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I was born deaf, my mom never noticed. It didn’t get noticed until I started kindergarten and the teacher brought it up. My mom just thought I was stubborn and didn’t listen. (I was 100% deaf in both ears.) after the teacher noticed I got multiple surgeries that gave me the ability to hear.

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I learnt there's a free medical consultation and treatment for pilgrims. So I'd really love to win this for my mom. She's been battling with a lot of sicknesses like diabetes, blood pressure, gout, ulcer and asthma. She'll get a chance to perform Umrah and also get free medical check up. I pray this comment makes it. May Allah ease our affairs. Amin

My younger sister azra posted a boy on her private story. I asked“Who is that?and instead of answering she immediately threatened to remove me from the PS🤣 So now we can’t ask questions anymore? Noted I’ll start observing in silence like a respectful background character😭😂😂

@lilmeerahcute Lmoa😂I thought I was the coolest sister only to find out I was excluded from my sister’s WhatsApp Status and Private Story e pain me sha😭😭

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One of the things I remembered while reflecting on this issue is what Ibn al-Qayyim warned us about in his profound book Al-Jawab al-Kafi. He warned that Zina is a sin that gathers all the elements of evil, including the loss of dignity and the darkening of the soul. I wasn’t surprised the lady could allow him record, because at that time her faith and modesty was at the lowest. Same thing for the stupid guy. Unfortunately, recording these acts of immorality is a terrifying level of Mujaharah (openly publicizing sin) because it turns a hidden mistake into a permanent record of shame. As Muslims, modesty should be the life of our heart, and when young people trade their Haya’ for a video file, they are essentially killing their own spiritual protection. For her and for him? It is a huge price to pay for a fleeting moment. They think they are just capturing a scene, but they don’t know they are documenting the loss of their own honor. Unfortunate 💔

None of Nigeria’s influencers, musicians, artists, or activists are talking about the over 500 people killed in the last 72 hours: 212 in Yobe, 76 in Zamfara, 61 in Kebbi, 38 in Katsina, and 16 in Sokoto.

Dear Parents, I want to share one parenting secret with you. The one you won’t find in your regular blogs. And trust me, regardless of your faith, you will find this tip beneficial. I want to explain why some kids become completely stubborn the more you punish them. I am doing this because I got some messages yesterday from people who have kids in the diaspora and how their kids have become stone-hearted to their parents’ warnings. It is indeed painful. Remember that I mentioned the monumental book of Imam Al-Ghazali, Ihya’ Ulum al-Din. We have more things to learn from it. In this book, he talked about a fragile part of a child's mind called the “Veil of Shame.” Note: Every child has this because they are born upon Fitrah (purity of the soul). When a child does something bad for the first time, they usually try to hide it. They are afraid of being caught because they still value their dignity in your eyes. The scholars explained that if a parent exposes the child, screams, yells at them, and punishes every mistake, you are tearing down their veil of shame. Once a child realizes you already see them as a bad person, the humiliation has happened. They stop caring. You have destroyed their internal brakes. When they have no dignity left to protect, they will start doing those bad things openly and boldly. How do you notice this in your child? You can tell this is happening in your child when they stop trying to hide their mistakes and start becoming brazen or "strong-headed" when caught. This is a sign that the veil is thinning. To fix this, you need to use a concept called Taghaful. It translates to intentional ignorance or pretending you did not see a fault. Our Prophet (peace be upon him) taught us this. He did this with a young companion called Usama bin Zaid. But I see that our parents, due to their high expectations, are often too impatient to look away. If you catch your child doing a hidden wrong, sometimes the most powerful thing you can do is pretend you did not see it. Do not confront them and strip them of their respect. Instead, bring up the topic later in a general conversation. Tell a story about why that action is destructive, without looking at them or accusing them. Let their own conscience do the punishing. Let them repent and fix it in secret. A parent who hunts down every small mistake will end up raising a child who has no shame left to lose. Let me know if you want more of these scholarly parenting tips. I will be willing to share. My DM is full with different issues. I cannot answer everything, but I am sure with these tips, a lot of those issues will be solved by God’s grace. Thank you for your attention. Allah knows best.

