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I’ve been married for five years, and my wife does most of the cooking and cleaning. I hardly do those things. Why? Because she cooks three types of meals on the weekend that last from Monday to Friday. She only does laundry on weekends. She only cleans on weekends. We also do our shopping only on weekends. I had to help create these routines for her because she kept complaining about the “mental load” crap. Women create a lot of this mental load for themselves and then complain that motherhood is hard. No, you made motherhood hard on yourselves. She doesn’t have to deep-clean the floor late at night. She can do it tomorrow. She doesn’t have to do laundry late at night either. Laundry can even be done on the weekend. She doesn’t have to wash the dishes immediately; they can wait until tomorrow.

AFTERCARE is just as important as the sex .

This dude once told me that ludo requires more brain power than chess. And he still had the audacity to ask me out!!! With that brain😒 Mf

what level of cruelty do you have to possess to run a fake transfer to a highway hawker

In divorce matters, men tend to frame the entire case around what they provided. “I spent millions on her.” “I built everything.” “That house is mine because I paid for it.” Women rarely lead with money in the same way. It’s usually centered on emotional damage, neglect, and what they endured, even in situations where they were actually the primary financial support. It’s just different.

Listen, It would hurt not for any other reason other than the fact that i realise i married a potentially loose woman who is ready to use my misbehavior as an opportunity to do all that instead of honorably walking away from me, in dignity and self respect that is expected of a decent woman. My pain would stem from the realization of my own failure in choice of a spouse, not cos i am losing her to another man.

Someone who doesn’t apologize when you tell them about something they did to hurt you.. top 3 ways to know they don’t like you Someone who likes you will apologize, someone who doesn’t would make your reaction the problem, gaslight you into believing you’re the problem or shutdown and become the victim