King Botus🐘

TALES OF A SUFFERING MAN I sat in my car for 23 minutes before work not because I was early, but because I didn’t know if I had anything left in me. My hands were shaking on the steering wheel. My chest felt tight, like something was sitting on it. My mind kept whispering, “Just go home. Just rest.” But reality doesn’t care how you feel. The clock doesn’t pause. Bills don’t wait. So I stepped out. By the time I walked into the building, I had already put my mask on. Smiled at a few people. Nodded like everything was normal. Inside, I was exhausted. Not just tired drained. No one asked if I was okay. Instead, I got more deadlines. More pressure. More reminders about how “important” everything was. That night, my phone didn’t give me a break either. My mum needed help with bills,my younger brother needed school fees,my girl wanted to know why I’d been distant. I stared at the screen for a long time. I didn’t tell anyone about the sleepless nights or the fact that I haven’t felt genuinely happy in months. I just typed, “I’m fine.” Because as a man that’s the only answer the world seems willing to accept.

May our today be better than our yesterday Iséé

THE MONSTERS WE MADE I used to complain about how entitled women had become how everything felt like a demand, how nothing was ever enough. But one day, I had to be honest with myself I helped create that problem. I remember my ex clearly. When we started, she was simple, appreciative. The kind of woman who said “thank you” for the little things. But I didn’t like “little things.” I wanted to impress. I overdid everything expensive gifts, constant money transfers, solving problems she didn’t even ask me to solve. If she mentioned something once, I made it my duty to provide it twice. At first, she resisted. “You don’t have to do all this,” she’d say. But I insisted. I thought that’s what being “the man” meant. Slowly, her expectations changed. The same things she once appreciated became normal. Then they became insufficient. If I didn’t do more, there was a problem. If I pulled back, I was “changing.” I started feeling used but the truth hit me hard I set that standard. I trained her to expect more than was necessary, then got frustrated when she did exactly that. That’s when I realized: a lot of what we call “entitlement” didn’t just appear. It was built, reinforced, and rewarded by men like me who gave too much, too fast, without boundaries. We complain about the outcome, but we ignore the role we played in creating it.

@CFC_OBED I dey try ooo

Bro to bro , grow your x account

@Amy_beke @obikoyaemmanue1 Na wetin dey give men sperm cramps be this Too much kissing

sex is so overrated, kissing >>>>>>>

@te_re_nce_dawg @Great01946235 Yes ooo

Do you have friends who can send you 50K urgently???

@that_girldivy People will not understand this until they use pure water baff ,cook and worst of all flush toile

Do we agree tha Not having water is way worse than not having light?

@Ellis_ We don't pretend they are good if they are not

@Boy994Boy @_falsi1ke Unless you’ve tried it before don’t call it rubies

@BotusKing @_falsi1ke Who taught you this nonsense Pls don’t teach ur jnr bro or ur sons this rubbish.

Bro to Bro: Never HAVE SEX with a woman who is OLDER than you.

Chelsea negotiating Baco deal with themselves and deciding how much his left hand will pay his right hand

@the_Lawrenz Why? Why can't my siblings do it?

You are the person that will break the generational poverty on your family. Get ready. 😎

@pallnandi The world is becoming dangerous

Remember when parents let their kids wander the neighborhood all day with no phone… just one rule: be back before dark? What changed?

@CFCDray Weird people

@BotusKing He still has 😂😂

you’d be surprised by the number of people who rated that bum here

@peegzy1 Women like toxic mehn more

A lot of men with green flags are actually single.

@badgalil_ I exist ooo

Serious question: Do boys who are virgins exist?

@mobola_ade Even women

Men hate to hear 'no sex before marriage' Why??

If she can't take care of herself then she shouldn't be in a relationship

@pallnandi How does it work please 😂😂😂

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@AfamDeluxo None nwanne

There is absolutely no personal incentive to join the military back home.