Lance Pyburn

In case you needed another reason to vote against Abbott in 2022 - he’s turning away federal funds for Texans who lost a year of work due to a pandemic. 🤦‍♂️ #AbbottFailedTexas

@bryanchalker @TGC You’re wrong - Jesus never spoke on trans existence as recorded in the Bible at least. The story of the Eunuch is the closest example & they were “affirmed,” in their existence. You aren’t holding on to Jesus’ teachings, you’re holding on to White Supremacy theology.

@TGC Well-thought out and presented article on how we, as Christians (and Christian parents) should be. It's a difficult world we are in and holding firm to what Christ truly taught is the only anchor. He doesn't affirm the lifestyle any more than he does a drunk or adulterous one.

For many Christians, "transgenderism" is not just an abstract moral debate. It's their deepest pain, their greatest prayer, their child. The article below is one such story, published anonymously, from the parent of a child who identifies as transgender: 𝐈 𝐋𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐌𝐲 𝐓𝐫𝐚𝐧𝐬𝐠𝐞𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐫 𝐂𝐡𝐢𝐥𝐝. 𝐈 𝐋𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐉𝐞𝐬𝐮𝐬 𝐌𝐨𝐫𝐞 _____________________ Jesus connects family strife to bearing a cross (Luke 14:26–27), and I’m beginning to understand these verses personally. Following Jesus has led to a type of death between my oldest son and me, my wife, and our other children. My son professed faith in Jesus at a young age. He consistently engaged in spiritual conversations with me, our family, and our church family. We taught the Scriptures in our home through words and actions. So it came as a shock to us when, last year, he stated he had gender dysphoria and wondered if he was transgender. Within a few months, our 18-year-old firmly believed he was transgender and that an LGBT+ identity was compatible with Scripture’s teaching. 𝘼𝙨𝙠𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙒𝙝𝙮 My wife and I had many questions swirling in our minds: 𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘩𝘢𝘥 𝘩𝘢𝘱𝘱𝘦𝘯𝘦𝘥 𝘵𝘰 𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘴𝘰𝘯? 𝘋𝘪𝘥 𝘸𝘦 𝘥𝘰 𝘴𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘸𝘳𝘰𝘯𝘨? 𝘞𝘩𝘺 𝘥𝘪𝘥𝘯’𝘵 𝘎𝘰𝘥 𝘱𝘳𝘰𝘵𝘦𝘤𝘵 𝘩𝘪𝘮? As we look back on what contributors might have led our son to this lifestyle, we can only land on a few. First, an old friendship came back into our son’s life during COVID shutdowns and grew over time. This friend was moving through the spectrum of the LGBT+ community. My wife and I encouraged our son to be faithful to the Word, which included showing love and grace to his friend. Second, a few other people who had meaningful relationships with my son expressed to him their belief that LGBTQ lifestyles can align with Christianity. While my son currently believes all LGBT+ identities are compatible with Christianity, he has also admitted his relationship with Jesus isn’t great. His mom and I know that if he’s a genuine believer, he must turn from the sin he’s in, because “those who do such things will not inherit the kingdom of God” (Gal. 5:19–21; 1 Cor. 6:9–10). If he embraces this lifestyle, he doesn’t give evidence of genuine trust in and obedience to Jesus. Since my son made his decision, I’ve read about potential triggers and causes for why individuals can be drawn into LGBT+ identities. Whether there are real internal or external pulls, I’ve come to realize that, at some point, I have to simply surrender to the Lord that I don’t know what I don’t know. I pray that’s not a lazy response on my part but instead an admission of surrender to the Lord. He knows and he sees, and the greatest answer for my son and for my family is Jesus. But saying that is much easier than living it out. 