Men really think “I was going to” counts as effort. No, you weren’t. That’s why you didn’t.

If you cared, you would’ve done it. Excuses don’t count as effort.

Funny how the only ones mad about effort are the ones who never put any in. If the shoe fits, wear it.

@SyzgEle Very narcissistic way to view things.

@SyzgEle You know what's crazy? Women also say that. 🤯

@SyzgEle Fooling 😂

@SyzgEle If women really cared they would shut the fuck up forever

@SyzgEle "I was going to" is pathetic. But women who only see effort when it comes wrapped in their exact expectations are equally blind. You miss the man working 60-hour weeks because he didn't buy flowers. Effort has many faces. Learn to recognize them.

@SyzgEle Why didn't you do it yourself, though?

@SyzgEle Women’s level of narcissism will never seem to surprise me

@SyzgEle That's why you should learn to say no to them early in life

@SyzgEle I thought y'all were strong and independent and don't need no man

Men operate differently and sometimes get caught between competing priorities and responsibilities. Men are often juggling multiple demands like work pressure, financial stress, family obligations, and trying to handle everything that's expected of them. Sometimes "I was going to" means "I had every intention but life threw me ten other emergencies that had to be handled first." Men are conditioned to be fixers and providers, so when urgent shit comes up, they prioritize what seems most critical in the moment. They're not making excuses. They're dealing with the reality that they can't be everywhere and do everything simultaneously. The problem is men are terrible at communicating this context, so it just sounds like they're making bullshit excuses. Men need to get better at either following through on what they say or being honest about their capacity upfront.

@SyzgEle When they want to nothing stops them. When they don’t want to nothing can make them or everything an impediment

@SyzgEle Yes. I've heard this and variations on it like, "You know what I wanted to do?"

@SyzgEle men treating intentions like currency and wondering why the effort account is still empty

@SyzgEle This is why as a man you need to learn how to just say a nice solid NO to women if you don't feel like doing something they ask,stop cuddling their feelings & trying to explain yourself to them,they won't believe you anyways🤭 so save yourself the stress & mental gymnastics🤷🏽‍♂️

@SyzgEle Women really think holding eye contact whilst half smiling as they walk past and away from you is "approaching" you. You didn't

@SyzgEle 10 days left of post like this. Then its "pick me" post for a wrrk trying to get them bills paid by some scrub.

@SyzgEle This is why saying no is very important — saying you were going to and not doing it is worse than saying no — you were trying to show you were considerate while you were not. Excuse is worse than saying no.

@SyzgEle Men don’t think that. That is a very boyish mindset. Yall gotta stop normalizing unmanly shit by saying men do and think that way. Men only do and think these things when they are failing at being a man

@SyzgEle U must be retarded?

@SyzgEle Reason 48,927 On Why I Hate Men 🙄

@SyzgEle Even women too, do it. Nothing personal thought it’s the “intentions” that counts.

@SyzgEle And you complain about men not communicating 😂

@SyzgEle Never fall for this. It's a type of control they use. It's called Either/or. Now go and read. Won't spell everything for you.

@SyzgEle Extraordinarily self-centred way to view the world. Life happens, and people need to express their intentions even if they couldn't accomplish the intended gesture.

@SyzgEle If he was trying whats the issue ???

@SyzgEle they make your life a living hell if you dont do things you intended to do because something happened...They make your life a living hell if you dont promise to do shit you intend to, so whats the point....

@SyzgEle If I wouldn't do it for you, best bet I would tell you straight up......"I was going to" is "I was going to" If you don't believe, that's your business actually.... Because wtf is this entitlement? You wanna be counting my effort in comparison to something else? Lol

@SyzgEle women really think they can judge a man for not doing something when they didn't do it either ur the same person hating on eachother

@SyzgEle Yes I don’t care that’s why I didn’t do it. Gfy!

@SyzgEle Slow pro max

@SyzgEle Very intentionally myopic way to view things

@SyzgEle Stop being a fucken begger then

@SyzgEle The quickest way to shut down communication with a person is to discount or belittle their intentions. We all have things that we 'intended' to do (women included) yet were not able to complete. To assume that a man should do everything he intends is unreasonable and asinine.

@SyzgEle Never-neverland is where the effort goes.