amor fati 🔅

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“She’s beautiful without believing that gives her permission to be uninteresting.” oh he gathered

Y’all got to listen to more jazz. Get your nervous system right.

do you know what’s happening to you?

@lesbian_fleabag “A finger made you feel alive??!!” God I love Charlotte😭😭😭

Color theory is real. Trust me. Wear red next time you see your ex, baby pink on your next first date, wear white after an argument, pastel orange for making new friends, deep blue for ensuring trust, and black for power and authority.

I finally understand that the goal was never to fight the old self. The goal was simply to stop identifying with it. To stop feeding it life. To stop calling it “me.” The old version of me only survives when I keep claiming it. And I don’t. I know who I am now. I am the creator. I am the authority. I am the chosen one in my reality. I am the source. I am already the version of myself who has the love, the peace, the abundance, the confidence, and the life I once thought I needed to chase.

Like this is do adult swim to me. At the end they would’ve panned to the monitor revealing it to say [Adult Swim]

In addition to being gentle and caring i am very neurotic and high strung. This is endearing to the right person i’m sure

this is one of the highest forms of magic available btw. the equivalent of a daily spell. some call it prayer, some call it manifestation, some call it quantum leaping, but the infinite driving force behind it is the same. and it always delivers.

Lying (to yourself and others) is the worst thing you can do because every lie cements a false image of yourself and anything that doesn’t fit into that image gets repressed. Every lie makes you more unconscious.

Or do you just lack the courage to remain a good person in a world of increasing evil

i like twitter bc it doesn’t give u girls he’s slept w in ur suggestions

when you are beautiful or high aura (or both) people will 100% always exclude you, mistreat you, attempt to humiliate you or generally be weird. this is the non-negotiable cost

i used to hate it too but honestly over the time i’ve realised that being compassionate and embarrassing yourself in pursuit of love in times like today’s is an act of bravery so i give myself more grace even though my love was unrequited.

@marlbluero_ @dnastybby Like what??? 😭😭

the fuck bro

The most manipulative but effective thing I’ve ever done in my life was when I read an article about how children moderate their behavior to protect their self-identity, so if a child believes he’s smart, for example, he’ll intentionally study and try to do well to protect his image of himself. Anyway, I would pull kids aside with behavioral issues at church and tell them, “David (obviously fake name), you’re such a kind person and such a good listener. I can see that in you. Thank you for always listening.” “Little Annie, thank you for taking such good care of the babies around you. You’re going to be such a good big sister. Can you be in charge of watching Sally?” They would ALWAYS behave afterward. ALWAYS. Worked like a charm. Morally questionable because it wasn’t initially true, but I kind of willed it into existence. Tbf, I did think that they had that in them or I wouldn’t have tried. Will publish longitudinal results of this method once my kid is old enough to report back.

At some point in mental illness you stop going “I’m so sorry it’s because of the depression/autism/adhd” and start going “I’m not well in the head. I do what I want. Stay out of my way” and this, ironically, will massively improve your day-to-day mental health

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