Chris Hanson

This "smart" guy, isn't clouded by an excessive desire to disprove his insecurities by trying to impress a girl. He knows, intuitively- her REAL value, relative to him - not just the looks, but the actual character. A real high value woman, isn't she who celebrates her personal success💵 , but one who is actually ready to put her family over all else, knowing sacrifice is a pre-requisite to secure a man of his caliber. If her net value is legitimately high - he goes all in, and she reciprocates. If not, he disengages without protest or shame.

A dumb guy who is young or hasn't been in the singles market for a while, will not realize she is putting on a performance, to make you feel less valuable, put a premium on her pussy, and chase her for scraps of attention. He'll feel that natural masculine competitive instinct kick in - the exact energy modern women are addicted to eliciting, to keep their porous egos lifted. A smart guy - who has earned the affection of MANY women, quickly evaluates a woman's true SMV based on her looks - and sees through these veneers.

Looksmaxxing ideology is based on a fundamental mistruth with blackpill. Yes, culturally there is a double standard and women are conditioned to make bad long term decisions, for temporary pleasure, with little accountability. But this idea that the average "mid" chubby 26 year old has more options than a rich, reasonably good looking, ripped alpha (even if not super tall/male model) is LUDICROUS. The following advice is only relevant if you're a guy able to spend +$250k a year, have at least 50 bodies, and a 7/10 in the face....(which is proof you have alpha traits more than the norm)

Is any other MAN more addicted to online dating than spanking the meat? I know a common complaint is men don't get matches - when I first got on these apps in college, i was talking to hundreds of girls going on THOUSANDS of dates. The numbers have declined a bit but i'll still play that slot wheel of boosts/premium and photo optimizing, unique bios - and have basically unlimited options. Wheening off this - whether for monk mode to work or for a monogamous relationship...is difficult. To say the LEAST.

I always advise guys to get as must action as possible, so they know girl's games, get confident and smooth operating experience. Its better also to have options and not be desperate. But there is a point of diminishing returns where promiscuity can and does have similar negative effects that it has on young women. I, for one - REGRET entering into so many live-in romantic partnerships in my 20s followed by equally as many "ho" phases This is a case of reverse blackpilling yourself. Sex and love becomes so easy and there is always a better option, it loses its mystique and becomes harder to bond or even know what I want. A little restraint, not committing just to have regular sex - would go a long way for society.

What is it about men that makes us so cave-man POSSESSIVE even in 2026? A girl could be #8 - last in my overall rotation - but if she disappears from my view I get seriously irritated. I thought having more girlfriends at once would create less drama, less being anal... But instead i just feel like i got myself attached to multiple people! 😱🤯

Starting your business at 18 is a great decision because that money production compounds as a financial instrument over time. But its not only assets that compound with time - your knowledge does as well. I made my BIGGEST business MISTAKES 😡in the first few years of my 20s. The NET result of this? I learned some key business LESSONS way before some other people, even learned how to register their LLC. You don't need to go full time now just because of money - premature action is rewarded with DISPROPORTIONATE success.

So - as soon as you meet a girl in 2026, you need to lay down the law. She isn't going to understand, or care about your high IQ explanation of evolutionary psychology (ie my Post verbiage) If you are valuable however, and strong - she will sense you are more of a husband than her other options. Explain to her, that if she wants to date you - she will have to accept you completely as the leader of the relationship. You will make it clear, that you DON'T compromise, and if she doesn't want to follow one of your rules (ie: no insta/guy friends) she can pursue a relationship with someone else.

For this reason, you need to take a HARDLINE stance, borderline EXTREME- not just in your long term relationship, but also in your hookups. In a relationship- you risk exhausting your best years, time, money, hard work - and MENTAL stability and built up self esteem, on someone who A. Is not the best you can do physically (you're being manipulated and gaslit) And b. Has no sense of your value or gratitude for what you give. This dynamic in a hookup can be even worse cause she will resent you and potentially ruin your reputation.

When my dad met my mom, he was younger and made less money. She always had disproportionate decision making power, with him being passive. I had to teach myself masculinity after I turned 18. But, my mom being born in 1960 and raised Catholic, there were certain limits to her behavior that made the deal WORTH it for my dad. My dad had final say, she handled cooking + house + kids without complaint, quit her career when needed, and would never post on social media, cheat, or divorce. Today, this dynamic CANNOT work and guys should not look at their parents relationship as a model. Here's why:

Lesser forces for men are the pursuit of knowledge and truth. Some among us (the elons of the world) achieve great acclaim purely off these intrinsic pursuits - but really, these guys have just have SUBLIMATED their deeper biological urges. Really, we all require OTHER people and social forces to succeed. Note that without your better half (a woman) you can NEVER be a complete man and fulfill your true potential. So never let this "dating in 2026" or "girls are bad" 💊 thinking seep into your brain. You simply won't actualize your dreams if you live a solitary, isolated existence.

As a man, you have to decide if you want to be a LEADER or a follower. There are multiple paths to getting rich and successful, but not everyone has what it takes to lead. You have three powerful forces internally as a man to generate momentum. 1. Biological - if you're a young guy, you want to get LAID. Learning "game" is important, but the fastest path to getting access to women's bodies is by working your ass off, meeting rich people, serving them, and figuring out how to take their resources for yourself. Because any girl you meet even if she isn't aware of it, is interested in you to acquire the resources YOU have that SHE is not strong or clever enough to procure. 2. Psychological - all of us have some degree of core trauma and pain. Maybe your family was poor, maybe you felt bullied or insecure. The only way to redemption is showing yourself your strength and becoming massively rich. 3. Spiritual - innate to any MALE (note my word usage) is a capacity and understanding for that which is right in the lord's eyes. For most of us, this is doing right by our BLOOD who has supported; PROVIDING for our kin, whom are vulnerable without our strength..:.

But you haven't communicated what you want yet. And it is critical you explain this to her - without judgement. So she understands. Use examples of third parties "i liked it when ___" - dont personalize and create shame for her. Wisdom > guilt tripping

This is where emotional guys make a critical mistake. If you have ANY chemistry or interaction with a girl, its pretty much predetermined that SHE believes you are higher value than her. Women don't give attention or sexual privileges to guys who are on their level - they ignore them. So if you've had sex or are in a time consuming back and forth conversation- she is looking UP at you.

Most men of dating age are OAFS - zero social awareness, minimal emotional intelligence or intensity outside of getting action. Women on the other hand, are always emotional. If you're like me, and have stronger emotional development then the majority of men - you CAN use it to your advantage. Don't use this as an excuse to be a little bitch...