Tiffany 🌻🌿

I am more than chaotic I am chaotiff

@sauermom_ I’m 27 and still agreeing cause now I have friends in their mid 30s and they strongly dislike going after anyone over 8-10 years younger. I’ve also heard that the reason men go for 18-24 is because “they’re more fertile” like… women are having babies in their 30s constantly

The replies are all men furious their age preference is not preferred by young women. The QTs are all women agreeing in their early twenties men in their late thirties are not their preference. Men closer in age are women in their early twenties preference

I laugh when I see r*d pill men on here in their 30s talking about only going after women in their early 20s because when I was in my early 20s when men in their mid 30s hit on me all I could think is “why are you still single” “why do you want someone so young” and they just -

flash their money and talk about how rich they are which did nothing for me LOL this is why they all complain about women being after them for money because that’s the only type you grab at that point

The Truth About Healing: Sometimes you don't want to be around anyone at all because the social norms of society seem fake or shallow.

It takes me 4-5 days to clean my bathroom. This is because it’s the worst placement in the studio, has no window, and the vent fan isn’t strong enough to beat the chemicals from cleaning. Just cleaned the sink and my gosh that’s all for today

@SydneyMykah @MacDoesIt Sort of similar to Skins (UK) for sure. It has that type of set up cause some have younger siblings heh? Can use that to jumpstart next Gen like Skins did with Effy. Then again, could also just cancel the show. Replace it with something better

Girl it’s cancelled. The people that watched the first season of this show while in actual high school are already in college and/or graduated. Coming back and convincing us that they are still juniors/seniors won’t work and a time jump just won’t hit right.

He’s a busy man and I text him at the most inconvenient times whilst he’s working. So, to get a near immediate response acknowledging he read it, is more than enough for me to understand what that thumbs up fully means

Me: *sends my dad a bunch of messages thanking him for helping me out over the last few years etc and how I love and appreciate him etc etc etc* My dad: 👍 Me: 🥰

@alohaaaaaaa77 @gaialect I like your line of things being as complex as they are simple

@gaialect Yin and yang baby: as simple as everything is, that’s how complex everything is 🤷🏻‍♀️ definitely better not to think about it too much if you can help it 🤣

everything doesn’t have to be that deep actually

@Kalinyx14 @ATMwithJacy The best thing to do in conflict situations is speak openly and honestly and with the aim of reaching a fair decision. This situation in particular is tricky because it’s three whole kids she didn’t sign up for

@tiffuploaded @ATMwithJacy I mean, in fairness, in the husband's situation I'd make the same choice too. Sometimes two people's needs diverge and they just come to the end of their road together. You'd hope everyone can be an adult about it, despite the obvious pain.

At least she’s honest. Kids deserve the best but at the bare minimum — they deserve a parent that actually wants and loves them.

@jaiden248 @gaialect I feel like there was much less variety of parenting advice available as well when they raised me and my siblings. These days, parents can prepare a lot more before even bringing a child into the world. I think people prep more these days with a lot more emotional foresight

@jaiden248 @gaialect I’ve been healing my relationship with my parents since 2019. It takes a lot more work on my end (in my opinion) as I go through inner child and shadow work. Covid put a strain on the healing cause lockdowns and I moved out. Yet it oddly helped too. Having distance from them.

of course your parents can trigger you easily, they’ve been a source of your trauma since the beginning. they are the first and ultimate trigger.

@arrtnem @t0nit0ne Sorry this got off track a bit, the girls who found me odd due to my (at the time undiagnosed) adhd then excluded me so I had no other option buy hang with the boys. Then those girls get jealous bc they like the guy, then rumours start that I’m a “insert sexual insult” 😅😂

@arrtnem @t0nit0ne In regards to what OG poster said about women being bitchy for no reason etc. I’ve found that those “no reason” attitudes and behaviours are often rooted in jealousy. I have adhd and bonded with guys better as a kid bc hyperactivity. Other girls thought I was odd

Met my ex-bestie on Twitter. How fitting this app is now rebranded to “X”. Elon Musk broke up my friendship. How rude of him to like personally target me wowwwwwwewww

Calmness is a love language.

You know another person can't make you happy. Instead, you're looking to grow together, learn each other, and heal old wounds.

@ATMwithJacy Seems more like she had a boundary set in place that her husband violated. Surely he was aware to some extent that she never wanted more children. In her situation, in her shoes, I’d make the same choice. Kids deserve a parent that wants them. Her husband didn’t respect her

LET ME CLEAR THIS UP RIGHT NOW! That’s that lady choice lol. I do not think she’s wrong — I understand her choice. However it’s best for the kids and HER that she leaves!