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Beauty. Books. Love. Light. Truth. Wisdom.

Somewhere Beigetreten Kasım 2022
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BabaCave
BabaCave@baba_cave·
Part of becoming a man is reaching that point when you are haunted by your purpose, scared by the largeness of your ambitions, lost in the pursuit of your dreams, and too scared to behold your vision. You're not backing down until all is fulfilled. It is next after breathing.
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nduka omeife@ndukaomeife·
One of my managers once approached me, whether to mock me or belittle my mission, I don’t know. He said, “Ehen, you! I tasted your yoghurt—it’s very nice. But how do you intend to succeed when we already have big brands like….already dominating the market?” He began to list them one after the other. Then he added, "You didn’t make it in your twenties or thirties. What makes you think you’ll make it in your forties? Just forget it!" I didn’t argue. I didn’t explain. I simply went to work. I then remembered the words of Robert Greene, law 9 in Forty Laws of Power, “Win through your actions, never through argument.” The yoghurt story became a success in my fifties. Stay focused. Let your results speak. Never give up on your dream. Good morning.😊
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BabaCave@baba_cave·
🤣😂🤣😂 Everybody is on this table. Even the God whom you pray to sees everything - good, bad, ugly, and even the sins we take pleasure in but will punish us later for. Evil thoughts don't make us depraved, only when we act on them. And that's what separates man from lower animals: an intelligent mind to decipher wrong from right because we know their consequences. Lower animals intelligence is simply limited to their instinct, hence, nothing reputable in terms of their community as it has remained same for aeons unlike man that pushes the mark every generation. Depraved thoughts are a reminder of our fallibility; not acting on them is a testament to our strength, and how far we've elevated beyond our basal instincts. The strength of a man is not in the temptations that comes his way but the courage to remain firm and overcome. And even if he falls, he shall yet rise again.
Dave@david_oladiti

God, I have such an abhorrent, depraved mind. The things (schemes) that occur in my head, if heard or seen, can send everyone to frenzy. Ya rabbi! Deliver me from myself.

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Dave@david_oladiti·
God, I have such an abhorrent, depraved mind. The things (schemes) that occur in my head, if heard or seen, can send everyone to frenzy. Ya rabbi! Deliver me from myself.
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BabaCave@baba_cave·
Whether you choose to be contented or not, there will always be expenses waiting for you at one corner of life. Problem of life doesn't care about your current status, abundance or lack. If you can't solve that problem, the problem will solve itself by eliminating you, while spreading to the next fellow in proximity. That's why income from different sources or income from a defined source must be guaranteed because expenses will come and it's expected for you to pay for them. Castigating any source of legal income is crazy regardless of how demeaning it's to your status. If it can pay one or two bills, those bills won't cause you sleepless nights. You can try as much as possible to minimize expenses but you can't evade it.
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BabaCave@baba_cave·
The simplest way to avoid this is to only get yoked with high quality humans. They are few and with constant interaction and value exchange you will be written in their good books. This will not be possible for you if you're a salesman, marketer, or an employee. You gat to play the social card - lick some smelly asses - to increase sales or promotion. Truth is if you you're able to solve your financial problems to a level of confidence, you won't even attempt that game, it will be others doing it with you. Poverty or the fear of poverty is the root of sycophancy.
Debby@realdebby10

You see that urge to be in everybody's good books, Kill it before it kills you.

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BabaCave@baba_cave·
Wrong. You men just want to suffer alone and die alone. Yet you say you have a partner. Of what importance is a partner in your life if you can't share struggles and show pain points? When things are well and rosy you want the woman to enjoy life with you. But when things are ill and stunted you chose solitude. You are not a weak man when you expose your vulnerability to the woman you say you love. If you can't share your pains and weaknesses with her it means she's not the one for you. If you are scared that your vulnerability will chase her away, it means she was never meant to be called yours. This is the best time to test her loyalty and devotion. Any woman that denigrate you because of your struggles, feigns ignorance, and worse off use it as an attack point is not "yours". Don't know how you men want the best of your women yet, exclude them from showing concerns when need be. There's something called "ride or die". If you have not experienced it with your woman it means things are still light for you or you "enjoy" bottling up your struggles which will choke you death if you fail to allow your woman play her role in solving the problem at hand.
@flowzki

my brother, i know there are mornings & nights u just wanna sit down wit a woman like this & pour out what ur deepest pains & secrets are, i know u want a heart to heart, i know u want to say your stories. "DONT" just pour some drinks instead & drink away the pain. e get why 😊

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BabaCave@baba_cave·
One of the characteristics of a good woman is how ability to de-escalate tensions when they begin to occur. It doesn't matters whether she's the one on the wrong or right side. All she cares for his peace and normalcy. Because she knows that if that tension isn't curtailed instantly it threatens the bond, threatens communication, and increases pressure. This doesn't means that she'll always keep mute or will never react. But even if she does, it's from a place of understanding and attacking the problem at hand rather than straight missile in the face of her man. Women that always want to raise shoulders to flex power and increases their voices during quarrels or even straight up disregarding their man are not fit to be called "mine".
“Bad” Billy Pratt@KILLTOPARTY

