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@AsyncAndy

OSINT Engineer | Geopolitical Analysis | Building tools to help young men quit addictive/compulsive sexual behavior.

At the end of the world Se unió Aralık 2024
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Andy
Andy@AsyncAndy·
@climatepaige This is a real problem. I suggest you date me so that you don't have to keep going out on dates and finding out people are polyamorous. It would be a sound strategy.
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Paige 🛼🤍@climatepaige·
Do I have an ideological issue with oat milk? No. While I find it disgusting, I recognize that it’s totally okay thing for other people to order. However, lately, I’ve been finding that some coffee shops will put it in my drink, even if I explicitly say “whole milk.” I’ll go back and ask them to remake it, and they’ll apologize and say they misheard me, which I understand, as my voice is a little soft. So I’ve started to loudly say “WHOLE MILK” to baristas, even spelling it out so there is no mistake. That’s solved the problem! The above story is real / not a metaphor and is pretty emblematic of my experience with polyamorous people. The only way they will stop trying to date you is if you loudly and explicitly say M-O-N-O-G-A-M-y, and that only works part of the time! I should not ever go on a date with someone and hear that they are polyamorous! And yet it happens! So what should my strategy be?
Matt Bateman@mbateman

@climatepaige I’m sympathetic with what I understand to be your situation(s) and the thrust of your response(s), but after a certain quantity of years and tweets and energy committed in this manner, it seems pretty clear that you’d benefit from a different sort of strategy on this front

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dounbug@dounbug·
no second date, but at least he now understands how modern conflict is no longer confined to kinetic methods, encompassing cognitive, cyber, social, political, economic, and narrative dimensions where the most advanced military isn’t guaranteed to prevail
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Andy@AsyncAndy·
@zeta_globin That's insane. We've got to do better than this guys.
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zeta@zeta_globin·
zoomers aren't having sex but also zoomers are spending like two to three hours a day on tiktok which explains the no sex thing, I had the grad students send me their screen time stats
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Elon Musk@elonmusk·
@mark_k @cursor_ai Coding will be generically available from many companies in a few months
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Andy@AsyncAndy·
It's a real problem. I'm actually currently building an app to help men quit/control porn use. Not just vibe coded slop, and with a method based on evidence backed models of recovery. It will help guys learn not just how to quit, but how to live a life that sustains long-term recovery. I'll be releasing some info about it in the coming days, if this sounds useful to anyone reading this please feel free to DM me. I'd love to hear your input.
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Meghan Murphy@MeghanEMurphy·
It’s true. All women I know are sick of dating porn addicts.
Xad Phrone@XPhrone

@MeghanEMurphy The only complaint I've heard from women wrt dating is the men are porn users, which pretty much covers the first 3 (72%) of the original chart you commented on. It's probably true only 1% of men don't watch porn. Great news men, you can control that!

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Andy@AsyncAndy·
@elonmusk Am I shadow banned for having "sexual" in my bio?
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Andy@AsyncAndy·
Yep!! I'm working on an app right now designed to help young men get over their porn addictions and the entire premise is that it's focused on improving your life and tackling the problem holistically rather than just trying to power through urge and urge and never changing the root cause.
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The Liberated One
The Liberated One@Theliberatedone·
#1. Porn is not the main issue Porn is rarely the source problem; it is a side effect of a deeper problem. Common main reasons for why people fall into Porn Addiction is: • Loneliness • Past Traumas • Not feeling good enough Porn addiction rarely is superficial for most.
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The Liberated One@Theliberatedone·
I have worked with porn addiction for over 20 years. Here are 3 important things 99% of people don't know (but should):
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Andy@AsyncAndy·
It's crazy how porn is destroying an entire generation of young men and instead of treating it like the public health crisis it is we just call them incels.
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Andy@AsyncAndy·
@aditiitwt It wont make you developer, no, but it WILL make you a product manager - which is often more of the goal anyway than just becoming a "developer"
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aditii@aditiitwt·
AI WONT MAKE YOU A DEVELOPER AI WONT MAKE YOU A DEVELOPER AI WONT MAKE YOU A DEVELOPER AI WONT MAKE YOU A DEVELOPER AI WONT MAKE YOU A DEVELOPER AI WONT MAKE YOU A DEVELOPER AI WONT MAKE YOU A DEVELOPER AI WONT MAKE YOU A DEVELOPER AI WONT MAKE YOU A DEVELOPER STILL VIBE CODING?
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Andy@AsyncAndy·
@TerekhinIvan Ahaha I panicked for a sec when I saw that 😂
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Andy@AsyncAndy·
Nope this is just not true. I AM an engineer who spent thousands of hours learning how to code before AI and yet I love that now people have the ability to make whatever they want without needing to do the same. Is it scary? Yes. But it's still a wonderful advancement in technology and people should be able to use it as much as they want without getting guilt-tripped over it.
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Andy@AsyncAndy·
@francryptofit If I was over 40, yes. Right now though at 27 I’m looking for women close to my age or older.
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Fran 🛫@francryptofit·
Guys: Would you date a woman 15 years younger than you?
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Andy@AsyncAndy·
@loftwah Do you have any means to speak it regularly? Friends, internet communities, travel, etc? If so, it might be easier. Otherwise it’ll be even more of a struggle.
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Loftwah@loftwah·
@AsyncAndy That could be okay. Like the old people who can hardly speak English properly. I could deal with that.
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Loftwah@loftwah·
How hard would it be to learn Mandarin in your forties? Is it too late?
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Andy@AsyncAndy·
@lyssasphere (Any women reading this that wants something like this…. well I’m recently single. I’ve got a 6 pack and nice arms 👀😂)
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Andy@AsyncAndy·
Get you a man who supports your vibe. A guy who cooks you meals, does your chores, and tries to make your life easier. A man who will worship the ground you walk on and treat you like royalty. Real men are’t afraid to be simps, they’re honored to have the opportunity to dedicate themselves to a deserving woman.
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A🦅@lyssasphere·
Believe it or not I really prefer being single Men have only tried to ruin my vibe and my vibe is precious and I want to represent myself 100% to the world I refuse to make myself smaller for anyone anymore
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Andy@AsyncAndy·
@Wuuky718 Why’d you delete this post 😂??
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Kayla@luv2read13·
who up feeling really really bad and also scared
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Andy@AsyncAndy·
It’s giving “fall of the Roman Empire”
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Andy@AsyncAndy·
@cammakingminds Start by not forming a “relationship” with it. That’s unhealthy anthropomorphism. LLM’s aren’t beings you can have relationships wirh. They’re tools that you use.
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Lucid™@cammakingminds·
The people that give LLMs custom instructions and names and avatars they picked out kinda freak me out like I don't even edit messages because it would violate their autonomy what is the point of a relationship with something you completely control 😶
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