𝙇𝙤𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙊𝙪𝙧 𝙎𝙤𝙣 For months after his announcement, our son was mostly closed and antagonistic toward us. As he became more confident in his views, he opened up more. Today he’s cordial, but there have been many roadblocks on this journey. For example, when he was finally willing to talk with us, he communicated his hope that we’d call him by his new chosen name and pronouns. We knew we couldn’t do that. At one point, he said that by not using his preferred name and pronouns, we weren’t doing the bare minimum to love him. Hearing that crushed our hearts. But we thought, 𝘏𝘰𝘸 𝘤𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘥 𝘸𝘦 𝘢𝘧𝘧𝘪𝘳𝘮 𝘢𝘯 𝘪𝘥𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘪𝘵𝘺 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘪𝘨𝘯𝘰𝘳𝘦𝘴 𝘎𝘰𝘥’𝘴 𝘨𝘰𝘰𝘥𝘯𝘦𝘴𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘩𝘪𝘮 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘪𝘨𝘯𝘰𝘳𝘦𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘨𝘰𝘰𝘥𝘯𝘦𝘴𝘴 𝘰𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘱𝘩𝘺𝘴𝘪𝘤𝘢𝘭 𝘣𝘰𝘥𝘺? 𝘏𝘰𝘸 𝘤𝘢𝘯 𝘸𝘦 𝘪𝘨𝘯𝘰𝘳𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘴𝘰𝘯 𝘪𝘴 𝘮𝘢𝘬𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘩𝘪𝘮𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧 𝘤𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘭 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘑𝘦𝘴𝘶𝘴? 𝘈𝘯𝘥, 𝘎𝘰𝘥, 𝘸𝘩𝘺 𝘪𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘢𝘱𝘱𝘦𝘯𝘪𝘯𝘨? During one conversation, when we said we couldn’t use his preferred name and pronouns, he said to us, “Then I can’t guarantee I won’t kill myself.” He eventually went to his room, wailing and weeping profusely. My wife and I were also crying, feeling helpless. Certainly, it’d be easier to simply call him by his preferred name and pronouns. Certainly, it’d be easier to celebrate the things he celebrates. In these moments, it’s hard to remember that the change he’s asking for will harm him not only spiritually but also mentally and physically. Last year, my son suffered severe depression and suicidal ideation, admitting himself to the ER during Christmas break. It was the bleakest Christmas my family had ever experienced, and those weeks led to months of wondering if I would find my child dead in his room. Our questions persisted: 𝘞𝘩𝘺 𝘤𝘢𝘯’𝘵 𝘸𝘦 𝘫𝘶𝘴𝘵 𝘩𝘰𝘭𝘥 𝘩𝘪𝘮 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘮𝘢𝘬𝘦 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘣𝘦𝘵𝘵𝘦𝘳? 𝘋𝘰𝘦𝘴 𝘎𝘰𝘥 𝘤𝘢𝘳𝘦? 𝙇𝙤𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙅𝙚𝙨𝙪𝙨 𝙈𝙤𝙧𝙚 When my son thought we hated him, he didn’t realize our love for Jesus (and for him) is greater than he could imagine. In Luke 14:26, when Jesus tells his disciples they’d have to “hate” their children, he wasn’t speaking of literal hatred. The Scriptures are replete with God’s good commands to enjoy and sacrificially love our children (Deut. 4:9; Prov. 17:6; Isa. 49:15–16; Mal. 4:6; Col. 3:21; Eph. 6:1–4). Jesus doesn’t contradict this. Instead, he’s emphasizing the degree of the sacrifice you make when you love Jesus. Your love for Jesus can be viewed by your family, even your children, as hatred. The reality is that my wife and I love our son, and we’ve always wanted to love what he loves because we love him. Yet in this, we couldn’t affirm him. We couldn’t “delight in evil.” We had to “delight in the truth” even if our son felt like our love was actually hatred (1 Cor. 13). She and I must die to ourselves for a few reasons: 1. Jesus is life and the only way to living life to the fullest. 2. Our words and actions can point our son to his need for Jesus. 3. We trust that dying to self leads to greater life and praise to God. We know every parent has to die to self to truly love his or her child. It’s a pattern we set from the beginning. Our children don’t always know what they want or what’s best for them. And we don’t either, which is why we have to trust Jesus and his Word. Regularly, my wife and I admit the only way we can follow Jesus through these tumultuous waters is by the sustaining grace God gives in Jesus. My son’s struggles have shown us our dependence on Jesus. And as we gaze at our Savior, we see how Jesus’s death was the only one that blossomed into resurrection life—not only for himself but for all who trust him as their Savior and Lord. If I’m resting in Jesus and looking to him, my continued death—resulting from my child’s spiritual blindness—can only mean more life. This doesn’t mean I’ll always get the things I think I should receive. But it does mean God wastes no deaths that share in Christ’s suffering.

