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💍 Izālatul Bid‘ah wa Iqāmatul Sunnah, bi idhnillāh. Software Engineer. Kogi(Igala) , LFC. Marriage Influencer 😂

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My WIfe I mean, these are some of my wife's products that we distributed as souvenirs at our nikkah over the weekend. If you want these for yours or loved ones, please reach out to @_muneeroh
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@pharuc1 Corn starch ( flour) mixed with sugar and colourants, just to meet the required TSS.
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My wife dey do marriage 101😂. My marriage counseling money no waste. If you're planning to get married, please take marriage counseling very seriously, approach a specialist Imam in that field, don't assume that your husband knows all your rights, or that you know his too.
منيرة بنت عبد السلام 🦋🌷🌼@_muneeroh

6. That She Cooks for Him and Keeps His House In many conversations about marriage, you’ll often hear:“A wife must cook for her husband and take care of the home.” But let’s slow down and understand this properly through the lens of Islam, not just culture. The scholars have explained that matters like cooking, cleaning, and managing the home are not all agreed upon as strict obligations upon the wife. There is a difference of opinion. However, what is agreed upon is that these actions fall under good character, kindness, and ihsān, the beauty of how spouses treat one another. So what does that mean? It means that a wife taking care of her home, preparing meals, organizing the space, creating comfort is something noble. It is something that brings warmth, peace, and love into the marriage. It is something that righteous women before us were known for. But it is not accurate to reduce it to a harsh command where she is sinful if she falls short. Because a home in Islam was never meant to be built on pressure.
It was meant to be built on mercy. Allah says: “And live with them in kindness.” (Qur’an 4:19) Kindness means understanding. It means patience. It means not turning acts of love into burdens. A wife is not a servant in her home. She is a partner. A source of sakīnah (tranquility). And the things she does whether cooking a meal or cleaning a space should come from a place of care, not compulsion. At the same time, we should not ignore the beauty in these acts. A righteous woman doesn’t see serving her home as humiliation she sees it as part of building something meaningful. A peaceful home doesn’t just happen; it is nurtured. And many times, it is the small, consistent efforts of the wife that fill that home with warmth. But this is not one-sided. The husband, too, has responsibilities that are heavy and clear. He is commanded to provide, to protect, and to treat his wife with gentleness and respect. He is not allowed to be harsh or demanding. In fact, the Prophet (s.a.w), the best of men, used to help in his home. He did not see assisting his family as something beneath him. So the question is not: “Is she forced to cook?”
The real question is: “How do we build a home that reflects mercy?” Because when love is present: •She will want to care for him •He will want to ease her burden •She will give without feeling used •He will receive with gratitude, not entitlement And that is where the sweetness of marriage lies. Not in strict demands.
Not in cultural pressure.
But in two people choosing each other—daily—for the sake of Allah. A home is not sustained by rights alone. It is sustained by kindness, patience, and mutual giving.

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@pharuc1 as long as Barca dey come home, i'm good 😊
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@pharuc1 We love this phase of her🤭🥰 Not the pressing our neck ones😹😂
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7. Let’s talk about a wife appreciating and thanking her husband for his efforts, something small in action, but very heavy in meaning in Islam. A man goes out, works, strives, carries responsibilities, faces stress, all to provide, protect, and maintain the home. Islam does not ignore this. And it teaches the wife to see it, value it, and acknowledge it. The Prophet (s.a.w) said: “Whoever does not thank the people has not thanked Allah.” (Abu Dawud & Tirmidhi) This hadith is general, but it applies strongly within marriage. Your husband is among the closest people to you , if gratitude should be shown to anyone, he deserves it. The Prophet (S.a.w) also warned about the opposite: “I was shown the Hellfire, and most of its inhabitants were women.” 
They asked why, and he said:
“They are ungrateful to their husbands and ungrateful for good treatment. If you are kind to one of them for a lifetime, then she sees something (she dislikes), she says: ‘I have never seen any good from you.’” (Bukhari & Muslim) This is deep. It shows that denying your husband’s efforts, overlooking his sacrifices, or constantly complaining is not something light ,it’s a serious spiritual issue. Being thankful doesn’t mean perfection. It doesn’t mean ignoring his faults. But it means: •You recognize his efforts, even the small ones •You speak good words — “JazakAllahu khayran,” “Thank you,” “I appreciate you” •You don’t make him feel like nothing he does is ever enough Allah says: “If you are grateful, I will surely increase you…”
 (Qur’an 14:7) Gratitude brings barakah into the marriage. The more appreciation in a home, the more love grows. The more ingratitude, the colder the home becomes . A man who feels appreciated will naturally: •Give more •Love deeper •Feel at peace in his home And a woman who shows gratitude earns: •Reward from Allah •Softness in her marriage •A heart that sees blessings instead of lacks So yes — thanking your husband is not just manners… it is ‘ibadah. Because sometimes, all a man needs after everything he faces outside is to come home and hear: “I see what you do. May Allah reward you.”
منيرة بنت عبد السلام 🦋🌷🌼@_muneeroh

6. That She Cooks for Him and Keeps His House In many conversations about marriage, you’ll often hear:“A wife must cook for her husband and take care of the home.” But let’s slow down and understand this properly through the lens of Islam, not just culture. The scholars have explained that matters like cooking, cleaning, and managing the home are not all agreed upon as strict obligations upon the wife. There is a difference of opinion. However, what is agreed upon is that these actions fall under good character, kindness, and ihsān, the beauty of how spouses treat one another. So what does that mean? It means that a wife taking care of her home, preparing meals, organizing the space, creating comfort is something noble. It is something that brings warmth, peace, and love into the marriage. It is something that righteous women before us were known for. But it is not accurate to reduce it to a harsh command where she is sinful if she falls short. Because a home in Islam was never meant to be built on pressure.
It was meant to be built on mercy. Allah says: “And live with them in kindness.” (Qur’an 4:19) Kindness means understanding. It means patience. It means not turning acts of love into burdens. A wife is not a servant in her home. She is a partner. A source of sakīnah (tranquility). And the things she does whether cooking a meal or cleaning a space should come from a place of care, not compulsion. At the same time, we should not ignore the beauty in these acts. A righteous woman doesn’t see serving her home as humiliation she sees it as part of building something meaningful. A peaceful home doesn’t just happen; it is nurtured. And many times, it is the small, consistent efforts of the wife that fill that home with warmth. But this is not one-sided. The husband, too, has responsibilities that are heavy and clear. He is commanded to provide, to protect, and to treat his wife with gentleness and respect. He is not allowed to be harsh or demanding. In fact, the Prophet (s.a.w), the best of men, used to help in his home. He did not see assisting his family as something beneath him. So the question is not: “Is she forced to cook?”
The real question is: “How do we build a home that reflects mercy?” Because when love is present: •She will want to care for him •He will want to ease her burden •She will give without feeling used •He will receive with gratitude, not entitlement And that is where the sweetness of marriage lies. Not in strict demands.
Not in cultural pressure.
But in two people choosing each other—daily—for the sake of Allah. A home is not sustained by rights alone. It is sustained by kindness, patience, and mutual giving.

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