Hello Lola, I am a Muslim, and our spiritual tradition has a very deep approach to raising children. I want to share some tips from our scholars that will be beneficial to you regardless of your faith. First of all, our theology teaches the concept of Fitrah. This means that every child is born with a pure heart. At six years old, she is not a criminal mastermind. She does not have a wicked soul. If she doesn’t have all these, then what is happening? The truth is that she is just lacking impulse control and testing boundaries. By this, if you look at her as a manipulator, you will fight her. However, if you look at her as a pure soul making mistakes, you will be able to guide her. Secondly, for every problem anyone faces today, it has been solved in history. The only problem is how to locate them. A classical scholar named Al-Ghazali wrote about child psychology over 900 years ago in his famous book “Ihya Ulum al-Din.” In his section on disciplining children, he gave a practical rule I want you to adopt going forward. He advised that parents should never push a child into a corner where they are forced to lie. When you ask a question you already know the answer to, her survival instinct kicks in. She cries and she lies to defend herself because she is scared of you. Stop interrogating her. Just look at her and state the fact. Say, I know you took this, and we are going to return it right now. Again, another scholar and sociologist Ibn Khaldun addressed this exact behavior in his masterpiece titled: “Al-Muqaddimah.” He warned that when a child is raised with harsh punishment, they learn deceit, trickery, and lying to protect themselves. This is why she is covering her tracks and crying to manipulate you. The fear of a harsh reaction is making her a better liar. Lola, do not attach a label to her. Do not ever call her a thief. If you attack her identity instead of her action, she will internalize it and grow into that dark label. Tell her the action is wrong but protect her dignity. Make her return the item. Do not fall for the tears. Hold her hand, walk her back to wherever she took it from, and make her hand it back and apologize. The discomfort of returning a stolen item teaches a much better lesson than beating her will ever do. Finally, I don’t know if you are a Muslim, but never underestimate the power of your own words. In our faith, we believe the prayer of a parent for a child goes straight to God without any barrier. Pray over her. Pray for her heart to be content and for her character to be straight. Keep doing this consistently and the habit will break. Allah knows best.

"The strap is for my bag, not a gun. The cutlass is for clearing bushes, not for harming anyone. To those saying they will deal with all Fulani herdsmen: you can't touch me because I am innocent. I am not a bandit or kidnapper.When the government is ready to act, innocent Fulani like us will help them identify and punish the real criminals."

In the midst of chaos, Muslim youths at Zololo Junction in Jos stood guard not with stones, but with courage. When a Christian woman was trapped, they didn’t ask her name or faith. They shielded her, moved her through the tension, and delivered her safely to the police. That is not politics. That is humanity. That is the Nigeria we took an oath to defend. We carry rifles to protect citizens like these citizens who protect each other when the system falters. This is the spirit that keeps me believing we will win. Brothers and sisters like these are why we keep standing.

Following the renewed violence in Jos this morning were some lives were lost , these two women were rescued by some youths in Anguwan Rogo and later handed over to soldiers.

THERE’S MUSLIMS GENOCIDE IN NIGERIA THERE’S MUSLIMS GENOCIDE IN NIGERIA THERE’S MUSLIMS GENOCIDE IN NIGERIA THERE’S MUSLIMS GENOCIDE IN NIGERIA MUSLIMS ARE BEING KILLED ON A DAILY BASIS IN NIGERIA AND THE SILENCE IS LOUD. HOW MANY MORE MUSLIMS MUST DIE IN NIGERIA BEFORE ACTION IS TAKEN?

Dear Northerners, Tinubu did not postpone his trip when 30 people d!€d in the Maiduguri b0mb bl@st. Kashim Shettima did not postpone his trip to Anambra for the 2nd term inauguration of Charles Soludo, to first visit his own people in Maiduguri. These are the people that want you to vote them because they are Muslim-Muslim.

This is a cemetery !!! Mass graves of Muslims killed by Christian terrorists in Plateau State including 58 Muslim travelers returning from Maulid celebration in Bauchi to Ondo State !!! Slaughtered, buried and forgotten !!! They always tell you they are the victims, but these are their atrocities !!! The Nigerian media will not amplify this, because they side with the oppressors !!! If this were reversed, the world would hear it nonstop !!! Don’t let them gaslight you !!! 👇🏿👇🏿👇🏿👇🏿👇🏿