Sarah Land

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Sarah Land

@SarahKay39

Mum to Heidi (complex medical needs, total superstar) Founder of @PeepsHIE Charity. Passionate about making a difference &raising awareness of H.I.E #HeardOfHIE

Se unió Haziran 2011
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Donna Ockenden FRSA, Hon DLitt Hon DSci
So a 3rd visit in 3 wks to ED for my darling @OckendenPhoebe. I was away on holidays & with her learning disabilities the NHS FAILED to give her safe care: 7 hrs in a chair/ seizures / 1 set of vital signs/no medication/ no medical review. Until I raised the roof! Disgusted! 😡😡
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Sarah Land@SarahKay39·
As some of you may know (though we haven’t publicly shared before!), we’ve been through a lengthy process recently. We’re pleased to share yesterday we were approved by panel as adopters 🥳 Team Land will hopefully be growing in the not too distant! #NationalAdoptionWeek
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Alice@alice_toppingx·
@SarahKay39 @FeedingAlliance @drruthannharpur @acadofideas ...about breastfeeding reducing the risk of breast cancer it triggers me as not only did my daughter die a totally preventable death, I'm apparently now at higher risk of breast cancer. Great! Makes me very fucking angry.
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Sarah Land@SarahKay39·
It’s #WorldCerebralPalsy day. Cerebral Palsy affects Heidi in lots of ways - and for her sake I wish it didn’t. However, it doesn’t affect her sense of humour, her level of sass, or her ability to light up the room. 💚💚💚 @PeepsHie
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Sarah Land@SarahKay39·
So often, as parents to a child with complex medical needs, we’re told self care is important - “have a long bath”, “book a weekend away”, “find a hobby you enjoy”….we don’t have time, & we’re often too stressed! It’s important, and small changes are definitely the way to go ☺️
Action for Happiness@actionhappiness

Self-care isn't selfish. You can't pour from an empty cup💕 So join the Self-Care September challenge and find ways to be kinder to yourself as well as others actionforhappiness.org/self-care-sept… #SelfCareSeptember

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Emily Barley@EmilyJBarley·
@SarahKay39 @catherineroyuk How smoothly everyone moves from 'don't be silly, there's nothing to worry about' to 'why didn't you speak up louder!'
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Emily Barley@EmilyJBarley·
The one thing that would make the biggest difference to maternity safety is encouraging women to voice their concerns, then taking them seriously and acting. I'm stunned that not only is Royal Surrey maternity not doing that, but they're dressing it up as an *affirmation*!?
Catherine Roy@catherineroyuk

The new hypnobirthing affirmations which will be put on the walls of Royal Surrey maternity rooms. Or how the principles of science-based medicine have been reduced to five commandments. 🐷 1. I trust my care team, my baby is safe, I am safe 1/5

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Sarah Land@SarahKay39·
@catherineroyuk I wish we had had more information about when things don’t go to plan - not about scaring families, but informing and preparing, giving choices. Maybe things would have been different I had known more.
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Catherine Roy
Catherine Roy@catherineroyuk·
Antenatal classes are a middle man that is totally unnecessary, incl. NHS ones. The truth is that healthcare professionals owe us all the info about our pregnancy & birth. Classes are only what is deemed we should know. They're not healthcare. And many give misinformation.
Lauren@Laurenncaul

My NCT experienced summed up in a birth plan. NCT is advertised as if they have all the answers but realistically all they did was scare me away from actual healthcare and push a pretty dangerous narrative that my body was able to look after my baby properly. 1/2

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Sarah Land@SarahKay39·
Not blogged for a while, but getting started again, and hoping the book will be finished this year🤞🏻It’s been hard looking back on those early weeks and months with Heidi, I don’t think anyone can fully “get it” unless you go through it 💕 firefly.sunrisemedical.com/uk/en/bloggers…
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Sarah Land@SarahKay39·
This rose is called “Heidi Peeps”, a gift a couple of years ago and miraculously it has survived another winter. I’m not green-fingered so pretty happy with If it’s all getting a bit much (politics!), trying a moment to appreciate the things around 💐
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Sarah Land@SarahKay39·
@JamesTitcombe We asked 3 times if H was ok. 3 times she can’t have been. On the 4th she was taken to be resuscitated. I struggle to understand, parents should be listened to, always, and in the situations where everything is ok, reassurance and an explanation of why would be helpful.
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Sarah Land@SarahKay39·
@JamesTitcombe Can totally relate (I wish I had known so much more and had the confidence at the time to speak up). We weren’t to know 💙
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Sarah Land@SarahKay39·
Yesterday was H.I.E. Awareness Day, something I set up 6 years ago. It’s been great to see so much more activity and understanding, as the community of families touched by H.I.E. grows. There’s a long way to go though! Please check out @PeepsHie and find out more 🌻#HeardOfHIE
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Sarah Land@SarahKay39·
@NCTcharity It was almost 9 years ago, we have found support elsewhere. I did reach out via email on the 7th May 2020 and the 30th June 2021 but sadly didn’t hear back. You state you are “the UK’s leading charity for parents” and I would very much like to know what this is based on.
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NCT@NCTcharity·
@SarahKay39 Sarah, we're sorry to hear about your experience, which appears to have fallen short of our high standards. We'd welcome hearing your feedback whenever you're ready. We're here to listen and reflect on all feedback. You can reach us on enquiries@nct.org.uk and we will be in touch
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James Titcombe@JamesTitcombe·
“A woman’s body will not grow a baby it cannot push out” Does anyone else have any quotes from NCT classes to share? #NCTquotes
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Sarah Land@SarahKay39·
@RMatthewsPsyEdu @JamesTitcombe @NCTcharity Yes we had the same, oxytocin all the way! A picture that every birth will be amazing, no interventions necessary if you just remind yourself that it’s all ok…🙄
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