you know it’s kinda sad when you’re in a wlw relationship and your partner starts talking about their dream husband, their dream wedding, or having kids…when you already know none of that can happen with you 😹🌳
butches were raped and beaten by cops for being masculine. to hear ppl say “let butches be feminine” is so frustrating bcs it erases that history of resistance and reduces our identity & history into an aesthetic debate