@TGC No - it’s clear that the coward of a parent who wrote this does just believe gender identity is an abstract moral debate. If they didn’t, they could simply just love their child - as Jesus taught them to.

@ZachWLambert The fact this coward of a parent can’t love their transgender child proves that they don’t, in fact, love Jesus.

1.8 million LGBTQ+ youth consider suicide each year and 1 attempts suicide every 45 seconds. Trans youth are 2.5x more likely to attempt suicide. But having just one accepting adult reduces suicide for LGBTQ+ youth by 40%. Trans kids will die because of this toxic garbage from @TGC. It is evil and we must clearly designate it as such. It’s especially wicked to publish on the day before Thanksgiving when many trans youth will be with their families. This is anti-Christ.

I’m too clumsy to be around fragile masculinity

Fellow Texans who can’t stand Governor Abbott’s failed leadership - here’s a call to action 📞📱

Wherever you live in America, here’s why you should care about Governor Abbott’s removal of school board members in Houston:

Making eye contact with Chris Pine during the Q&A after the new Dungeons & Dragons SXSW premier basically made my year.

@GregAbbott_TX That’s false. It also would make it so that rural Texans receive less funding for the only school in their areas. Abbott is against Texan children & families. Only cares about the wealthy elites.

Texans from every community — rural, urban, and suburban — support expanding school choice in our state. This session, we will ensure Texas parents are empowered to choose the best educational opportunity for their child. #txlege

@GregAbbott_TX Abbott has been defunding education in this state for years. All this big talk about funding police & we have the highest school shooting rates. Texas children deserve better leadership than this.

Cops quit woke Austin in droves. Austin must still comply with the law I signed that defunds cities that defund their police. If Austin doesn't maintain its police force, it will not be able to take more taxpayer money & spend it on non-police matters. nypost.com/2023/03/03/cop…

Weighing in that there is more trauma created by church & organized religion than by drag queens. I’d argue that is the case without question.

@aprilajoyr There are so many pics of kids screaming & hating their experience in church.

Tonight we went to a rally in Chattanooga to protest the TN anti-lgbtq bills. This couple was there using the Bible to condemn everyone to hell. Thankfully, I had a sign for this.

Billionaire mega-donors are trying to destroy Texas public schools with a private voucher scam. They say it’s what parents want. But thousands of parents just showed up at the Texas Capitol to defend our schools. These PTA moms have a message: Come and Take It. #txlege

@timmy3655 Was a joke about The Rolling Stones list not including Celine Dion

@LancePyburn What brought this on?

I for one will be canceling my long held Rolling Stones subscription. This stings, but my heart will go on.

New year, same me

@GregAbbott_TX And you tweeted a Bible verse on Christmas. Looks like you’ve already forgot the reason for the season - or never knew it to begin with. 🙄

Texas National Guard are installing additional layers of razor wire in high-traffic areas for illegal crossings at the Texas-Mexico border. They’re working around the clock to secure the border in the federal government’s absence.

@frannieOh Hope it goes away without much issue!

What are you looking forward to in 2023?

@ThatsQuiteAWalk The implicit homophobia is astounding

I’m starting to think that all boomers will find something to comment on about your way of being. Most comments about not being enough seem to come from a boomer.