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BabaCave@baba_cave·
It is not what an earnest prayer can do. It is how much you are so devoted to your husband that you become an object of admiration in his heart. There are some men that don't cheat. Not out of fear or principles or morality. But how much their wives are so devoted to them that they don't have 1 minute to spare for another woman. You women want to be loved in all its essence and truity, yet absolutely lack the prerequisites to get that love and the strength to sustain it. You can't keep a faithful man by hijacking his morality because temptation is real. And a pent-up temptation always results to infidelity that can destroy the home. It's your duty as a woman to seduce your man to the extent that he doesn't want to leave you behind and always quick rushing home to meet you. "No matter what you do, a man that will cheat will still cheat". My friend shut up your dirty mouth. What have you done really? What do you understand by the term charming and seduction? How do you entice your husband? Have you ever unleash lust mood in your husband to the extent he begins to salivate for your presence like Pavlov's dog? How do you keep your husband hooked? These are the things your husband's mistresses do with your husband while they abandon you at home to keep cleaning and cooking without any show of admiration for you. Modern women lack charm and seduction. Very vague, very lazy, blank, and stupid. They despise the work but desire the results. Your husband will not marry a second wife if you work on his Psyche and lust to the fullest capacity. Your husband is yours to be captured, so explore him and keep showing him the unending depth of feminine charm and seduction.
Akwa Ibom Muslim@AkwaIbomMuslim

I pray we marry men who will not take additional wives after us.

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BabaCave@baba_cave·
Social media monetisation is paradoxical: it gives room for those from a lower background an equal playing field with those at the top, an advantage to leverage at scale to make ends meet aside the bottleneck of local professions. However, since social media have no barrier to entry, a lot of fools can come online and display their foolishness. This is where it gets serious: majority of social media users are actually foolish people. Now, imagine foolish people making money via social media contents. Hope you now see why stupid people keep multiplying everyday with their stupid opinions. Because their foolishness is now incentivize.
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BabaCave@baba_cave·
That's why you must not become emotionally invested in beliefs, ideologues or even personal opinions. Growth is change. And that change affects most areas of your life. It's a constant refinement that requires foregoing old attachments no matter how precious while accepting newer ones no matter how ugly. Humans are ego-invested in their beliefs, hence, make mistakes that can lead to chaos. This is where the problem of the world lies. Because each man thinks he's right in his stead and fail to consider all the nuances, all the complexities, and all the angles. Picking a side is enough for the average man; no courage to challenge beliefs especially when that belief has coincidentally prove his case previously. That's why in most cases arguments or debates are a waste of time. Cos the parties involved are only trying to defend their stance rather than trying to see the point of correlation of both sides. They both run parallel. And the moment you discover that arguments have one stem based on what is being debated, the quicker you're able to withdraw when you sense an argument because rather than learning a new thing, the other side has moved into both offensive and defensive mode. If you understand this point clearly, religious arguments or debates will either amuse you or irks you, depending on your mood that day. Being able to understand opinions or beliefs that stimulates people to act stupidly or haphazardly is a superpower. Let them get consumed in their foolishness.
Dave@david_oladiti

Time, irrespective of the circumstances progresses, but reality changes. The lenses by which we operate and see the world & humans at large are in a constant flux, all contingent on the information or revelation we stumble across and expose ourselves to.

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Illimitable Man (IM)@SovereignIM·
If men cared as much about being good, as they did about getting sex. And women cared as much about being good, as they do about looking good and feeling safe. The world would be a much better place.
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BabaCave@baba_cave·
This is how life should be. But our lusts for individualism, thirst for hyper-independence, and greed for money has made us turned into monsters tormenting ourselves. If we have truly loved our neighbours the way we loved ourselves, we would have been in paradise by now. Because paradise comprises people of same heart and judgement. But humans must be humans. Enticed by our lowly instincts thereby creating more chaos where there should be peace and gaps where should be a soft landing. The heaven we all are praying for is on earth. It depends on what we're doing individually and as a community to actualize it. Thanks for being a good man and a beacon of hope where there was anxiety, doubts, and sorrows, and a light in that long dark narrow tunnel.
SEUN Durojaiye 🇳🇬@DurojaiyeSegun

I remember during my university days at Ekiti State University, I had a hostel mate whose parents had to struggle for months, sometimes starving to raise just ₦50K for his tuition. Whenever he knocked on my door, I already knew it was to ask for garri. So I would often leave a bowl of garri at my doorstep for him. At one point, he drank garri so often that he vomited it. Fast forward to now, on Sunday, he reached out to me from the United States. He is currently a Proffesor of Physics at Arkansas State University. He reflected on those difficult times, how I used to give him ₦30 for bike transport to and from lectures, how I would take him along to my girlfriend’s hostel so we could eat swallow, egusi spiced with sawa fish together, and how we would go to Ado Market to buy those ₦500 starchy shirts for both of us. He remembered how I would wake him up for compulsory night classes in the cold Ado nights, and how, when he fell sick, I used my own tuition fee to pay his medical bills, then lied to my mother just to get another one. He recounted everything… and then sent me ₦500K “to buy some green bottles.” And that’s just a fraction of what he has done for me in recent times. Never look down on anyone. Today’s struggle can become tomorrow’s success story. I think kindness is an investment that never loses value.

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BabaCave@baba_cave·
As newborns, we start life on a clean perfect sheet. But growth demands our innocence and our ambitions yearns for our purity. So, in our pursuit of greatness, and a longing for growth, we became corrupted by the hands which were supposed to guard us. These hands didn't deliberately choose to be evil, but they've been corrupted too. So, in our contact with them, we became like them. Our perfection began to erode until we all came to the realisation that "humans are not perfect". It's not that humans weren't born perfect, however, human interaction made what was made perfect become imperfect. Perfection is still not far off. Truth and wisdom are the twin brothers that can wash and refine humans to become their default state of perfection as newborns. The more we let the truth rewire us and allow the hands of wisdom carry us, the faster the scales of imperfection exfoliates and our perfection begins to shine. What we do at the middle of life will determine if we will end up in a corrupt state or as perfect as the Divine wants it.
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