrary, we were having a great time. I’m seeing a lot of mischaracterization online here of the circumstances bc no one has actually seen it except us. Gia asked me not to release it, which creates an additional quandary to support my case. I’m trying to be respectful of that. I still believe strongly there’s a lesson to be learned. I am Not trying to be dismissive, just pointing out no one had nefarious intent. It’s super obvious in the footage. We’re all high-fiving each other and laughing at the end of scene. Like collectively celebrating a job well done - “great scene”! Gia’s negative reaction came after some time later - after going to the restroom - it ultimately caught me off-guard at first. Let me be clear. Gia’s feelings are valid. Not disputing her emotional reaction post-scene at all. I just genuinely didn’t expect it given the positive emotions at the time the scene ended. I took immediate accountability, offered a hug. Said, I’m sorry I botched that cumshot. Etc. I’m honestly somewhat surprised Gia has chosen to keep this dragging on. Publicly on X no less. I sincerely thought we had made amends in person and by phone/text. It’s been over a week. Maybe I should just release the scene. It’s porn at the end of the day. Let people see the bloopers in their unvarnished truth and decide for themselves.

You can hold it till the cows come home but if you can’t control where you jizz, don’t make porn. I’ve been doing this for years and no one has ever “accidentally” cum inside me. I promise it’s better to pull out and not get the shot rather than borderline assault your coworkers. Welcome to facing the consequences of your actions.

This scene with Eva Nyx was pure joy. She looks so sweet and innocent. Spoiler alert.🚨 she’s not!! 🤘🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

Dessert is served. Bon appetite! 🧁

@YourAlexWilde @GiaOhMy We were intentionally going for the finale dude. I can hold it for the entire scene up to the point where we’re trying not to hold it.

@TheKnottyDaddy @GiaOhMy You shouldn’t be working in this industry if you can’t control your ejaculations bro. Sharing the experience working with you is not a smear campaign, it’s truth telling and accountability so stop playing the victim. AND asking for a second chance is diabolical. Ugh.

@LowestBeta @GiaOhMy I did. I literally said. I fucked that up. Multiple times.

This has been going on over a week offline. You’re not seeing the whole picture. It’s affecting off-screen friendships for mutuals caught in the middle. That’s why it feels like a smear to me at this point. Believe me I’ve apologized numerous times. Including at the time it happened in person. I posted a public apology on my X as well

@TheKnottyDaddy @GiaOhMy Odds were if you just apologized with earnest and contrite humility you would likely have been afforded some grace, but instead you positioned yourself as the victim of a “smear campaign” and acted real fucking cute by calling it “cum gate” like a textbook menace to women.

@_jessicaxmarie @freyasintrouble @GiaOhMy @TPXSMovies Have to start somewhere. I had already shot with some mutuals that went great. Then recommended we work together.

@TheKnottyDaddy @freyasintrouble @GiaOhMy @TPXSMovies Why the fuck are models getting booked with people that started porn two months ago?

@mizz_fieldss @GiaOhMy @TPXSMovies 💯 I deserve the beats. I fucked up.

@TheKnottyDaddy @GiaOhMy @TPXSMovies take the consequences on the chin- and do better next time. thats all you can do. people are allowed to feel their feelings and share their experiences.

I posted another apology. I hope it becomes obvious that with no one else coming forward with complaints, it was a one-off snafu. Deeply sad it had to be Gia. She’s so sweet. Truly wonderful. And it’s affected my off screen relationships with mutuals of ours, so the consequences have been disastrous. That’s why it feels like a smear to me at this point. Friends caught in the middle, etc.

@TheKnottyDaddy @GiaOhMy @TPXSMovies it’s not a smear campaign for her to share her experience so other models can make up their own minds. take this experience, learn from it and do better. and if she wants more apologies then so be it, apologize again.

@freyasintrouble @GiaOhMy @TPXSMovies I’m going to take a beating over this. I get it. I started doing porn two months ago. This was my first threesome. Lots of room for improvement.

1. You didn’t “mess up the cum shot”. You violated another performers boundary that had been set in stone prior to filming. This isn’t about a “cum shot”, it’s about you crossing a line. 2. No one gives a flying FUCK if you expressed that you were about to cum. You’re an adult in a professional setting, and it happens to be your job knowing when and where to ejaculate. It may have been a lack of professionalism on your part, but other people deserve to be aware that you may not be able to do your job correctly. I’ve been in this business for 6 years, and no man has “accidentally” came inside of me. Because they’re professionals. You don’t sound like a professional. You sound like a man that thinks he can slap a price tag on an apology and call it a day. You sound incompetent, and like you should consider getting a different job. I heard the valet is hiring, but once again, you can’t seem to pull out. So maybe that won’t work either.