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@theficouple Context matters. Birds eye view. Fed says "not our job to manage US debt". US debt gridlock to not manage it. Fed will be buyer of last resort. AI coming. Less jobs available overall. Less jobs. Less spending. Less incomes. Not stocks. Not bonds. Not crypto or cash. Commodities.

Let’s say you had $132,000 in the bank. But you also have a $132,000 mortgage at 4.8%. Would you invest the money in the stock market or pay off the house?

@BellaBaddie__ Divorce rate is 50 to 75%. The woman is likely to leave regardless (70% her vs him 30%). Say nothing. Stop dating. It's futile.

Your ex gf texted you saying "I'm dating someone better than you" Reply as a nonchalant guy

@alicem3x Men are smart. Marriage rates and birth rates are plummeting. Cant lose a game if you don't play it.

If men are smarter why can’t they have a full time job and run a household efficiently at the same time?

@allie__voss I like women. I love my mom. I'm living with her right now caring for my parents. Ex wife left me for another man. Divorce is at 50%+. I put my heart and soul into my ex wife. Men should see this and understand statistics are a thing. You don't avoid or "dodge" them.

Y’all really gotta quit thinking the opposite sex is incapable of love I see this from both sexes and it’s both useless and completely untrue

@AdamLaneSmith Divorce rate is 50%+. Very risky. If you grind hard enough you might be able to retire by 80. If you marry, you might lose your wife, kids, and live in a shoe box. Life is risk reward. Marriage and kids in modernity is too high risk. Which is ironic...

Men on social media: “Women don’t want to get married anymore!” Women in my comment sections: “I want to get married so bad. Please help me. I‘ll do anything to get married.”

@MacyGunnell "This is the story of the world's population collapse." It's not hard to see the trend is not going to reverse. I don't blame either gender for letting it collapse. You can have modernity or Family and family values. Not both. Sorry.

The fertility rate of employed conservative women is, on average, 1.39. Liberal women? Only .7 Reminder: the U.S replacement rate is 2.1 Further proving my point— the future of western civilization is screwed if we don’t take appealing to female voters seriously.

@evanwch It was more of a light in the dark for the reality of relationships in modernity. A divorce rate of 50%. The asset split and seizure. Child access. If you can't have a honeymoon phase without worrying about "is this look, talk or kiss ruin my life" you think about it's totality.

I remember the first time I realized how everyday men must have felt during the “Me Too” movement I was on a tinder date when a guy asked permission to kiss me. It was the first time in my life anyone had ever done that and it completely turned me off It was also the first time I noticed how the politics of “Me Too” had seeped into my personal life, how men’s natural behavior had started to shift, shaped by fear “I don’t want to get in trouble,” he said, after noticing my reaction. “Have you seen the news?” This was right after Alyssa Milano asked people to reply “Me Too” if they had experienced sexual harassment or assault. The hashtag was everywhere. Suddenly unavoidable Women don’t understand how the excesses of Me Too have done REAL damage. They’ve made normal interactions between men and women impossible, they’ve made all men marked as “predators” for normal behavior, and it’s turned all women into helpless victims with no agency It’s time we #MuteMeToo

@thatstarwarsgrl It's incredible to see modernity in real time understanding societal collapse is here. The trend is your friend. Men see the writing on the wall. So close to utopia is AI, robotics, and no longer needing human contact at all. And the population collapses into nothing. Hehe.

This is like watching a bad knock off of the twilight zone

@BeverlyHallberg Humans are social creatures. Divorce is dangerous. So marriage is dangerous. The divorce rate is 50 to 75%. Men know, the woman is leaving you. "Not if you work hard" men work hard at many things. Generally the hard work lasts and pays off. Marriage? It's risky. Too risky.

I’m 46 and have worked in DC for 26 years. During that time, I’ve met and befriended many women in high-level careers. Not one has ever told me she chose her career over marriage. In fact, all of them were trying to find a husband. The idea that Millennial or Gen X women broadly chose careers over marriage—at least anecdotally—just isn’t true.

@AntiCommieBecca Not my problem. Let the birth rate drop to zero for all I care. They can fix the issue in 100 years. Less people. Less growth. Less debt repayment. Greater currency devaluing. Etc. The trend is your friend. South Korea and Japan are the trends. Population collapse.

There is no societal collapse. We just got back from the moon again. We are moving into a new age of modernity not going back to the past because a few people feel sad they no longer can compete. It’s a global world there’s nothing you can do to stop that. The only constant is change and you either adapt or die out.

This is correct. A lack of teen births is the primary driver of the birth decline. And a decline in teen births is what conservatives have been pushing for decades. They were right to push for this & it worked! Now oddly they are blaming older successful women who do not have a decline in marriage or birth rates. So they got what they wanted, which was good and now they’re complaining and blaming others, whose behavior has not changed. Totally emotional & irrational! 🤦‍♀️

@RealDianeYap Or... If you don't date or marry, both genders can happily exist together till population collapse happens. Not sure why we should suffer. Let humans in 100 years worry about fixing this.

If men want women to stop "nagging" them, there's an extremely simple solution: think of all the things she's ever nagged you about, and keep on top of all of them. Do them before she asks. She doesn't want to ask, she just wants those tasks done!

@MetamateDaz Divorce rate is 50% plus. You are likely to fail. 70% chance it's her that leaves. No real point. Not our generation or the next likely. Let the population collapse. That should bring about a need for marriage and birth rates. Not our problem.

Men over 30, please be honest: how many of you completely stopped trying to find a gf because dating isn’t worth the stress anymore?

@jess_ann_pin We won't be around but the future will be a utopia of robotics and ai. Or it'll look like 150 years ago. Debts are rising across the world and population collapse means less way to pay it down. You can have modernity or family. Not both.

