Rising Star 🌟

Every friendship/relationship/ association is a give-and-take! It is NEVER a one-way street. People who think they have given so much (martyr complex), didn't the other person also give you something? An ear, empathy, time, care, motivation, support, encouragement, appreciation?

EMOTIONS YOU MUST NOT SHOW TO A NARCISSIST - Fear: they feed on it. - Desperation: it makes you their puppet. - Hurt: it validates their power. - Jealousy: it's their favorite game. - Helplessness: it invites domination. - Over-Explaining: it signals weakness. - Rage: they'll flip it and blame you. - Attachment: they weaponize it. The safest emotions to show a narcissist? Calm. Neutrality. Unbothered energy.

Mann hi nahi ho raha productive banne ka 😅

Normalize saying "Someone who cares about me would not treat me this way." And move on, no matter who it is.

A Sunday outing with friends. Some north Indian chaat at Delhi Se followed by some crazy conversations over drinks that stretched for 6 hours! 😅🥂

To whoever needs to hear this.

Isolating a woman with empty promises for a long period of time so you can keep her a secret while using her as much as you can until discarding her when convenient is predatory, narcissistic, and abusive

How important it is to understand this (and also to reflect on it the other way around)!

Varahi Amma

There is no universe where the person who dysregulates your nervous system is the love of your life

Date ppl who are gentle with you bc love is ethical before it is emotional. That part gets skipped a lot. Attraction & chemistry can be loud but even trauma has chemistry too.

Good morning... 🌞 Now playing. 🎵 🎶 ☺️ 🩵

@SheIsTheFire 👌🫶👏👏👏 That so resonates . . Probably similar mindset on most days . . I want to be in a cave on top of a hill on some days!!!

My liberation, salvation, moksha, release, freedom, everything comes from PEOPLE and social interactions. I'm the extrovertEST extrovert that I can imagine.... I honour and reward myself for the amount of extrovertedness that God has granted me. 🧿🙏🏻 I have zero stage fear too. All I want in my life is people, and more people, and more people. 😅 I have been a people magnet right since childhood. I blend with people of any age, gender and background. I want to talk to everyone possible and know what's going on with them... Share my thoughts with them... I'm very eager to see how our stories are intertwined and what we can learn from one another. 🧿

@ItsRDil It's not right or wrong... Just individual values and ways of loving/ living.

@SheIsTheFire I believe wrong is wrong even if everyone doing it. Stick to your belief !

It's been a while since I experienced a romantic commitment. Like, "this is my person" kinda vibe. A secure feeling. Exclusivity is so rare and so precious! 🧿💜 'My person' should not be confused about me, nor should they be a public property, romantically accessible to anyone else. Today I was just hanging around and a friend said, "Exclusivity as a concept is dead! No such thing like love exists anymore... The faster you accept it, the better you can live in this time and era". It got me thinking a bit... Your opinion? Am I out of sync with our times?

@deejay0371 Hmm... And what to do if I discover that I do feel a bit disconnected? #GenuineQuestion

@SheIsTheFire No, you are probably speeding thru your milestones faster than most others . . You don’t need to be in sync; just watch out for being / feeling disconnected . .

@Pinacodalda True that

@SheIsTheFire Nope. Exclusivity isnt dead concept. It depends on person. Some of the millennials are justifying cheating in the name of dead exclusivity tbh I like genZ more,they’re straightforward,u will say they change partner frequently but when exclusivity matters,they never back down

@vissu70 🙏🏻

@SheIsTheFire Good Morning

Trust what your soul tells you.

When you hurt someone and maintain a relationship with that person, they may bring it up again. They may need more clarity. Even if you have apologized, they may bring it up. And when that happens, it is on YOU to be patient and have a discussion about it. If you hurt that person, it's not up to you to tell them when and how to heal. If you are truly sorry and care about them, you gotta deal with those uncomfortable feelings about how they're still hurting over something. These are the consequences of your actions.

Being real with yourself is a spiritual practice.