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OleanderIvy 🫶🏻

@AdventurousAx

#seniorswiftie. Senior Swiftie aged 51. TNx1 trying to be positive, but sometimes I slip.

United Kingdom Se unió Kasım 2023
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OleanderIvy 🫶🏻
OleanderIvy 🫶🏻@AdventurousAx·
I'm already crying. I am so happy. @taylorswift13 Thank you for giving us the Eras tour and for reuniting us to celebrate the phenomenon.
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OleanderIvy 🫶🏻
OleanderIvy 🫶🏻@AdventurousAx·
@Thereallauster Some of us live in places where a portion of the year we are awake several hours before the sun is up. I use a light box on a timer to try to combat that.
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Laura Hanna
Laura Hanna@Thereallauster·
1) Morning sunlight before phone The first light you look at in the morning matters more than you think. Get 20 minutes of sunlight on your eyes within the first 30-60 minutes of rising. This will: • Suppress melatonin production • Increase cortisol by >50% (your wake-up signal) • Reset your circadian clock • Deepen your sleep that night
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Laura Hanna
Laura Hanna@Thereallauster·
I’m 31. Chronic fatigue and stress cost me a decade of my life. I slept 8 hours every night, but I was constantly exhausted and anxious. But after 2000+ hours studying biology, I finally understood why. My nervous system was stuck in chronic fight-or-flight mode. Here’s how to regulate your nervous system and get your energy back for good (backed by science):
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Joe McBob
Joe McBob@MrJoeMcBob·
This doesn't make any sense, as Opalite jumped 3 million US streams on Spotify the first 3 days of the music video release from the week prior. I am sure some of them were audio, but there's no way that 90+% of them were.
lip predictions@lippredicts

interesting stat this week: drop dead is aiming for just over 700k in video streams this week. ever since YouTube pulled out of the hot 100, no song has managed to do even half of that in a week. the previous record was Opalite (312k)

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OleanderIvy 🫶🏻
OleanderIvy 🫶🏻@AdventurousAx·
@soleiljolina People think I'm an extroverted over sharer, but in reality I selectively isolate because social time exhausts me and only one or two people really get to "know" my matters.
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Soleil@soleiljolina·
The secret to being a private person is to overshare dumb shit so that people think you’re an open book but then not tell them any of the important details of your life
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OleanderIvy 🫶🏻
OleanderIvy 🫶🏻@AdventurousAx·
@zkBaraka @thedarshakrana I think there's a nuance in terms of believing you'll be (or are OK), vs hoping you will be. A depressed person by the metrics reported has a more realistic perception of liklihood. So they hope rather than believe they'll be OK.
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Baraka
Baraka@zkBaraka·
@thedarshakrana This is just pure bs. Its like saying mentally healthy people are delusional lol! We understand reality just fine fyi Telling yourself everything will be fine when in deep shit isn't delusional, it's called hope, reality is things usually turn out fine anyway.
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Darshak Rana ⚡️
Darshak Rana ⚡️@thedarshakrana·
Mentally healthy people live in a permanent hallucination. Lauren Alloy's landmark studies at Temple University shattered a comfortable assumption about mental health. She gave participants a simple task: press a button and try to control when a light turns on. Some had control, others didn't. Depressed participants accurately identified when they had zero influence over the light. Mentally healthy participants believed they were controlling it even when the light operated on pure randomness. The pattern repeated across dozens of experiments. Healthy people overestimated their test scores before getting results back. They predicted longer lifespans, better job prospects, and lower divorce risk than statistical reality supported. Meanwhile, mildly depressed individuals predicted outcomes that matched actual data with eerie precision. Alloy called this "depressive realism" and it reveals something disturbing about human consciousness. What we label as mental wellness depends on systematic self deception. Your brain evolved to lie to you about your chances, your control, and your capabilities because accurate risk assessment would have killed your ancestors before they reproduced. The optimism that gets you out of bed each morning is the same cognitive error that makes you buy lottery tickets. But, the depressed participants who saw reality clearly became more depressed as a result of their accuracy. Knowing the truth about your limited control and uncertain future creates a feedback loop that spirals into paralysis. Evolution faced a choice between accuracy and action. It chose action every time. The people you admire for their mental strength are chemically incapable of seeing how bad the odds really are.
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DAN KOE@thedankoe

If you want a rare life, you have to be delusional. Doubt can enter your mind, and it can sound reasonable, but if you entertain it too much it will slowly drag you down into stagnation. I'd rather reap the lesson from massive failure than do nothing because it's not "realistic."

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Taylor Nation
Taylor Nation@taylornation13·
All’s fair in love and poetry... Happy ✌️ years of #TSTTPD! 🤍
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drew@drewgirlevil·
ttpd has been a magnum opus since day one for the freethinkers of the world, but what amuses me about the bitter undertone of its current praise is the insinuation that it was penned by someone who no longer exists. a product of pigeonholing its nuances to a “depression album” 🧵
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OleanderIvy 🫶🏻
OleanderIvy 🫶🏻@AdventurousAx·
@Valistryingg That's not meant to support any muse theory, just to say that what looks like grief for what came after a break up, may actually be the grief of the break up.
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OleanderIvy 🫶🏻@AdventurousAx·
@Valistryingg Agree, but do I think there's a huge difference between a 10 yr situationship & an unconscious grief reaction of spending the end of your long term relationship pouring all the emotions & unmet needs into your imagined version of what an old flirtation may have been.
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Valerie❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥
Unfortunately, as soon as I see someone use the phrase ‘10 year situationship’ in relation to TTPD, I automatically disregard your opinions about it. It’s giving I understood the album through YouTube, TikTok and Reddit and not you sitting with the album yourself.
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Alexa Torres❤️‍🔥🇩🇴
@MrJoeMcBob @miladem11 Come on, Taylor basically gave up her chance to reach #1 on purpose and didn’t even try. It feels like she just wanted to move on from the song and didn’t do anything to push it. Supporting physical sales is fine, but why ruin a song’s chances instead of trying to get it to #1?
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Joe McBob
Joe McBob@MrJoeMcBob·
The point of Taylor selling a RSD vinyl is not to get ET to Number 1 (that would not happen whether or not Olivia released this week). It's to support local record stores. That's why she did it.
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OleanderIvy 🫶🏻
OleanderIvy 🫶🏻@AdventurousAx·
This is all I think of when I see the absolutist puritans online who believe it's the worst sin to punch down in anyway, but use any justification they can find to hate when it suits them, regardless of truth. See billionaire, jet flights, blocking, not a girls girl...
❤️‍🔥it's you, hi, u'r the problem, it's you@taylor131325723

@Valistryingg @Annamar08094165 The first rule of war is to dehumanize the enemy, then you can torture a human being and kill millions without any morale issues, you'll even think you're doing smth good for humanity. Taylor haters absolutely dehumanized her

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OleanderIvy 🫶🏻
OleanderIvy 🫶🏻@AdventurousAx·
@nicofmyheart Why did my adhd brain make me sing the lyrics right through to i know places before it would call it anything other than "The Hunted" 😭
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Taylor Nation@taylornation13·
All our white diamonds and lovers are forever, but the Elizabeth Taylor Cry My Eyes Violet Glitter 7” Vinyl is only available starting April 18 exclusively as part of #RSD2026! While supplies last. 💎 Find your local record store at recordstoreday.com
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