Men expect women to disproportionately push for commitment while men resist it. Women are opting out of this degrading power dynamic and choosing to be single. Men are complaining that birth rates are too low, though it is their misogyny and refusal of responsibility majority causing this.

@itsnwts Thankfully modernity is here. The sexes do not need each other. Thus the population collapse is inevitable and we get back to where you said the problems were. The dream. Balance.

I'm really going to piss some men off with this BUT the reason a lot of your parents and grandparents stayed married so long is because the women in those generations were financially trapped. When a woman makes her own money, the only thing a man can truly offer her is how he treats her. That's why there's a male loneliness epidemic.

@RealDianeYap You can have modernity, or you can have a family, values, and some form of tradition. You cannot have both. Thankfully the cure for family values was family values. It brought us modernity. The cure for modernity is... Modernity. Societal collapse will be fun for sure.

So many replies are “it’s not the end of the world if he gets the wrong kind of milk” and that’s why I need to re-iterate: men can avoid having these problems at all if they treat their home life as seriously as they treat their jobs. They’d never check in 10x with their boss on one simple task. They would know how things are done and not have to constantly ask. Or, they would be fired.

@inversobrio Need not be concerned. A population collapse will ensure things balance out again. The cure for modernity is...modernity. The collapse of modernity will bring about family values.

"Los hombres en la parte superior de la pirámide responden racionalmente a la repentina abundancia de parejas abandonando por completo el compromiso, ya que el incentivo para sentar cabeza ha sido estructuralmente demolido. Al mismo tiempo, las mujeres que acceden periódicamente a ese nivel superior, por muy brevemente que sea o bajo qué condiciones, recalibran permanentemente sus expectativas al alza, elevando sus exigencias hasta quedarse fuera del mercado realista de hombres que las habrían hecho genuinamente felices. Ninguno de los dos grupos actúa de forma irracional dados los incentivos que se les presentan, lo cual es precisamente lo que hace que esto sea tan dañino: Las aplicaciones no han corrompido el carácter individual tanto como han envenenado todo el mecanismo de coordinación a través del cual generaciones de gente corriente encontraron una pareja duradera. La consecuencia no es una cultura de citas que sea meramente insatisfactoria, sino una que es estructuralmente incapaz de producir los resultados que la mayoría de sus participantes realmente desean."

@CovfefeAnon The decision was already made. Look at South Korea and Japan. Population collapse is coming. If we can't reach a utopia for society with AI and robotics, it's dark ages again likely.

Seeing this and exchange and saying that it "works" for women is actually the ultimate in condemnation of the entire way that the western world has been set up Woman sees famous guy -> DMs him for a plane ticket and sex -> gets a plane ticket and sex -> success Success at what? The woman brain simply cannot process the question any more deeply because the woman brain has been under selective pressure to see that as the end goal because men will take care of the rest of the process by removing choice from her The "success" here it totally empty, changes her into someone no man will happily marry and gives her a thrill that lasts a few minutes Our society has utterly destroyed itself because no one really understood female nature and what women would chase when given total liberation "Surely they will just compete harder for husbands" - quote from men who only ever saw women in a world where they needed husbands

@LizzieMarbach Thus whores is really not needed to be used. Biblical terms are acceptable. If the two become one let NO man separate them. I would like to follow God's command of not coming between someone who already had sex (is married) I have no issues with sinners.

@LizzieMarbach I hope most understand all of it. But im looking for someone not married. Ex wife left me for another man. Biblically I'm allowed to remarry. Looking for someone who is not married (had sex but had no biblical grounds to remarry. Husband cheating on then or death are acceptable.

Us: Formerly promiscuous women can be redeemed this side of eternity. They are not damaged goods. Them: So you’re saying I HAVE to marry an ex-wHoRe?! Us: …No? Them: oh so you’re denying accountability & earthly consequences of sin?! Us: …no? ————————— lol it’s comical because this is coming from the men who often rightly point out how irrational and emotion driven many of the conversations are today. Yet here they are being irrational and emotion driven. Nothing is wrong with a young man desiring a woman who is a virgin. It is GOOD to seek out God’s design—two virgins on the wedding night. In fact, I would go so far as to say that young men SHOULD seek this. They should ideally want that for themselves and their future spouse. Young women should seek this too. Ideally, a young woman should find a man who has a proven track record of leading in purity. None of that is at odds with the fact that God saves & redeems people with a sexual past. And He doesn’t just save them from hell. He redeems them here on earth too. God turns the wicked and makes them as white as snow. Some people who lived a life of debauchery will get married by the grace (unmerited favor, meaning undeserved) of God. Some people will not and will remain single and childless. None of this is at odds with men having standards or recognizing earthly consequences exist & taking accountability. God shows mercy on who he shows mercy. His ways are not our own. Not everyone’s earthly consequences will look the same or be what you demand be done. Be careful not to have an attitude like Jonah who is upset over the idea of his enemies finding grace & mercy. You’re not forced to marry a formerly promiscuous woman. That’s completely okay if you do not! & it is GOOD & natural to desire sexual purity. But, it isn’t sinful or automatically unwise if someone else does marry a formerly promiscuous woman who is saved. & it is not a threat to the church if they do. In fact, I would go so far to say that is in God’s plan for some of them to be married, like Rahab. He predestined many to get married after they are regenerated, & that is GOOD. It all brings glory to God. Learn to hold two thoughts at the same time. I believe in you guys! -it is good and righteous to desire a chaste woman. Men should desire this. -it is good and righteous if another man finds a wife who was promiscuous before Christ but has repented and been regenerated. -the most important factor when seeking a spouse is their salvation. Are they in Christ? Everything else follows from that. He who finds a wife finds a good thing.