Daughter of Grace

Do you realize how deeply I’d have to love you to ask you for money? For me, that’s not just asking, it’s laying down my pride and my shame in your hands. That’s next-level vulnerability. I’d only ever bill a man if my love for him was strong enough to let go of the last piece of my dignity. And that kind of love is rare, especially when it’s coming from someone whose only answer to everything is just, ‘I’m okay thank God.

@SataSiaKebbie Some woman nor ok but again maybe d man na e get money na d relationship

Fire your husband.

The reason a lot of Salone women don’t end up marrying the guy is simple, he was already cheating while she was here in Salone. So how do you expect her to believe he suddenly became faithful just because there’s distance? I remember my cousin dated this guy back in her teens. He was a cheater in every sense. Later, she traveled to 🇺🇸 but they were still in contact. At some point, she told him she had met someone else and wanted to see where that would go. This same guy had the audacity to tell her he hadn’t been with anyone since she left… meanwhile, he was in a serious relationship with my hostel roommate. And it gets worse my roommate was even having issues in that relationship because of his cheating. The craziest part? When he found out I was her new roommate, he actually came to my family’s house to beg me not to tell either of them 😂😂 Men and audacity… name a better duo. Some of you men have such bad character that the only reason a woman manages you is because of your money 😂😂 The moment she travels or starts doing well for herself, you suddenly become unnecessary. That’s why I always say some men are very lucky most women aren’t financially stable, because without you money , some of you wouldn’t stand a chance. If everyone had their own money, it would be easier to see relationships for what they really are. That’s also why independent women take their time in choosing their partner coz they’re not focused on what you have, but on who you are.

@yafinosesay Haha no my lady I’m not Guess I have been on the other end of this as a customer 😂😂 .

Such a weird place to be. Jobs where you’re meant to ‘look out’ for customers always make me pause… because who are you really serving? The company that pays you, or the customers who are the reason behind your job description? If tin Kam Pa Kam Udat e interest u dae look out for more? 😂😂 coz the way I see it the whole job dae Kam with bias from d get go. Too company-focused → customers feel ignored Too customer-focused → company loses money or control You’re basically being paid to care… but with limits Be nice to customers but don’t promise too much Solve their problems but don’t cost the company money Make them feel valued but follow office policy Guess u job dae challenge you every day like you are constantly being a referee and trying to balance things 😊 interesting job

Sexualizing your partner constantly is saying you value her only for her physical/sexual appeal or treating them as an object/item for your pleasure, hence reducing them to just that. It can happen both ways, this is to say men are not immune to this the only difference is men usually don’t mind being sexual objects.

@alluring_zee Zee I don't understand ur point exactly "Ur man" u say ?

Even as me man if e become a habit r go ban u

@Cisay98 😊

@alluring_zee Eh dis nr too strict

Fashion school drilling me but I’ll survive.

@yafinosesay It wasn’t like that before

Le360 for tampons BEFORE tax?? 🥹😢 So I’m bleeding, in pain, emotional… and broke on top of it?? Wow, what a beautiful life 😭 Please someone adopt me, I can’t keep financing this horror movie every month.

@mmed_001 😊

@alluring_zee After I saw hw it works My bae is never using that 😂

@Pain_ChangedMe No I don’t Get Terrible appetite 😫

@alluring_zee You dae eat plenty?😂 Let me know before ar sign adoption papers.

Wow it really be your own gender

@Pain_ChangedMe R tell God tenki dat na women u partner be I don’t know her but I know She deserves someone soft in her corner.

I’m holding the camera for her, and be the biggest hype man she’s ever seen.

April Mae pronounced as May Junne pronounced as June August

Got it, that makes sense now. Coz we yon specialists often avoid government postings in the rural areas. Organizations like Partners in Health, Doctors with Africa Collegio Universitario Aspiranti Medici Missionari (CUAMM), and Médecins Sans Frontières usually have facilities and programs across the country, so they’re often the ones filling that gap.

@alluring_zee @MFDABOH Partners in Health has a lot of specialists and foreign trained medics here. They only transfer patients for advance scanning sometimes to Ecomed but believe U me they are really trying especially in dealing with NCD cases like hypertension, thyroid, diabetes, Hepatitis etc

Wae den freetown baby den kin cam upline for treatment den get some patten wae den kin behave r kin just laff d lady dae tok lekk wudat comot overseas, r know straight say na Western Pekin 🙄🙄 den pack false life baaad 🤣😂

I get that there is structure but a tertiary hospital isn’t just about structure I’m talking actual medicine and trained physicians covering all required specialties. D wan sef na Freetown nor get den available full time. I remembered when I was in premed and basic at kossoh town, they couldn’t even leave Connaught to go teach at jui 😊 talk of going to Kono.

@alluring_zee @MFDABOH Kono district has one of the medical centres presently and with almost zero cost of treatment

@Pain_ChangedMe On point 👌🏾

@alluring_zee Exactly. Na ihn born you. But aside the born part, most parents, especially of African descent tend to show love and support their kids bcuz of one simple reason “na ihn get for take care of me when ar dn old.” So her love also comes with conditions.

All relationships are based on conditions - better yet, they are transactional.