Sir Ricky Allot🔌

Two thousand years ago, a Roman emperor wrote notes to himself on how to stay calm, disciplined, and good in a chaotic world. I've been using that same philosophy to master myself and build a life worth living. Here's what stoicism actually looks like in practice. 🧵

@FoodsMansa @SirDavidBent Mansa, do you mean like soft chicken or something ? Lol

@SirDavidBent @BraRicky Soft chikena

Never apologize for being hard to reach.

@HifexI97515 @SirDavidBent ..... take all the notes Giddo. Lol

@SirDavidBent @BraRicky ✍️

@onlyfactflow @SirDavidBent Bigmindset always

@SirDavidBent @BraRicky Wisdom opor

@O_omayoza @SirDavidBent Learn or perish. Lol

@SirDavidBent @BraRicky Learnt the hard way.

@streetkynq @SirDavidBent Stay away from unproductive people

@SirDavidBent @BraRicky Avoid those who doesn't worth your attention..

@streetkynq @SirDavidBent I agree, don't lose yourself trying to please others.

@SirDavidBent @BraRicky Setting your boundaries is never a pride.. it's a self-respect...

@akiNuel @SirDavidBent Very much so Nuel, it helps you stay sane

@SirDavidBent @BraRicky Exactly…boundaries are important

@Amiina_cares @SirDavidBent You can't be liked by everyone Amiina, you're not ice cream.

@SirDavidBent @BraRicky many of us fear setting boundaries because we want to be liked, yet that constant accessibility often leaves us drained and quietly disrespected.

@MikeMat14769104 @SirDavidBent Oh yess, those who really matter don't mind at all. They respect you. Always remember that.

@SirDavidBent @BraRicky I agree. And moreso, boundaries reveals your true friends. Friends that can respect your boundaries are the real ones. The ones who flouts, are fake.

@TheTeeTalks @SirDavidBent You did the right thing. Protect your peace.

@SirDavidBent @BraRicky A friend called me around 10 pm. only to talk about a new girl he had shit with in his office with .I warned him never to call me that late if it is not for something important. the next day, he said I was overreacting Since I set boundaries on that, he stopped.

@BraRicky It is best to set boundaries that earn you respect, than grant accessibility that brings you ridicule.

@CynthiaOzumba You'd have to get a fire extinguisher while you mention Cynthia.

@BraRicky I cannot contain the heat 😭

You dey teach Remote workers how to get jobs and you are not getting jobs or haven't even worked with a single remote client. Okayyyyyyyyyy!!!

@77Matrixx @SirDavidBent It was a good session.

Thank you to everyone that tuned in. A special thank you to @SirDavidBent for the words of encouragement and for taking out time to answer the questions that were thrown. Your humility isn't taken for granted. Happy New Month

When you finally realize that someone's behavior has more to do with their internal struggle than it ever did with you, you learn grace. You also naturally learn detachment as well.

I think individuals who consistently maintain privacy regarding their personal lives demonstrate a high level of discipline. It takes discipline to go through things (both good and bad) without turning them into something for attention or validation. In a world where everything is shared and performed for approval, privacy has become rare. And there is something powerful about those who choose to live fully without needing to be seen.

If someone takes everything you say the wrong way, they don’t like you.

Always expect betrayal from women. Not because they’re demons. But Because female loyalty is emotional, not contractual. The second feelings change, so can she.

You do not miss them, you miss the version of them you've made up in your head. Give it time and you'd realize all their shortcomings. you're far better off being alone or with someone else .

@77Matrixx I see you bro

What's that question you have been meaning to ask? Let's answer it....